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How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

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Zionosis
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How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by Zionosis » February 15th, 2017, 5:02 am

So I see many on here seem to pay escorts/hookers etc for sex.

No offense to Winston be he is a classic case, he even asked about seeing escorts recently and he has a picture with a woman in his pic he clearly couldn't ever get. But got a picture next to her, lol. She looked like a woman at some random convention (like the model women), some of the other women Winston gets pics with that you see in the past also look like literally Thai hookers that he paid. Unsure how he thinks this makes him look good, he is making himself look bad.


Paying for sex is pathetic, no offense.
So what is the true purpose of this forum? Is it just all about ugly men going overseas to have sex with hookers?



Why not have self respect? Why not get a woman that likes you instead of trying to pay a woman to have sex with you?
If you really are a 6/10 man, then just get with a 6/10 or 7/10 woman and be happy. Don't be deluded and want 9/10 women because the only ones you will ever find that will do anything with you are hookers and they aren't doing anything with you because they want to, just because they are paid.




It's pretty funny that this site claims to dislike western women and be about going abroad, when all it's about is mostly some men paying women way out of their league in looks to have sex with them.
Or going and trying to get some gold digger from some country like the Philippines and paying for everything for her, rather sad that you guys tease western women when you are getting with way worse women.

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by Adama » February 15th, 2017, 7:04 am

The only thing I don't get is, some "people" deeply dislike American women but:
1. They want to have sex with them.
2. They are willing to turn AMERICAN WOMEN into millionaires by paying them hundreds of dollars per visit, along with all the other men that visit them.

If someone is contemptible, you shouldn't be wanting to have intercourse with them. Also, if you already hate them, why are you making them millionaires and impoverishing yourself, especially since part of the whole mantra about avoiding marriage is because the women take all the money?

The part about standards doesn't matter to me. Just the hypocrisy.

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by drealm » February 15th, 2017, 7:05 am

Some men think going to p4p is like going to a mechanic. I don't really care whether my mechanic likes me or not, I just want my car fixed.

Also there's no reason a man can't do both, as in do p4p until settling down.

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by retiredfrank » February 15th, 2017, 7:24 am

Adama wrote:If someone is contemptible, you shouldn't be wanting to have intercourse with them.
Easier said than done. Same argument applies to refined sugar and other junk food: we all know it's bad, and theoretically we shouldn't want to put bad things in our body, but we sometimes can't control our desires. So the next best thing is damage control. Eat a little sugar, just enough to satisfy the craving, then brush your teeth afterwards so you don't get cavities.

Analogously, use hookers occasionally, just enough to cut the craving and thereby avoid the risk of involvement with bad civilians, and use condoms. At $300 a pop, going once a month, hookers are much cheaper than bad civilians in the long run.

Of course, an old man like me can easily control his sexual desires and didn't need hookers or civilians, but the above is a devil's argument for why hookers make sense for younger men like most posters here.

And no, hookers don't usually get rich. Easy income encourages wasteful spending, so most hookers have zero savings and no job skills for when they get old and can't be hookers any more.

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by starchild5 » February 16th, 2017, 3:57 am

Hookers are a failsafe so that women don't go Bitchy on you...

If there are prostitutes available in every city in the world..Women would respect men more...

In order for "normal women" to function, hookers are a reminder that if I treat my husband bad, he will go to hookers.

Anyways, Hookers were never ever a problem ever on earth...Jews were and are always :mrgreen:

Self Respect....Check

Self Esteem...Check

Self Confidence..Check

All freemasonic CIA New Age Garbage...

All over loaded brainwashing mind controlled propaganda on humanity.

When Jews manipulate the world and we don't get anything due to their satanic ways...We need to retort to lack of self respect, self confidence, self esteem as the problem not the Jews and AI.

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I'm VERY MUCH PROUD to tell you that I f*ck hookers of all kinds, shapes and form.......ALL THE TIME...

Again...All in Capital Letters.

Folks..I F**CK HOOKERS ALL THE TIME...

