You know I used to chat with tons of women online. I actually think the online environment is similar to the clubbing environment in that it is filled with predators.droid wrote:I see a positive here in that at least he's getting some experience with women, even if just via some chats. This is good, so he sees practice is a lot different from pure-theory.
Tsar, it would be nice if you share more specific details as to these interactions, that would contribute to the forum. Although you would likely really get picked on for your faults so I doubt you will do that.
I've mentioned before you come off as entitled and as looking down on others. If you are going on that trip I would advise to develop some empathy, this doesn't mean you have to be weak though. But you will repel people if you don't change that. I'm saying this without having a clue how you are in real life of course, just from the impressions here.
I also can't say I learned anything about women until I went to Europe and lived their on my own (but with women paying some of the way for me).
Chatting only led me to have further distrust of women. Especially all the broken promises, how they always claimed they were coming through to meet me, and they never showed. Or how they were literally talking to dozens of other men, while claiming that I was the only one. Only when I get rejected as not being beefy, rich and thuggish enough was it revealed to me that this one woman was talking to other men.
Online dating is artificial. Some people will look radically different from their photos, either good or bad and unintentionally. Some will intentionally send younger pictures when they no longer look like that.
I had one woman give me her address and had me come to meet her, but when I got there it was a vacant lot address, and she used that to get a look at me without necessarily having to meet me. And when we met, the first question I get is the official wallet biopsy while her literally dying exboyfriend is ringing her phone off the hook, interrupting our "conversation" while she sits in my car and hits the ignore button while asking about my financial state.
Life has certainly been interesting when I was in slumber, before I realized that there are certain women who are evil and there are a few women who are good.
Before I simply thought that everyone was inherently good, and that all I needed was to find one. Nope. The real job is screening out all the liars, gold diggers, deceivers, and worthless women who expect to be in charge.