It's an internet forum. I use it to bounce ideas off other people. Attack and defense of ideas is how I discover the truth.Eric wrote:frank, you sound like a real miserable guy. I'm sorry that you feel that way - however, you attacking me or anyone else who feels differently than you do disproves your world identity and therefor you can't handle it. You sound like the type of guy, no offense, who orders his world and lives alone because he can't handle anyone elses opinion and claims truth on every. single. thing. The truth is, looks matter of course - but there is a source of energy you must have that you ride and it's called confidence. No offense, but with your attitude it's no wonder you have trouble getting females. What's with the talking about homos, constantly - it almost sounds like you've had experience with it or you're open to it. Just saying.Lighten up, man. ...girls like a fun guy.
A lot of guys have blind spots regarding sex and women, because of the asymmetry between the sexes. For example, men are normally active, women normally passive. Makes it difficult for men to understand women's point of view. Homosexuality offers a way to get around this. For example, it is easier for a heterosexual man to imagine the disgust he would feel at being propositioned by another man, than the disgust women feel at being propositioned by guys they don't find attractive in the least.
Homosexuals also exaggerate aspects of heterosexual behavior, which helps in understanding. In particular, homosexuals make clear the importance of looks. Confidence means nothing. Ugly but confident homosexuals get nowhere. Looks is many things in men, not just the face. We can all learn a lot from homosexuals with regard to what is good-looking in men. It is notorious that women find straight-acting homosexuals very attractive.
I have no moral objection to homosexuality. If it turned me on, I would do it. I don't think homosexuals have an easier time with sex than heterosexual men, contrary to what some on this forum think. The good looking ones can easily get junk sex, but few get love and sex together. The same situation obtains for beautiful women. Easy for them to get junk sex, hard to find love and sex together. That's the gold standard for everyone.
I know a lot more about women and have a lot more experience with women than you Eric. I'm perfectly aware of what they like. The problem isn't getting them, the problem is being turned on by the ones I get. My standards have become very high, as in unicorn high, with age, while my attractiveness to women has dropped. I can buy sex, but I can't buy desire (aka love).
I have a lot of free time on my hands right now, but that ends on a week. So don't worry, you'll soon be able to prattle as much as you want without my contradicting you.