Number of F**CKS given to Freemasonic Satanic Self Esteem, Self Respect, Self Confidence ....ZERO

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by Nailer » February 16th, 2017, 4:09 am

If you really are a 6/10 man, then just get with a 6/10 or 7/10 woman and be happy.
Obesity and immigration have skewed the dating market so that a man who is an 8 can only reliably get a woman who is a 6 in America, after high school.

I do not use hookers and have no opinion of them.
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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by Zambales » February 16th, 2017, 9:16 am

Zionosis wrote:
Paying for sex is pathetic, no offense.
I've never used a prostitute but I wouldn't go as far as labeling the guys that do as pathetic. Desperate would be a more apt description.
Zionosis wrote:
If you really are a 6/10 man, then just get with a 6/10 or 7/10 woman and be happy. Don't be deluded and want 9/10 women because the only ones you will ever find that will do anything with you are hookers and they aren't doing anything with you because they want to, just because they are paid.
It is possible to find a woman several rungs higher in the looks department than you. Usually it boils down to wealth although an endearing personality can work but 6/10 guys firstly need to put the boot on the other foot and look at it from a different angle. Imagine if they were 9/10, would they automatically settle for a 6/10 chick? Of course they wouldn't!

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by Kradmelder » February 16th, 2017, 10:11 am

I ve never used hookers and always had an active sex life. It used to be very attractive women within relationships. But I got so tired of being farked over and supporting them that the primary focus became women that just want sex but no relationship. No dates or going out either. Just sex. That means usually settling for lower value and single moms, and the odd fattie in between mistresses. But no need for whores.

No I have an attractive career woman who it took work but she is now wild in bed. Never married no kids. I guess she is a gf now as we sleep together more often than not. Chalk and cheese from the previous self absorbed ones looking for constant financial and emotional support.

Using whores is an alternative to my mistress option.pomp and go. Only I don't pay for it.

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by Kradmelder » February 16th, 2017, 10:40 am

I ve never used hookers and always had an active sex life. It used to be very attractive women within relationships. But I got so tired of being farked over and supporting them that the primary focus became women that just want sex but no relationship. No dates or going out either. Just sex. That means usually settling for lower value and single moms, and the odd fattie in between mistresses. But no need for whores.

No I have an attractive career woman who it took work but she is now wild in bed. Never married no kids. I guess she is a gf now as we sleep together more often than not. Chalk and cheese from the previous self absorbed ones looking for constant financial and emotional support.

Using whores is an alternative to my mistress option.pomp and go. Only I don't pay for it. Paying for it to me is less disturbing than the race mixing

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by Zambales » February 16th, 2017, 9:01 pm

Kradmelder wrote:It used to be very attractive women within relationships. But I got so tired of being farked over and supporting them that the primary focus became women that just want sex but no relationship .
Made that mistake myself. They either want their piece of fun or are looking for a way out of a relationship. Guaranteed they won't give a shit about you.

Generally speaking, women who cheat don't have high standards so I suppose I've only got myself to blame. Should have read between the lines but when you're young and naive, sometimes you can't see the wood for the trees.

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by flowerthief00 » February 17th, 2017, 9:00 am

(raises my hand)
Never paid for a hooker, can't imagine doing so under any circumstances. I thought sex was supposed to be fun for both parties. If it is, then nobody should be paying anyone. If it isn't, then one party has to pretend they're enjoying it. I can do without pretend.

Sex to me is like chess. I love a good game of chess, but unfortunately there are not many ppl around me who want to throw down. I COULD pay someone to play a game of chess with me. And they could pretend to enjoy it. But doesn't that defeat the whole point of mutually enjoyable recreation? Who the hell pays ppl to play chess with them?? No thanks, I'll either wait around for someone who actually wants to play chess or just go without, because there are other things in life besides chess.

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by Zambales » February 17th, 2017, 9:44 am

flowerthief00 wrote:
Sex to me is like chess.
Relationships can be like chess too. Begin as a knight and end up being a pawn.

