Sometimes being an Alpha in a situation is not about using your Frame for your own benefit, but sometimes it’s about using it to help others. This post covers just such a situation that happened recently on a night out with a friend.
When you have reached this point in a LTR, you can be crushed by the weight of your own hatred of her (and your simultaneous desire for her), combined with her hatred of you for being so weak and helpless and dependent. Or, you can lose your capacity to be hurt by her.
I simply don't encounter these problems now that I am Happier Abroad.I went on a date with a fuckable girl. Not my dream girl but fine enough. She was definitely cute. A little small for me though.
I learned that she is my polar opposite in many departments - believes in multi-culturalism, political correctness and all that shit. She is also a vegan. I f***ing destroyed with arguments. She called me a racist many times.
I literally have no idea what that even means. It's like they don't even speak English.Lifting hard and eating right while I'm offshore at work, smashing f**k off out life when I'm not.
The titles of TRP subreddit make me laugh:
Turns out, my dad has a weak frame.
An important bit of human psychology
Losing your capacity to be hurt by her
For guys with approach anxiety.
Now that I have left the USA I don't have to deal with ANY of this nonsense! I don't have to be an amateur expert in psychology, or a expert hypnotist, or master magician (lol!) Girls just like me and everything is easy without all these mind-over-matter tricks that don't work! I don't "hold my frame" or "neg" anyone, I just have fun and if a girl doesn't like me I turn to the endless supply of other women that are available.