Kradmelder wrote:Masculine&Proud wrote:You talk about initiating a conversation as a guy. Courting a women here in Australia (and Europe, France, Germany, USA) will land you in a court these days. In the 90's we are told we cant hold a door open for a woman, now we cant even talk to one. Men are suppose to make the initiative, but the way things have gone they are not too shy too they are too smart too, lest they face sexual harassment. Feminists are the cause of all this crap and they are a disease on society, the family, mean and the human race.
Here in Australia women are paid massive welfare checks till their children are 17y.o. In fact the welfare cheques are so large, they are almost twice the wage of a descent FULLTIME job! FACT most uneducated, disadvantaged people's supermarket staff, bus drivers, security guards, waiters) FULLTIME salaries cant meet the benefits of a single mothers are pay here in Australia- and that is a single mother with one child- their benefits increased to almost a 100K salary if they have 3 children! Single women with kids live like kings. It encourages women to have IVF or screw around to have a kid. And if they say they don't know who the father is to Centrelink, our welfare agency, they get even more money! These sustained government benefits are not affected by childsupport a man has to pay, so its no wonder many single unemployed mothers here are driving new Range Rovers, BMW's and Mercedes Benzes. Its celebrated welfarism based on feminist ideology that the pays are to support children and the mother. Its overkill, its horrendous and its unfair. Working Women, usually government women or big company employed women also get 1 year off work with full pay to have and nurture their child. Non-government employed women get nothing. Men face a hard and disenfranchised existence throughout their lives and get nothing. This is yet another example of how the leftist feminist materialistic immoral women in power create a an unfair society, geared only for themselves and those like them.
I recently dated a women I met online. She was 35yo, 9 years younger than me. She said she wanted kids or she would get IVF. From what she said I took it that she wanted children first, a man last. I was honest in my online profile and said to her I was open and undecided to having children when she asked me. However, and understandably at my age, I am looking for a woman who is formally and firstly interested in ME, not in me to give her children, as a preoccupation. I haven't been sucked in by any woman yet to have kids and then be forced by the state to pay for her life, for the rest of mine, and I not going to start now. I told her by SMS, IVF was a sin against God and that I believe I was not what she was looking for, as we did not identify with one another's core values. Are mother's these days: children first, men second and human beings last?
That is truly the reverse of what natural selection should want. The rejects should not be subsidised to breed. They should die off. Only throse prepared to work hard to ensure the success of their offspring should be encouraged to breed. Men prepared to lead, to provide, and to instill discipline and character in their kids to be leaders, women that dedicate themselves to family and raising well mannered kids. Why would you pay loser women more than good women that are prepared to work to help support a family?
In many ways I am glad to live in a land with no welfare if you are white, so that if you don't work you starve and live in a shack. The white trash gets weeded out. Those who want to raise a family had better be prepared to sacrifice and everything from medical to education you must pay for. If you want to screw around and be a single mother you are farked if the father doesn't have the money to provide. They are forced to find a man. And they wont find one being obnoxious feminists. They need to look nice, not be land whales, treat a man well and with respect, and bring something to the party if they expect a man to take them in and their kid. Or they must work like a man to support themselves.
I had the good fortune this week to inform my x her salary is now cut in half as one of the kids has left home
No saving to me as I just give this money to my daughter. But at least it is not supporting a woman
Kids are meant to be supported. The only woman a man should support is the one who raises his kids and shares his bed. And perhaps your mother in old age.
Yeah - this must be some kind of mental illness. I don't get it either... I mean, I get why some women would be affected by feminism, but to wholesale adopt it mind and body, that just doesn't make sense to me. I reason women can't possibly feel good doing that, going so against nature - but then I see it happening; and I have to believe what I see with my eyes in this life....
and then I'm reminded of Genesis in the Bible, how it says Eve is inherently sinful and women's rebellious nature - and it proves the Bible is right, and I hear Adama talk about it.
Kradmelder has good points. It's too bad we live in a cesspit of Socialism and destructive social engineering all around. I wonder what it would be like if women weren't subsidized. The crazy bad thing is... I was trying to escape, and went to China.
It was even worse over there, in a way - both countries had communism/Socialism, and I see the same ills.
Socialism really is a malignant cancer...
I find going out to clubs and bars is the worst in America, for several reasons. Everything you see in society just gets amplified and put on blast out in those places. Also, it's like people go out of their way to ignore you (unless you act like a mindless herd). Thanks socialism. It's like everyone has a chip on their shoulder here, now. It didn't used to be like this here.
Going out in Turkey was best, though I don't know how it is now. I'm sure femfucktard-ism is hitting there too. It was one of those weird places where you had just enough old world mediterannean culture, and women...blended with some secularism - but not too much, just allowed you to relax and have fun. It was a perfect balance.
I hate Socialism and wish it would die. I agree with Kradmelder, things would be better.
Women here are SO so disgusting, and entitled fat monsters most of them. I hate to be mean. It's really pretty true. And the men are effeminate limp wristed weaklings. I've really come out of it, gained my senses back after a year abroad...and can really see it now. It's like I've regained my common sense. Almost every guy I see when I go out looks like some hipster, rail thin....fashionable, effeminate and a weakling. I just don't understand it. Then you have those guys who overcompensate in the opposite direction, are fat harley bikers or act ultra macho and just come across as abrasive hardasses that no one wants to be around. No where is there a normal balanced person in sight. It's rare to find...
at least that's how I feel. It's really a weird country.... nothing's in balance, at all.
Women go out for feminism, because what they really want is power - and they are willing to sacrifice and trash their feminimity over that... that's kind of sad.
In a way, they have kind of done the same thing for men. I guess men just really want a break, to be loose and not have to try so hard...so they are getting them to act effeminate now; it's like they've found both gender's weak spots, and are capitalizing on them. That's exactly how it is, I think. It's so easy to give up and just be a flub, a weakling man. But just like a woman adopting feminism, you'll lose your place as a man. It's just how it is, not worth it.
Misery and happiness are only states of mind.