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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby yick » May 14th, 2017, 12:27 pm

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I think you totally missed the point of my post. You took it personally, since you are an english teacher.

I was talking about my MOTHER TONGUE not english ??? :idea: :idea:

My Mother Tongue is NOT ENGLISH.


As well as a language teacher, I am a language student - which in my case is Mandarin Chinese - one of main near future ambitions is to go to a Chinese university for a year and learn Chinese and improve it. I have to pay money to do this, and I don't expect anyone to do this for free.

Most people who are language teachers have usually learned the language as a native speaker, I don't know why they have to depart their knowledge for free, first of all - most teachers who have some relevant academic qualifications are taught linguistics, teaching methodology and classroom management - that's not instilled in you from birth.

The one thing is that English has become the lingua franca of the world, that isn't my fault or any other English teacher, it would be nice if Danish, Estonian, Quechua or yes - even Hindi had the same universal appeal as English - but they don't, the same rules apply for an Estonian who wants to teach his native language to people in the Far East as it does for you. English is the language that people want to learn and they're willing to pay lots of money like I am willing to pay lots of money for when I put aside a year to learn Chinese.


If my mother tongue was popular like english I would teach for free was my point, english will sound like a curry accent since its not my mother tongue so who wants to learn with an Indian accent was the point i was making.

You missed the mother tongue part completely and only took the teaching english part.


But why?

Do you expect the working girls of the Philippines and Thailand to give you free sex because they were born with a vagina.

You pay as do lots of other men, in fact, they come from all around the world and that generates more revenue than all the English schools combined in Asia - no-one goes into a brothel and expects the women there to give their vaginas away for free, something they were born with.

The world these days is a capitalist one. If I want someone to teach me something - from Chinese, learning to drive to cutting hair - I'll pay them the going rate - there is no difference between teaching English or teaching Chinese for a native speaker of Mandarin.


I was stressing that Chinese schools are paying very low to english teachers and making more money from parents having a western teacher around. To kill the corporate greed, I was suggesting, we should teach english for free. I totally get it...We all have bills to pay.

I was talking about one's Mother Tongue not english per se and you took offence to that. You were only agreeing as much as my curry Indian accent teaching english. You never said anything about one's Mother Tongue being natural to oneself.


The thing is, you're right - the English teaching industry in Asia is generating billions, they bring a lot of barely qualifed people over, some can't do the job, there are a lot of bad eggs, all those accusations have gravitas, the reputation ESL has is f***ed up....

However, we are lucky as native English speakers to have this option to be 'happier abroad' even Xiongmao was willing to quit his well paying job in London to go and teach English - we are lucky in the way a Polish man isn't who wants to live a happier abroad as in we can teach English. It's a good way to make a living, are there a lot of problems with it at the moment? Yeah there are but the governments are doing something about it, the Chinese are now making it harder and harder for someone without a degree to find work and become legal. Hopefully, this will lead to better people coming over to teach and sharpening the lousy reputation ESL has in Asia (and it has... )
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby Eric » May 14th, 2017, 2:54 pm

droid wrote:Don't paste your reflections on random, unrelated threads, Eric. It looks awful.



It's not unrelated, jackass. You look awful.
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby Zambales » May 14th, 2017, 3:31 pm

Eric wrote:In starting to wonder why and when... men started treating women with utmost respect, etcetera. When, was it always this way?

When you treat women like crap, they love it and come back.
I've been like a monk forever, and a traditional nice guy...but I'm about to get back in dating. Is 30 too old to change mentality?


Treat them mean to keep them keen and all that....

Which works for some but not all.

A woman who has been treated abysmally throughout her childhood and adult life for example usually doesn't embrace kindness and respect. It's an oil and water combination. She's not used to it and despite how illogical it sounds, she'd prefer a man to treat her badly.

Women who desire respect and kindness tend to be softly spoken, highly feminine and ladylike.
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby HouseMD » May 14th, 2017, 3:35 pm

Zambales wrote:
Eric wrote:In starting to wonder why and when... men started treating women with utmost respect, etcetera. When, was it always this way?

When you treat women like crap, they love it and come back.
I've been like a monk forever, and a traditional nice guy...but I'm about to get back in dating. Is 30 too old to change mentality?


Treat them mean to keep them keen and all that....

Which works for some but not all.

