All right, here's the story, all is well.
In the recent past, I'd complained about being the George Clooney of New England, post marriage.http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=31007
Here's what's interesting, a similar thing has also happened to Mel, after we'd tied the knot. She'd also been hit on by countless men.
As a result, since Mel is not in any way, physically attracted to a guy (minus me of course
), she'd starting wearing frumpy clothing, ditching the contacts for nerdy glasses, and now, looks like a librarian in public. And realize, this is a woman who works out 40 mins to 1.5 hours per day, and has a perfectly toned body. She doesn't have to hide anything. It's just that there are so many guys out there, who'll bang a married woman, just to not have to deal with women in the singles' dating scenes.
So yeah, for me it's great. I'm more of less, married to an old school librarian with a fitness model's body, once the clothes come off.
What it also tells me is that in America, married women can have just as many affairs, as the well to do investment banker type guys. It's just that Mel's a lesbian and thus, can't even begin to get excited about another guy.
I can see that in America, many wives bang the so-called pool guy or gardener, in place of her husband, during his business trips.
All this tells me is that MGTOW is not such a bad thing.