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Getting ready to go

Post by Nailer » December 27th, 2016, 4:32 pm

So I have everything in order to go to somewhere in eastern Europe in the spring. I'm going to try actually living and working there, not just backpacking from city to city and staying in hostels.

In most places I've seen in America, you can easily go a full week without seeing one attractive girl. I've never lived in a city with a good supply of attractive women, but I know a few that exist in the U.S. While I am in the U.S., I will be staying in one such location.

Unfortunately, none of these places are walkable cities with history and things to do. Every single one (except some of the California beach towns) is car-driven suburbia and looks like this:

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Long-term, I want to live somewhere more like this:

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I love San Francisco and Seattle, but of course those places in particular are hell for single men. I'd be scared to even move there as a married man, given how much constant attention my theoretical wife would get, and given that my family would be constantly bombarded with a psychological warfare campaign to break us apart.

Right now, the feeling I have is excitement, like when I first left home for college. Of course at the time no one told me that my honor's English class in rural California was significantly better looking than the vast majority of America, and that I was walking into four years of Marxist brainwashing hell.

I find it pretty easy to make male friends anywhere I go in America, but I can't be a good friend when I am starving for female attention. All I do is get drunk and talk about my ex. I'm amazed people even put up with me. I think this is the cause of a lot of American male general hostility and douchiness. If I don't have what I need, I can't really be interested in other peoples' lives. I think American guys are overall cool, but they are like a starving man. The ones who do still maintain a good attitude, (and confide in me their complete cynicism), have an amazing amount of self-control that I lack.

I am looking forward to having fun and making new friends in a spontaneous way, where every day is an adventure, and you can have lots of random conversations and learn something new from others. I haven't really felt that way since the start of that massive letdown that was college. Honestly, I just haven't had much fun since high school ended, and I am not one of those people stuck in high school mode at all. There was just nothing to move onto since then, certainly not in my hideous-ass bay area school (same area that Winston grew up in, more or less).

It's funny how I can't really enjoy anything in life without women (attractive and nice ones). Concerts, skiing, hiking, and other activities are difficult to enjoy if you are missing the basic necessities of life. I'm so sick of the so-called manosphere's horrible advice to just "do what you enjoy" and not worry about women. That's such crap. That MGTOW nonsense is like the final control layer of the matrix. Right now, I have to fixate on the female problem or it will never get solved, but I am looking forward to it not being something I have to think about, so I can learn and grow as a person and not be stuck on this.

Emotionally, I am just shut down right now, and have been for a long while, but I can see a way out. It won't be instantaneous, but I feel like I am making progress.
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Re: Getting ready to go

Post by droid » December 27th, 2016, 5:41 pm

THIS
+1000
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?

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Re: Getting ready to go

Post by gsjackson » December 27th, 2016, 7:13 pm

You see a good looking female in the U.S. once a week??? Damn. I can go months without having the experience.

You will find the pedestrian scene pictured above in virtually every European city. That alone -- the fact that women come out into the public -- makes it far more likely you will encounter attractive ones on an almost daily basis. You'll see a lot of unattractive ones too, but what you almost never see is the obesity of the U.S. -- because they do walk a lot, and their food supply isn't all f*cked up like that of the U.S.

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Re: Getting ready to go

Post by Nailer » December 28th, 2016, 2:50 am

I'm matching with 8's and 9's on Tinder when I change my location to EE, and they actually talk to me. It still takes a lot of work and I have to filter through a ton of pictures, but it's actually achievable. I can't imagine what it will be like when I actually get there.

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Re: Getting ready to go

Post by JohnDoeBigBaller » December 28th, 2016, 3:19 am

If prostitution was legal in America, we would see violent crime drop by 50 percent overnight.

Feminists are creating violent criminals by making it impossible for ordinary men to get sex, at least sex with hot women.

Best thing is to just move to a border town near Mexico or Canada and work a job, then cross the border once a week, go f**k some prostitutes, then come home and start working again. That's actually not a bad life at all. But you have to give up the desire for marriage because marriage itself limits and enslaves a man. Unless you're living in Southeast Asia, of course, where sex is as easily available as candy.

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Re: Getting ready to go

Post by xiongmao » January 1st, 2017, 4:43 pm

Good luck, although photo (B) looks a little like the UK and it also sucks (for dating, not so much for making money or having access to good food/leisure activities).

Try Spain - there are lots of English teaching positions and quality of life is great, although dating is also poor.
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Re: Getting ready to go

Post by Nailer » January 3rd, 2017, 11:11 pm

xiongmao wrote:Good luck, although photo (B) looks a little like the UK and it also sucks (for dating, not so much for making money or having access to good food/leisure activities).

Try Spain - there are lots of English teaching positions and quality of life is great, although dating is also poor.
Then why in the world would I go there?
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Re: Getting ready to go

Post by starchild5 » January 4th, 2017, 2:50 am

JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:If prostitution was legal in America, we would see violent crime drop by 50 percent overnight.

Feminists are creating violent criminals by making it impossible for ordinary men to get sex, at least sex with hot women.

Best thing is to just move to a border town near Mexico or Canada and work a job, then cross the border once a week, go f**k some prostitutes, then come home and start working again. That's actually not a bad life at all. But you have to give up the desire for marriage because marriage itself limits and enslaves a man. Unless you're living in Southeast Asia, of course, where sex is as easily available as candy.
Agree. In India too...Rapes increased when gogo bars were banned. Indian men are sexually frustrated which makes them not perform well in work or hard to get a job or stick around job...so no Job, No marriage even.

There is Thailand now due to cheap flights...where Indians can let go of sexual frustration. Thank God.

America can have Porn..aka Jews propaganda while ordinary Americans cannot have fun.

The Psy-Op called Porn is equal to the Psy-op called Religion...

Porn "Star"

Porn "Awards"..

Porn accepted by feminists.

Porn Stars can have Twitter, Facebook accounts....but when a hooker advertises her service in craigslist...The entire section is banned and then when they go to backpage...Its banned too...WTF...

Porn Stars offer there "affordable" services..like Phone chat, meet and greet to Americans but sex is only reserved with the Jews...

Sex Doll is another Psy-op

Porn Stars are given FAKE respect...so that more American women can go the industry while American men are deprived of decent sex.

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