A woman who has been treated abysmally throughout her childhood and adult life for example usually doesn't embrace kindness and respect. It's an oil and water combination. She's not used to it and despite how illogical it sounds, she'd prefer a man to treat her badly.

Women who desire respect and kindness tend to be softly spoken, highly feminine and ladylike.

Only women who are trash respond positively to being treated like trash, and only men who are trash desire to treat them that way. That's why trash culture tends to be cyclical (look at trailer parks and ghettoes for that sort of behavior), and why quality women tend to end up with men who respect them and vice versa. It's a rich-get-richer scenario, but on an emotional and psychosocial level.
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby MrMan » May 14th, 2017, 5:21 pm

I'd also like to point out that running an ESL school is a legitimate business. If certain Chinese people do that and earn money from it, that's not a bad thing.
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby Eric » May 14th, 2017, 5:52 pm

HouseMD wrote:
Zambales wrote:
Eric wrote:In starting to wonder why and when... men started treating women with utmost respect, etcetera. When, was it always this way?

When you treat women like crap, they love it and come back.
I've been like a monk forever, and a traditional nice guy...but I'm about to get back in dating. Is 30 too old to change mentality?


Treat them mean to keep them keen and all that....

Which works for some but not all.

A woman who has been treated abysmally throughout her childhood and adult life for example usually doesn't embrace kindness and respect. It's an oil and water combination. She's not used to it and despite how illogical it sounds, she'd prefer a man to treat her badly.

Women who desire respect and kindness tend to be softly spoken, highly feminine and ladylike.

Only women who are trash respond positively to being treated like trash, and only men who are trash desire to treat them that way. That's why trash culture tends to be cyclical (look at trailer parks and ghettoes for that sort of behavior), and why quality women tend to end up with men who respect them and vice versa. It's a rich-get-richer scenario, but on an emotional and psychosocial level.



Before droid shits himself ..out of a prissy fit of forum manners. Let me tie this together for him and relate it to the topic. There's going to be no way to ban false rape accusers, simply because this will keep happening and there's no way to stop it. There's the only option exists, that getting back at women somehow. As what's Mgtow all about and all of that. There is a guy on radio who has a show named Tom Leykis. he advocates treating women like absolute crap....
and he's got tons of listeners, he is surrounded by women and this guy probably has the most sex any guy I've seen has had. A lot of what he says I know works, but I'd feel bad taking his advice out just just, well 'feeling bad' treating someone like that. Yet I know that he's right, yet it feels wrong.
What do you guys think about what that guy says and what he advocates?

I can clearly see some days how we have the worst women in the world, here. And I totally understand how guys want to get back revenge at them at least for justice's sake.
As far as how I'd deal with false rape accusers? Lock them away for life.
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby droid » May 14th, 2017, 7:16 pm

Jesus man I wasn't trying to piss you off, no need for all that. Peace out.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby Kradmelder » May 14th, 2017, 7:44 pm

HouseMD wrote:
Zambales wrote:
Eric wrote:In starting to wonder why and when... men started treating women with utmost respect, etcetera. When, was it always this way?

When you treat women like crap, they love it and come back.
I've been like a monk forever, and a traditional nice guy...but I'm about to get back in dating. Is 30 too old to change mentality?


Treat them mean to keep them keen and all that....

Which works for some but not all.

A woman who has been treated abysmally throughout her childhood and adult life for example usually doesn't embrace kindness and respect. It's an oil and water combination. She's not used to it and despite how illogical it sounds, she'd prefer a man to treat her badly.

Women who desire respect and kindness tend to be softly spoken, highly feminine and ladylike.

Only women who are trash respond positively to being treated like trash, and only men who are trash desire to treat them that way. That's why trash culture tends to be cyclical (look at trailer parks and ghettoes for that sort of behavior), and why quality women tend to end up with men who respect them and vice versa. It's a rich-get-richer scenario, but on an emotional and psychosocial level.


Ja that is basically it. And look at the trash people on here. Alone bbecause they behave like trash so no decent woman wants to put up with them. Getting women is easy enough yet trash just dont get it. Even going to asia they will be confined to asian trash. No decent asian woman would put up with them
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby Kradmelder » May 14th, 2017, 7:53 pm

Eric wrote:
HouseMD wrote:
Zambales wrote:
Eric wrote:In starting to wonder why and when... men started treating women with utmost respect, etcetera. When, was it always this way?

