Nailer wrote:None of this makes sense. A general population reduction would reduce the number of men, as well as women.
If women are all at home on the internet, why do dating sites still have ten times more men than women? And this only occurs in the U.S.?
Why does every woman in the U.S. have unlimited choices at her fingerprints, yet good-looking guys struggle to find a girl who isn't fat? I don't believe that women are more inclined to seek relationships and men are more inclined to seek casual sex. From what I have seen, women are having sex with dozens of partners each year and men are struggling to get laid once in a blue moon, if they make a lot of effort. The life of any non-fat AW is dick being constantly offered to her, everywhere she goes. She never has to worry about finding a man because another will be paying attention to her as soon as she walks outside.
The life of any non-fat AW is basically like the show "Californication" with the sexes reversed. As ridiculous as that show seems with women throwing themselves at the main character after he makes a few jokes, it really does describe the reality AW are living in right now. Any AW who shows the slightest hint of a personality and sense of humor with a stranger will have multiple men throwing themselves at her every day.
Even fat ugly women have men out of their league on-tap, at any time. Men struggle to have sex with a girl who isn't fat. And sex is much easier to obtain than an actual relationship, given how flaky AW are.
Even if you are an expert pickup artist, you will make ten times more effort than a fat 40 year old woman and it will take you longer to find a new sexual partner.
The idea that women are less promiscuous or more relationship-minded is ridiculous. At the rate the girls I know are going, they probably have had sex with over 100 partners.
You can learn to compete and deal with this to some degree, since many men have completely given up. I still have success from time to time. But still no one can answer the question.
The BEST ratios you will ever see in America for any large mixed-gender social event is 50/50. The MAJORITY of the time, any large mixed-gender social event will have at least 20% more men. You will routinely see venues that are 90-100% male. Even marriage-minded dating sites have ten times as many men as women. I am completely confident I can go out to a bar tonight and find one with a 20:1 ratio, yet the opposite NEVER occurs.
I believe this is the cause of America's sexual dysfunction. Feminism, bad attitudes, male devaluation are all just symptoms of an enormously skewed apparent gender ratio that is an order of magnitude worse than China's.
No one has an answer to this.
I do agree about the gender ratios and some women really do get to choose from lots of men. However, I think the main problem is that most people only travel between work and home and then back to work and then back home. Many people are not going out to bars and clubs because they are late night dangerous places filled with scum who only want to use and manipulate others. There are lots of lonely women. It is just that many lonely women don't go to bars, don't use internet dating, and don't go out of their way to meet men.
Men are driven to go in look in those places, but women who have class steer clear of those places, because they see them for what they are: dangerous places where manipulators, users and criminals hang out at. How many assaults happen at bars and clubs? Add alcohol to a bunch of thugs who already lack restraint. (And if the thugs in the bars don't get you, the police will get you on the way home, as they harass you for being one of the few cars on the road after 11pm without witnesses to prevent them from bothering you.)
And it isn't that being on the internet is an act of desperation, it is that it is not normal, and people who are abnormal are the ones using those dating sites. NOT ALL, but most have some serious problem, which is why they are on there, looking for unsuspecting naive people who don't know to stay away. Well the smart women aren't on there.
And sexual harassment laws have made the work place a terrible idea, not to mention the fact that if the woman is a psycho manipulator, she will ruin your reputation.
I think the only hope is food shopping and just stalking the streets in major cities, hoping to get one to smile at you. The only time they will come out is to buy some organic food, or on the subway train to and from work or school. Otherwise everyone just isolates themselves from the outside world.