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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby GoingAwol » Sun Jul 24, 2016 11:53 am

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A man can find an angry, argumentative career woman in the USA. What is the advantage of moving to China only to date angry, argumentative, career women? Doesn't that defeat the whole purpose of going abroad to escape that kind of woman? Why even leave the USA?

Adama,
actually, American men are increasingly unable to find any women in the U.S, even angry and argumentative career women. Take me for example, i'm tall and decent looking, but I can only get obese and ugly women in the U.S. And as bad as I have it, there are tons of guys in America who have it much worse. I know a guy who is a real 40 year old virgin. Shit has gotten ridiculous for men here. And to make matters worse, men are kept in a constant state of sexual frustration because sexual messages are everywhere in American society and don't have any outlet for release (I.E P4P). It's easy to see why there are lots of men going crazy in this society.
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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby Adama » Sun Jul 24, 2016 12:46 pm

GoingAwol wrote:
Adama wrote:
A man can find an angry, argumentative career woman in the USA. What is the advantage of moving to China only to date angry, argumentative, career women? Doesn't that defeat the whole purpose of going abroad to escape that kind of woman? Why even leave the USA?

Adama,
actually, American men are increasingly unable to find any women in the U.S, even angry and argumentative career women. Take me for example, i'm tall and decent looking, but I can only get obese and ugly women in the U.S. And as bad as I have it, there are tons of guys in America who have it much worse. I know a guy who is a real 40 year old virgin. Shit has gotten ridiculous for men here. And to make matters worse, men are kept in a constant state of sexual frustration because sexual messages are everywhere in American society and don't have any outlet for release (I.E P4P). It's easy to see why there are lots of men going crazy in this society.



That may be the case. The point still stands though. If an American woman who was that is considered trash, how is it that another woman isn't just because she's in a different country? Is it about getting any woman or a good one? Move to Asia to get the American type woman you couldn't get back home?

And an American type woman from a race described by that particular person as "subhuman"?
Look for women who automatically want to please you because it pleases them. Any woman who seeks to please her man is a treasure. Even better if you don't have to ask but rather suggest.
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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby Adama » Sun Jul 24, 2016 12:50 pm

GoingAwol wrote:
Adama wrote:
A man can find an angry, argumentative career woman in the USA. What is the advantage of moving to China only to date angry, argumentative, career women? Doesn't that defeat the whole purpose of going abroad to escape that kind of woman? Why even leave the USA?

Adama,
actually, American men are increasingly unable to find any women in the U.S, even angry and argumentative career women. Take me for example, i'm tall and decent looking, but I can only get obese and ugly women in the U.S. And as bad as I have it, there are tons of guys in America who have it much worse. I know a guy who is a real 40 year old virgin. Shit has gotten ridiculous for men here. And to make matters worse, men are kept in a constant state of sexual frustration because sexual messages are everywhere in American society and don't have any outlet for release (I.E P4P). It's easy to see why there are lots of men going crazy in this society.


I think the real problem may be simply that there aren't all that many good looking women in the USA. The women you consider unattractive may seem like the only option because there simply aren't that many hot babes around period. Also I think a lot of American men suffer from low self esteem and don't aim so high as far as quality in women. They'll take anything.
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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby droid » Sun Jul 24, 2016 3:30 pm

Adama wrote:
GoingAwol wrote:
Adama wrote:
A man can find an angry, argumentative career woman in the USA. What is the advantage of moving to China only to date angry, argumentative, career women? Doesn't that defeat the whole purpose of going abroad to escape that kind of woman? Why even leave the USA?

Adama,
actually, American men are increasingly unable to find any women in the U.S, even angry and argumentative career women. Take me for example, i'm tall and decent looking, but I can only get obese and ugly women in the U.S. And as bad as I have it, there are tons of guys in America who have it much worse. I know a guy who is a real 40 year old virgin. Shit has gotten ridiculous for men here. And to make matters worse, men are kept in a constant state of sexual frustration because sexual messages are everywhere in American society and don't have any outlet for release (I.E P4P). It's easy to see why there are lots of men going crazy in this society.


I think the real problem may be simply that there aren't all that many good looking women in the USA. The women you consider unattractive may seem like the only option because there simply aren't that many hot babes around period. Also I think a lot of American men suffer from low self esteem and don't aim so high as far as quality in women. They'll take anything.


That's pretty much it. Supply and demand.
I saw model-looking guys sitting on packed bars, not getting any attention. At that point I said, mhhh ok time to check out. Oh yeah and I met 40yo virgins as well.
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2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby GoingAwol » Mon Jul 25, 2016 4:17 am

I wasn't referring to either of them. I was responding to Adama's claim that a man can find an argumentative career woman in America.
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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby MattHanson1990 » Mon Jul 25, 2016 3:41 pm

Last Friday, I met from Queretaro in a bar, and we seemed to hit it off well, even just as friends. She even passed me her whatsapp and agreed that we would hang out in Queretaro some day. But this morning, I found out that she blocked me on whatsapp. I even heard that Queretaro has very prissy people unfortunately, and other men trying to date the women there also faced uphill battles. Might as well stick with Guanajuato and Michoacan, if not head to Hidalgo, Veracruz, Oaxaca, Chiapas, or even go to Hermosillo.
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Postby Ghost » Mon Jul 25, 2016 5:01 pm

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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby gnosis » Mon Jul 25, 2016 6:14 pm

Ghost wrote:I'm not sure if you're alluding to my ex-girlfriend or my current girl. My ex-girlfriend was not really a career woman, although she did sometimes describe herself as "independent." My current girl was in danger of going full on career woman, with the added danger of having a chance to go work in the U.S. for a while. So far, I've been able to pull her back from the brink of ruining her life.