When you treat women like crap, they love it and come back.
I've been like a monk forever, and a traditional nice guy...but I'm about to get back in dating. Is 30 too old to change mentality?


Treat them mean to keep them keen and all that....

Which works for some but not all.

A woman who has been treated abysmally throughout her childhood and adult life for example usually doesn't embrace kindness and respect. It's an oil and water combination. She's not used to it and despite how illogical it sounds, she'd prefer a man to treat her badly.

Women who desire respect and kindness tend to be softly spoken, highly feminine and ladylike.

Only women who are trash respond positively to being treated like trash, and only men who are trash desire to treat them that way. That's why trash culture tends to be cyclical (look at trailer parks and ghettoes for that sort of behavior), and why quality women tend to end up with men who respect them and vice versa. It's a rich-get-richer scenario, but on an emotional and psychosocial level.



Before droid shits himself ..out of a prissy fit of forum manners. Let me tie this together for him and relate it to the topic. There's going to be no way to ban false rape accusers, simply because this will keep happening and there's no way to stop it. There's the only option exists, that getting back at women somehow. As what's Mgtow all about and all of that. There is a guy on radio who has a show named Tom Leykis. he advocates treating women like absolute crap....
and he's got tons of listeners, he is surrounded by women and this guy probably has the most sex any guy I've seen has had. A lot of what he says I know works, but I'd feel bad taking his advice out just just, well 'feeling bad' treating someone like that. Yet I know that he's right, yet it feels wrong.
What do you guys think about what that guy says and what he advocates?

I can clearly see some days how we have the worst women in the world, here. And I totally understand how guys want to get back revenge at them at least for justice's sake.
As far as how I'd deal with false rape accusers? Lock them away for life.

Eric it is simple. Look at the wankers on here who cant get women and piss and moan no matter what country they go to. Why listen to what they say. It doesnt work. That is why they are chronically alone.

Other men here have no problem with women. They have white or yellow. Hey yellow is not my thing but the men that get yellow and are happy are decent men. They have no problem getting women to love them.We just have different tastes. I am fortunate enough to have had several decent women love me so it is not as difficult as they make it. Only the most recent has been compatible. So there isnt only one.

The lesson is you may not agree with those men but what they do works. Most men get women. Just not some wankers on here. Do why worry about the wankers. Their vile is just what they spew because they dont get female affection like the rest of us.

You just need to figure out which men it is worthwhile learning anything from and which ones are just wankers. They know they are wankers.

These chronic wankers going from country to country and still coming out dud, well it is obvious. Laugh them off. They are not worth a second thought.

You can find a woman. These wankers can not and likely never will. And when you find one they will tear you down for being happy. They are a joke yet think they are clever.

Dont let them make you a bitter lonely wanker like them. They are a minority in the world. They will blame all women for their isolation yet the only reason for their lonliness is themselves. Like would you even want to have a beer with some of them? No wonder women avoid them.

You dont have to be like that unless you swallow their bs. 90 pct of the world doesnt because they see it for what it is. The impotent spewing of those that cant make it as men.
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby droid » May 15th, 2017, 8:31 am

People get so worked up over nothing in this forum. Some even like to dish out the jokes but can't take them.

MrMan wrote:People also ought to be careful to make sure the first name they give their kids is a good match for their last name.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fTaKDnSIb4c


http://funnynames.com/names/people :P

Edit:
Moe Lester
Harry Zach O'Balls
Manny Feltersnatch
Richard Holder
Barbara Cue
Shea Verpussi
Stella Virgin
Ram Dass
Doug E. Style
Herb Eaverstinks

I've checked a few and they do show up on Linked in :lol:
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Re: Banning False Rape Accusers

Postby Kradmelder » May 15th, 2017, 11:14 am

droid wrote:People get so worked up over nothing in this forum. Some even like to dish out the jokes but can't take them.

MrMan wrote:People also ought to be careful to make sure the first name they give their kids is a good match for their last name.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fTaKDnSIb4c


http://funnynames.com/names/people :P

Edit:
Moe Lester
Harry Zach O'Balls
Manny Feltersnatch
Richard Holder
Barbara Cue
Shea Verpussi
Stella Virgin
Ram Dass
Doug E. Style
Herb Eaverstinks

I've checked a few and they do show up on Linked in :lol:


Droid Upsnatch :lol:
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