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I have seen it a few times before. Customers headed out after their drinks or meals give their bartender a hug. And sometimes it is a male customer hugging a female bartender. Same thing with American waitresses. Unfortunately, it can easily be a fatal mistake, especially in America. Many female bartenders have boyfriends, some are engaged, and even married to other guys, and male customers at American bars and restaurants get beat up, and sometimes even murdered, by boyfriends, fiancées, and husbands of female bartenders. Also, I recently saw some conversing between two posters (traveler and growup) about a bartender that I guess traveler must have had a crush on but now has a boyfriend. And I don't blame traveler for wanting to flee from that bartender and give her a hundred plus feet of personal space. I would, too.
Back to this customers hugging bartenders/waitresses thing, you don't know if even last night's "bartender hugging" news from across the United States, reported or not reported, could even be as follows;
-Male customer hugged a female bartender at a Downtown tavern, was gunned down and murdered by her boyfriend.
-Customer who hugged a female bartender at an east side tavern was beaten by her boyfriend wielding a baseball bat. Victim hospitalized in critical condition with a fractured skull. Suspect was last seen fleeing in a gray van.
-Male customer hugged female bartender. Bartender's husband attacked the male customer with a barrage of Molotov Cocktails. Victim hospitalized in critical condition with severe burns over 70 percent of his body.
-Male customer hugged bartender at popular tavern in east River North, was gunned down and murdered by her fiancée with shot gun. Victim pronounced dead at the scene.
-Male customer hugged bartender at bar in south River North and was leveled by mob of 55 guys, all armed with stolen AK-47s. Bartender's husband was leader of the mob. SWAT team called in, but was quickly leveled and then robbed by the mob of gunmen whom then murdered and robbed several additional Chicago police officers. Victim and 25 other people dead at the scene, 91 injured, $800,000 damage done by over 15,000 rounds fired.
-Male customer hugged female bartender at tavern in central Lincoln Park, was blasted and killed by a mob of 27 guys with stolen AR-15s and shotguns. Bartender's boyfriend was leader of the mob. Victim and 9 others dead at the scene, 58 injured, $250,000 damage done to facility and parked cars, and roughly 9,000 rounds fired.
-Male customer hugged female waitress at Greek restaurant in Greek town, was leveled by mob of 35 guys with stolen MP-5s. SWAT team called in but was outgunned and taken down by the gunmen. Victim and 22 others dead at the scene, 65 injured, and $455,000 damage to the restaurant and plaza by 12,500 rounds fired.
-Male customer hugged waitress at restaurant in central Chicago Loop, her boyfriend burned him with a flamethrower. Victim taken to Mercy Hospital & Medical Center but subsequently died of his burns.
-Male customer hugged a bartender at a popular tavern in Downtown Detroit, was burned by her husband with a flamethrower. Victim hospitalized in critical condition with second and third degree burns over 60 percent of his body.
-Customer hugged waitress at southwest side restaurant, was shot and murdered by waitress's fiancée.
-Customer hugged bartender at another downtown tavern, was stabbed by her boyfriend with broken beer bottle. Victim hospitalized in critical condition, 300 stitches.
East St. Louis, IL;
-Male customer hugged female bartender. Bartender's boyfriend hurled IED with fish hooks stuck in it at the customer. IED detonated attached to victim's shirt, killing him instantly and spattering blood and guts all over entire bar. 4 others killed by the blast, 26 others injured, $175,000 damage to the facility.
Los Angeles, CA;
-Male customer hugged bartender, her boyfriend smashed beer bottle and stabbed the guy with the broken glass. Victim hospitalized in critical condition, 250 stitches.
-Customer hugged waitress at downtown restaurant, waitress's husband attacked the guy with Molotov Cocktails. Victim hospitalized in critical condition, 3rd degree burns over 55 percent of his body.
-Customer at Santa Monica tavern hugged a bartender, was beaten to death by her boyfriend with bar stool.
New Orleans, LA;
-Male customer hugged waitress at popular restaurant in French Quarter, was stabbed by her boyfriend with broken beer bottle. Victim hospitalized in critical condition, 275 stitches.
New York City, NY;
-Customer hugged waitress in South Manhattan restaurant, was gunned down and murdered by her fiancée.
-Customer hugged bartender at popular tavern in south Brooklyn, was shot and wounded by bartender's boyfriend. Victim hospitalized in serious condition.
-Customer hugged waitress in north Staten Island, was burned by her husband with flamethrower. Victim hospitalized in serious condition with burns over 35 percent of his body.
-Customer hugged waitress at Upper West Side restaurant, was attacked by her husband with Molotov Cocktails. Victim hospitalized, but later died of his injuries.
St. Louis, MO;
-Customer hugged female bartender at downtown bar, was shot and injured by her fiancée. Victim in serious condition.
-Male customer hugged bartender at downtown bar, was bludgeoned to death by her boyfriend wielding baseball bat.
-Customer hugged bartender at popular Ybor bar, her fiancée threw a barstool at him, breaking his nose.
-Customer hugged waitress at downtown restaurant, was burned to death by her fiancée with flamethrower.
why would you even waste money drinking at a bar? You can buy a f***ing 12 pack for the same price as one drink.
As for showing attention to women? Don't be a retard. Avoid women like the plague, and if you need to have sex, then get a cheap prostitute.
i'm literally bulletproof, for real. My friend shot a gun at me and the bullet bounced right off me.
I would say, this is a good advice. Use your money for something else. Stay away.
Such places like bars, discos, often located in suburbs or near motorways around many cities (mentioned are Chicago, Detroit, St. Louis etc.) in the States are often not violence-free. Plenty of strange boys and grrls. Gang-members etc. You approach an unknown woman and suddenly some men will show up claiming this or that and you end up in the hospital.
I also strongly doubt if you can find a nice serious girl in such a place, many girls who spend frequently their nights in such places are full with drugs and alcohol, simply said, they are 'used items' and not very intelligent...the female bartender for sure is no exception.
Why should you even show up there and socialize with these people?
The thing is most of the women likely KNEW their boyfriends were watching and did this to make them jealous. I'm sure none of them wanted the violent results but women know how to trigger jealousy in their boyfriends to confirm how much these guys "love" them.
I have experienced this first hand.
No girl you are not in a relationship with deserves to be hugged. It is a jealousy charade meant to make other men jealous.
The extreme hyperbole isn't helping. Things are bad enough as it is.