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Looking back at the women I knew in college, here is the offer they got:
-Be above average looks
-Don't be fat
-Get rewarded with a good life, family, money, status, everything.
Here's the offer I got:
-Be above average looks
-Don't be fat
-f**k you, you deserve to die. Loser, lol die! Also, we need your taxes, K thx bye.
-Work hard for three months, go home for winter break, get your brains f***ed out by your boyfriend from highschool, or one of the 100 desperate guys chasing after you.
-Work hard for three months, go home winter break, be alienated and isolated for the sin of having a Y chromosome.
I have no children, I just have an expensive apartment, I have no prospects for love. The girl I dated in college got much worse grades than me and has everything I wanted, without much effort. Can you imagine how easy it is for women to achieve in careers and academics? When they go home after finals, they are guaranteed attention, sex, and comfort from the opposite sex. As a man, you can expect nothing if you haven't spent the last three months priming your prospects! You can only go home after your tests and masturbate to porn! A guy who works hard in college is BORING! A girl who works hard in college is smart, interesting, empowered, etc. If women had given me the attention I needed I could have achieved so much more than I have already, but I realized the hard work I was performing was only getting me evil looks from girls, instead of the respect and admiration I was told it would earn!
Ever wonder why men are dropping out of careers and education? THIS IS WHY!!! HIGHER ACHIEVEMENT IS PUNISHED BY AMERICAN WOMEN INSTEAD OF BEING REWARDED. It's so bad that high-achieving men are committing murder / suicides:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... mself.html
For every one of these cases, I guarantee you there are 1000 men who are very, very pissed off that they learned their position in life is to become a unit of production for the state while their women whore around with unemployed alcoholics. (I'm not suggesting that his action was justified in any way, and the girl definitely did not deserve that. The correct thing to do would have been for him to find someone else, but that can be nearly impossible after high school, especially if you attend a good school.)
EVERY non-fat American woman can f**k around endlessly from ages 18-35 and still be guaranteed a 6'3" guy earning six figures at the end of that, as long as she hasn't gotten fat! Meanwhile, American men are STRUGGLING to find a girl who isn't fat! The situation is incredibly imbalanced!
Dropping out of your career and becoming a "PUA" is NOT a solution to this!
Props to Winston for having the courage to call a spade a spade.
Last edited by Nailer on January 3rd, 2017, 3:22 pm, edited 9 times in total.
Yeah it's pretty obvious once you go overseas.
So what are you doing about it? Maybe you posted your story/plan somewhere else but I haven't seen it, but I've seen you post a lot, so what is your story? What are your plans? Are you gunna sit around in the smelly old US of A forever and be miserable? Or will you move to greener pastures?
Step 1: Move to an area of the U.S. that is economically depressed and full of good-looking women. I've only lived in liberal cities full of ugly women since high school. This is my last chance at hope in the U.S.
Step 2: Go the eastern Europe for three months (maximum amount of time without a special visa).
Step 3: Enroll in Russian language courses and continue to spend three months in EE/Russia, three months in the U.S.
Step 4: ???
Well alright, you have a basic plan made out.
I've been to Russia twice before. I learned some pretty decent Russian for only 5 months of study. If you're studying (even part time...even 1 hour a week, lol), you could live in Russia for as long as you are studying, no silly 3 month time limit. They may have introduced a minimum number of hours per week since I left, but I highly doubt it. Moscow State University offers russian courses for 1 hour a week or 50 hours a week. They also offer courses 1 week in length, or 52 weeks in length, it's all up to you. If you pay, they sponsor your visa.
You could look into the parts of Texas that border mexico. They're extremely poor, and have extremely high unemployment, but are relatively safe (don't mess with Texas is the state slogan for a reason..lol), and are full of Mexican/Mexican-looking women. (I don't know where you're getting your money, but from the way you're talking you have some way of making money that lets you live half your life in EE). I lived in Corpus Christi, Texas for 3 years. Not a place to move to for women, nice ocean views though. Houses are very cheap in those areas (south/south-western texas) so you could buy something to save on rent if you wanted...