I hope you are serious about marrying this girl. If you don't marry her, then you've just pushed her to cut off all her other options without offering her anything.

If you are serious about marrying her, how is that going to happen? You can't teach English in the Philippines, and she doesn't want to live in China, correct? But you also won't be able to take her back to the States (which you don't want to do anyway) because you don't make anywhere close to the income necessary to sponsor a visa.
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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby MattHanson1990 » Mon Jul 25, 2016 6:35 pm

Ghost wrote:
MattHanson1990 wrote:Last Friday, I met from Queretaro in a bar, and we seemed to hit it off well, even just as friends. She even passed me her whatsapp and agreed that we would hang out in Queretaro some day. But this morning, I found out that she blocked me on whatsapp. I even heard that Queretaro has very prissy people unfortunately, and other men trying to date the women there also faced uphill battles. Might as well stick with Guanajuato and Michoacan, if not head to Hidalgo, Veracruz, Oaxaca, Chiapas, or even go to Hermosillo.


Women do indeed seem to be getting more and more fickle. If I was in charge, women using social media would probably be a capital offense. No more selfie whoring and going to their palm cocaine every time they feel like it.


Queretaro, especially the state capital, is notorious for snobby people and seems to have a prejudice against Americans. It's in a region of Mexico called the Bajío, where the culture is very conservative and people are highly catholic. And it includes eastern Jalisco, Guanajuato, Queretaro, and the northern part of Michoacan. Guanajuato City was an exception since many people are transplants from other regions in Mexico, not to mention the locals don't have as much money as they do in Queretaro or Aguascalientes. With that said, machismo is still big in Mexico, and the local men still do well. I see a lot of younger guys with girlfriends. Many women are celibate for a long time while the men have no problems getting dates/girlfriends, except in Ciudad Juarez where it's the other way around.
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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby retiredfrank » Mon Jul 25, 2016 6:45 pm

gnosis wrote:
Ghost wrote:I'm not sure if you're alluding to my ex-girlfriend or my current girl. My ex-girlfriend was not really a career woman, although she did sometimes describe herself as "independent." My current girl was in danger of going full on career woman, with the added danger of having a chance to go work in the U.S. for a while. So far, I've been able to pull her back from the brink of ruining her life.


I hope you are serious about marrying this girl. If you don't marry her, then you've just pushed her to cut off all her other options without offering her anything.

If you are serious about marrying her, how is that going to happen? You can't teach English in the Philippines, and she doesn't want to live in China, correct? But you also won't be able to take her back to the States (which you don't want to do anyway) because you don't make anywhere close to the income necessary to sponsor a visa.


And you, sir, are White Knighting. Let him ruin her career, then get her pregnant, then dump her because of some trivial disobedience, so that she's really ruined. You just know he's the type to do that, and all his professed morality is a scheme by his subconscious to lure innocent women to their doom. Subconscious, I wrote, because I do not believe Ghost is consciously devious or hypocritical.

Once she's ruined, she'll be fair game for the sugar daddies like me. (I'm not interested in Philippines right now, but that might change someday.) Licking my chops just thinking about it.
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Re: Slow Death Through Loneliness

Postby gnosis » Mon Jul 25, 2016 6:47 pm

retiredfrank wrote:
gnosis wrote:
Ghost wrote:I'm not sure if you're alluding to my ex-girlfriend or my current girl. My ex-girlfriend was not really a career woman, although she did sometimes describe herself as "independent." My current girl was in danger of going full on career woman, with the added danger of having a chance to go work in the U.S. for a while. So far, I've been able to pull her back from the brink of ruining her life.


I hope you are serious about marrying this girl. If you don't marry her, then you've just pushed her to cut off all her other options without offering her anything.

If you are serious about marrying her, how is that going to happen? You can't teach English in the Philippines, and she doesn't want to live in China, correct? But you also won't be able to take her back to the States (which you don't want to do anyway) because you don't make anywhere close to the income necessary to sponsor a visa.


And you, sir, are White Knighting. Let him ruin her career, then get her pregnant, then dump her because of some trivial disobedience, so that she's really ruined. You just know he's the type to do that, and all his professed morality is a scheme by his subconscious to lure innocent women to their doom. Subconscious, I wrote, because I do not believe Ghost is consciously devious or hypocritical.

Once she's ruined, she'll be fair game for the sugar daddies like me. (I'm not interested in Philippines right now, but that might change someday.) Licking my chops just thinking about it.


That kind of attitude will burn you eventually.
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