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Problems with hookers:
(1) Rush- things are on a clock & sometimes it's a pretty short one (20 minutes can be too short, especially if you consider the whole "on the clock" feel to wear off).
(2) Environment- things might be digging into your back,legs, etc... .
(3) Condom- the feel can detract from things pretty strongly & obviously it creates a barrier.
(4) Limits- there's a surprisingeffect from subtle things that are usually there (ex: no kissing- even if you weren't really looking to do that specifically, things like her closeness when you would be doing that are potentially missed).
(5) Missing "Magnetism"- don't know what to call this & I guess it could be there sometimes, but that can be a big one. Not necessarily something you'd tell the guys about, there it is.
I guess these can all be present with a regular woman, but I think that that's the more "effective" situation. That is, if she's not a general pain in the ass & she's good in bed.
If prostitution was legal here in America, there would be many men who would use their services. Of course, feminists don't want prostitution to become legal because according to them, it turns women into 'sex objects.'
I thought feminists were all for women doing whatever they want with their bodies.
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
But Porn is legal in America because Jews control it. The only reason..Women in America are supposedly "Free" is because they can work in Porn and become sluts...Its also fine to watch porn but not do in real life...
They banned Craigslist adult ads..Even though Craigslist is a private company. They banned Backpage with the excuse of child porn...Now, all these women are free to work in Porn with less pay and more time on screen. There are no online big sites where women can list their services for American men to use..because then American men won't marry and produce slaves for the corporations.
Prostitution is illegal all over the world to create the concept of Marriage and create slaves aka kids.
The number 1 problem for humanity is marriage not prostitutes...I would have made marriage illegal because its a complete total scam for men..You loose the day you get married. Men get nothing whatsoever out of marriage ...Ask the 50% or more divorced American men if it ain;t true
This is the reason I don't interact with "Married Men" any more..because they have so much "responsibility" to create slaves.
Remember, Prostitutes came from a Broken "family" they were not made in a lab.
Man i love prostitutes so much...they complete me
How are children to be raised, co-operative biological units to be established etc?
I really miss that from southamerica and europe, the child-in-candy-store felling, and honestly, the practicality of it.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
I am in favor of prostitution. Women are PROPERTY! It is moral to buy, rent and sell women. A women should be owned by their husband.
You get responsiblility (financial and legal) with no authority over your wife.
WOMEN IN THE WEST ARE NOT WIVES! MEN SHOULD NOT GET MARRIED!
It is only recently that formerly Christian countries made prostitution illegal. Traditional Christianity did not have a problem with it.
Prostitution is a rich man's hobby. Say a guy has an above-median income of $40K/year after tax (I'm not even making this yet, and I have a supposedly marketable degree... but just for argument's sake). At a going rate of $300/hour, a hooker is going to cost him TWO DAYS of slaving away.
Is one hour of pleasure really worth two days of misery? Personally I'd rather invest that $300 and escape this Hunger Games for adults just a bit earlier. I guess I hate working more than I love p***y, but that's just me.
Of course, I disagree. There are a lot of benefits to getting married if one marries a decent woman. I just read on the thread about prostitutes being $300 a night. If that was the going rate, and I had paid that much for every sexual encounter, I would pobably have spent over a million dollars during the first year of marriage. If I were a whoremonger and paid just $30 a pop, I'd probably would have had to have paid $100,000 the first year of marriage. I made nowhere near that as an English teacher. I couldn't have afforded paying $10 that many times. (Not that I would have.) Just from a very raw, selfish, sexual perspective, that's an advantage right there.
I haven't had intercourse with a condom with my wife in over 15 years. We probably used them 10 times or so when we first got married. It allows for release with the minimal amount of physical pleasure, and there is a barrier there. As far as enjoyment goes, condoms allow for what, 10% to 30% of what a regular sexual encounter allows for?
I don't have to worry about STDs with my wife. She was a virgin when she married, and she doesn't cheat on me. I've only been with her, sexually, too. So, let's say I've had sex with her two, three, or four thousand times over the years. What are the chances I got an STD from that-- basically 0%. If I'd gone out and hired hookers, even if I'd used condoms, what are the chances I'd have contracted an STD? Much higher. Condoms dont' even protect against every STD.
Prostitution also nasty. I read in a newspaper about prostitutes who sleep with ten men a day. Let's say you hire one, and you are number 10 for that day. Some other dudes sweaty junk was just in there. There are some diseases that come from the base or pubic area, and not the tip. Crabs is a famous example. If you found a prostitute willing to do you without a condom, she may have done the other ten guys the same way. That may not be her own lubrication. That is just so terribly nasty.
Are there other benefits to being married? Of course there are. I don't care much for cooking. I can make sandwiches and ramen noodles. I can grill meat. I've tried to cook more than that on rare occasion. I made a decent spagghetti sauce once when my wife was learning to cook and had made a thin sweet sauce, and I wanted her to try something thick and garlicy for future reference. I have made french fries and nachos and a few other things. But the vast majority of cooking I've had at home since I got married has been by my wife. (We've had maid cook quite a bit at different times over the years, but it usually pales by comparison.) If I'd have had to pay at restaurants for the gourmet steaks, the Thai beef salad, papaya salad, or gree curry, Korean bulgogi and vegetable side dishes, the various pastas, stir fries, Indian curries, and all the different kinds of dishes she likes to cook for our family, I'd have spent quite a bit of money. If i were alone, I wouldn't be eating that stuff at home.
It is also nice to have someone else who does dishes, sweeps, mops floors, and washes, dries, and iron clothes.
I have kids, too. It is good to actually know them. A man who sleeps with prostitutes can have a bunch of kids all over the place that he doesn't even know. Two of kids could marry each other without him knowing they are brother and sister, and he'd miss out on two of his kids weddings at the same time. His kids could grow up wild and unruly, doing drugs using their mother's customers used needles. If a prostitute hired by a "john" wanted to kill one of his children, in some countries, they could go to the doctor and have it done before the child is born.
As far as socieity is concerned, and as far as the children is concerned, marriage is a whole lot better. Statistics show for children raised with their fathers in the home have better chances of success in terms of various measures like crime rates, drug use, teen pregnancy, grades in school.
In marriage, though, you do have to give. There is another person there to actually love and care about as a human being. She'll get stressed or have problems and want to talk to you about it. You'll have to work to support a household. Some women work outside the home, but by nature and instinct, men are to be providers and protectors. Children also require a lot of protection and support. Of course, in traditional cultures, children care for their parents in old age. You can teach your children to do that, both by example and what you drill into them when they are young.