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by retiredfrank » February 17th, 2017, 2:26 pm

flowerthief00 wrote:(raises my hand)
Never paid for a hooker, can't imagine doing so under any circumstances. I thought sex was supposed to be fun for both parties. If it is, then nobody should be paying anyone. If it isn't, then one party has to pretend they're enjoying it. I can do without pretend.
Maybe you are old and have low testosterone like me, or maybe you can masturbate without shame like me. For men with high testosterone, who can't get fulfillment from masturbation, it doesn't matter if the woman enjoys sex or not. Sich men are pressured by their bodies to seek sexual relief. Also many prostitutes do enjoy the sex, if the client is nice-behaving, same as many other service professionals enjoy their work, at least with nice customers. Probably the prostitute would prefer other men, just as probably a lawyer would prefer his best friends as clients, but preferring other clients as the ideal doesn't necessarily imply hating actual clients.

Sounds like you've been infected with feminist anti-prostitution shaming propaganda.
flowerthief00 wrote: Sex to me is like chess. I love a good game of chess, but unfortunately there are not many ppl around me who want to throw down. I COULD pay someone to play a game of chess with me. And they could pretend to enjoy it. But doesn't that defeat the whole point of mutually enjoyable recreation? Who the hell pays ppl to play chess with them?? No thanks, I'll either wait around for someone who actually wants to play chess or just go without, because there are other things in life besides chess.
Your love of chess is evidently weak if you can talk like this, though chess is a bad example since their are computer programs now you can play against (analogous to masturbating). If no such programs existed, and I had a strong love of chess and couldn't find free partners, I would absolutely pay for a partner.

Compare conversation with a friend versus with paid language teachers. I paid a teacher last summer for Russian lessons. Unlike a friend, she always showed up at the exact appointed time and stayed for exactly one hour. I tried to be pleasant, we talked as if we were friends, and I would imagine she enjoyed the conversation as much as me (which is not saying much since I tended to find the conversation tedious, though necessary for my progress, which is why I arranged for these lessons). Mutually beneficial arrangement in other words.

Similarly for prostitution. Most johns would prefer another woman, one who loved them and had sex for free, and most prostitutes would prefer to have sex with and be supported by a rich and handsome young husband, but we can't always get everything we want in life.

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by droid » February 17th, 2017, 2:40 pm

^^+1000 Thank you retiredfrank, one of your best posts.
The only thing I can add is that it's a lot more convenient to have sex with a ton of women in the 9-10 range this way instead of dealing with all the drama/pandering and their most likely mental/personality issues.

Some of these dumbasses should really get out of their basement, mind their own godamn business and stop throwing judgment on things they know nothing about.

These redundant threads are getting old, the same having to be explained over and over
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1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?

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Re: How many people on here have standards? Or self respect?

Post by Kradmelder » February 17th, 2017, 2:42 pm

flowerthief00 wrote:(raises my hand)
Never paid for a hooker, can't imagine doing so under any circumstances. I thought sex was supposed to be fun for both parties. If it is, then nobody should be paying anyone. If it isn't, then one party has to pretend they're enjoying it. I can do without pretend.

Sex to me is like chess. I love a good game of chess, but unfortunately there are not many ppl around me who want to throw down. I COULD pay someone to play a game of chess with me. And they could pretend to enjoy it. But doesn't that defeat the whole point of mutually enjoyable recreation? Who the hell pays ppl to play chess with them?? No thanks, I'll either wait around for someone who actually wants to play chess or just go without, because there are other things in life besides chess.
I had a friend whose wife wouldn't do anal. He could go to a whore, or he could buy her a new set of fancy shoes or some luxury and she would do it. It is not a whore but is that not paying for sex? What is the difference. I didn't ask if she pretends to enjoy it, or if that depends on the value of the shoes.

When it comes to women, everything has a cost. Sometimes cash upfront, sometimes gifts, sometimes lots of your time.It is naive to think sex is free. You will get the bill later. It is often better to waste money than time. Money you can earn again, time is lost forever.

When you are young you are blinded by sex and true love BS. You think it is free sex but it is only being kunt struck. you will waste years on that heifer and find out you are not compatible, then you will lose your assets for the sex you had. The screwing you get for the screwing you got. If you are getting your balls emptied regularly, without any true love or relatonshit, your mind will be in control and you wont fall for the wrong heifer thinking free sex = a life partner

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