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I read a stastic a few years ago that said 63% of people who are married in the US, met their spouse by being introduced to them by someone else! A lot of people meet their boyfriend or girlfriend through their friends. This is very limiting to say the least, what if your not interested in any of the people you meet through your friends? Or maybe you are interested in some of them but they are not interested in you! Also, you probably won't meet a lot of people through your friends, just a few if any. I think a lot of men in the US settle and take whatever woman they can find! It's a sad state of affairs here in the dateless country for men know as the US! LOL
Not in the movies. That is why Arabs want to come to the US. Arabs think that in the US you can walk up to women in the street and then invite then to a motel for a quickie and they just say "yes". In fact meetig women in the US is only a bit easier than meeting them in Saudi Arabia.
A brain is a terrible thing to wash!
Yeah, in America you gotta build up your social network first. With all the women I've slept with over the past year, it was always with someone who already knew someone I know, kinda like having a reference sheet.
For several years prior to this, being friends with another guy who didnt really have any other friends in our immediate area (combined with poor social skills) resulted in us both being caught in an endless loop of not meeting ANYONE.
Just from the media and what we are taught as children, every man is a psycho serial killer rapist. 1 in 4 women are raped. etc.
How does she know you arent a mass murderer if she meets you on the street?
You need some person she trusts to co-sign for you.
Of course if people dont want to introduce you to women, or you dont find the women attractive, then you'll be stuck trying to meet stuck up fat women on the internet, or waiting til you can fly to Costa Rica to fock cheap hookers.
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Your right Insidious. Don't you know all men are potential rapists? All men are creeps and weirdos, according to American women. Well if all men are potential rapists, then all women are potential bitches! LOL
In the movies all women are seen as friendly and approachable and easy to sleep with. When in actuality, just the opposite is true! Like Winston has said, the problem with meeting women through your friends is that, you only get a few choices to meet women each year (if your able to meet any women at all through your friends). Then, you have to like the women that you meet through your friends and want to date her and she has to like you. The other alternative is going to bars and clubs, which are a real meat market.
Dating American girls (most never become women or ladies) is a business arrangement in disguise. Very few ever give the sense that there's a deep emotional attachment, but more it's a matter of convenience.
Last edited by Think Different on Fri Apr 16, 2010 8:42 pm, edited 1 time in total.
This is actually closer to what I had in mind:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TEP-j-Iq ... re=related
I am reminded why I need to go back abroad everytime I walk down the street.
Yes, in America you need to have a social network of people that you can meet women through. Without that, it will be difficult to meet women on your own.
It's much easier being introduced to a woman, than it is doing "cold approaches." Trying to meet women at bars and clubs is very difficult as well.
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