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The single biggest killer of relationships

Postby Rock » February 23rd, 2017, 11:13 am

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Re: The single biggest killer of relationships

Postby pete98146 » March 2nd, 2017, 1:40 am

Don't know if I agree. I think the single biggest killer of relationships is people being selfish.
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Re: The single biggest killer of relationships

Postby Rock » March 2nd, 2017, 1:58 am

pete98146 wrote:Don't know if I agree. I think the single biggest killer of relationships is people being selfish.


Perhaps most people have latent good and bad in them and it's largely up to the environment to shape which sides get developed in formative and young years. If you grow up in an Amish community, your ego will likely be kept in check and you will not think or act selfishly at all. But if you grow up on FB and smartphones, it's pretty easy to become very self focused.
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Re: The single biggest killer of relationships

Postby Zambales » March 4th, 2017, 10:04 pm

I think it's more down to free dating sites like Plenty Of Trash. Access in seconds to thousands of members of the opposite sex. A temptation that some can't resist.
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Re: The single biggest killer of relationships

Postby starchild5 » March 5th, 2017, 4:43 am

Also, Asian's are more obsessed with FB than Western Folks it seems.

Philippines is already tagged as Social Media Capital of the world. Indians are absolutely crazy about social media. All my friends are in FB, Whatsapp and they post there Highlight Reel Life but when you actually meet them they have 1000+ problems and I have the least :D :D

The dude on the video is right...I was amazed seeing my friends living an Amazing life and thought i need to be more active etc etc ...but When I actually met one of my friends who has this amazing life online...He was actually Divorced and fighting for custody battle for his 5 year old daughter, he also has a Court Issued restriction on meeting his daughter against court approved time, as he tried to break laws...so cops are also watching him.

This is the standard norm with some of my friends i met in real life after a decade or so...

I don't blame them either because life is sh*ty over all and no one needs to hear our boring life online...We all need amazing life..so in a way...they get it online by just posting whats good is going on in their life.

Its all messed up...Even without posting online...Life ain't getting any better... :D
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Re: The single biggest killer of relationships

Postby Kradmelder » March 5th, 2017, 9:08 am

The biggest cause of divorce is money issues. But money issues are related to selfishness and ego issues. She feels entitled to more than he can provide, I want I want etc.

Money may not buy happiness but without it you usually find misery, especially when one has expectations of it.

I have found relationships work better within your socio-economic class when both pull together in finance children faith. When one doespecially all the contribution there develops dependence and resentment.
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Re: The single biggest killer of relationships

Postby Eric » March 6th, 2017, 4:56 am

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