I was born a US-Sweden dual citizen, so moving overseas was pretty easy to me. I don't recommend Sweden, but I have family here so I didn't have much of a choice. It does however give me access to the whole EU for however long I want. Do you have any grandparents/great-grandparents that were born in Europe? You might be able to get yourself a 2nd passport without any real work, then you could have a base in Europe which is much closer to EE/Asia than America.
I am only interested in white women.
Winston's writings really helped me trace things back to where things went wrong in my life, and why. Mind you, my life is not terrible, but it definitely took a wrong turn at one point and ever since then I haven't really been myself. My college experience definitely f***ed me up, but in retrospect my reaction was pretty justifiable to an insane situation. I went in a blue-pill liberal and came out of that experience really f***ed in the head. I can't find it, but I read an account once about a guy from San Diego who attended UC Berkeley and developed schizophrenia, with the stress of being around ugly hateful people as a possible trigger to the condition. Coming from San Diego, I can definitely see how it would have messed him up.
College is also the first time a lot of guys are exposed to the Marxist brainwashing, and they often aren't prepared for this psychological trauma. That's exactly what it is, and the professors should be prosecuted for psychological abuse of students.
Add in the hyper-competitive, soul-crushing nature of academia and the fact these guys have not been able to establish themselves yet, and it's a horrific, punishing situation.
The problem is I went to a good university with very very few attractive girls. That's all it takes to screw your life up, because after college it gets very difficult to meet women. Additionally, many men move to big liberal cities for their careers, and guess what? They are all sausagefests where women have their pick of the litter. Sure, once a year or so I hit it off with a very attractive woman who is single, but when she is literally being hit on by 20 guys a day there's no way for that to last. I've unknowingly put myself on a path of more or less forced celibacy. Many, many men who follow the career path are doing the same. A good education and a good career is the gateway to loneliness nowadays. No wonder men aren't going to college anymore!
Like I said, I have only lived in cities full of ugly women most my life, so I suppose I should pat myself on the back for getting anything at all. I am moving to a part of the country with hot women everywhere and no male-oriented jobs. Maybe that is all it will take for me to be happy. If I don't feel like that is enough, then EE is the next step. (No matter what, I want to go visit just to see the world.)
I have learned this:
-The nicest places in America to live are the worst places in America for single men. Look at any list of "top ten" cities, and that is a list of places to avoid.
-If you aren't consciously engaged in geographic "hacking" and living in one of the few cities in America where the women have to compete against each other, you are screwed. There's only a handful of cities like this, so you really have to be looking! No, NY/LA/Las Vegas aren't it.
-You might even be screwed anywhere in America after college.
A good city has:
-Good genetics. The women on average have to look good.
-Large influx of transients. Otherwise everyone will just hang out with their high school friends.
-Lack of male-oriented jobs. Medical, education, and hospitality are good (Charleston). Tech, finance, and energy are bad (Charlotte).
If I ever have any sons, my lesson to them will be "attend Florida State University and just focus on being popular". If you don't do that, you are completely out of luck.
Even within the US, location matters, a lot. I just wish I had known this ten years ago. It can be very hard to figure out, because there's literally only four cities I know of in the entire U.S. that are good. So it's pretty easy to travel around, not find anything better, and think there isn't anything better than where you are now.
I'm feeling pretty positive at this point. I have only lived in cities full of ugly women, my whole life, and I am about to go to one with a surplus of good-looking women. I know it's still within the U.S., but I think I am going to be surprised how well I do once I am on a more level playing field.
I really feel like this realization has rewound me emotionally back to the point in life right before I took a bad wrong turn.
Nailers Son: Daaaaaaaad
Nailer: What's up son?
Nailers Son: What lessons can you bestow on me about life and how to be happy?
Nailer: Well, my advice about living a happy and fruitful life is to attend Florida State University and just focus on being popular
Nailer Son: Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad
Nailer: What son?
Nailers Son: It's 30000 dollars a year to attend FSU.
Nailer: Well, you're outta luck son, because I have no f***ing money.
Nailers Son: Oh (disappointed) well, what do I do now?
Nailer: Have you thought about the army, son? Get a trade - that'll make a man of you.