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Why the US is lonely

Postby hamdizzel » Thu Aug 06, 2009 10:33 pm

companionship is a human need definitely. were social creatures.
if we were made to be alone then we would not yearn for friendship.
Unfortunately the most lonely people seem to be in rich first world countries.
i guess money really does you make you selfish. especially here in the US
we have the highest rate of mental illness in the world. people just don't
talk and have meaningful conversions its always fake and dry just a hi
a little talk about money and leave never seeing the seeing the person again.
and you could tell the vibe just by walking in a downtown US city.
its horrid for anyone normal person seeking friendship. sometimes its
unbelievable how unfriendly and cold people are here its like their a whole different
species who prefer to be alone. what kind of human beings want to be alone?
its crazy. well since obviously i have never left the US i don't know whats it like elsewhere
its so bad here sometimes it makes you think the whole world is like this.
and why on earth can people only talk through places that have a social atmosphere
like school, and work. they don't talk outside of it.its funny for me
because in school i was shy and did not seek to talk to people.
now when im ready to talk and have friends it seems people just have moved
on that stage where they don't need friends anymore.
i try to analyze by seeing people's faces walking the streets of America
and i the things is see is almost saddening
i could see anger, fear, loneliness.
its as if they wish they could have friends
but society and culture would just frown upon them
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Re: why the US is lonely

Postby ladislav » Sat Aug 08, 2009 9:38 am

The culture stresses individualism, toughing it out and making it on one's own. Winners get friends, losers cry alone.But then again, these people should join some churches and clubs and get busy with volunteer work in they are in he US.
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Postby Winston » Sat Aug 08, 2009 2:49 pm

So true. I don't get why US people seem to "want" to be lonely. It seems to be against human nature.

Or maybe they have their circle of friends and have no time for more.

In the Philippines though, you never see a local guy, even a poor one, complain that he can't get any dates at all or any sex at all. NEVER.
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so

Postby track2004_400meters1 » Mon Aug 17, 2009 2:09 am

euro women are so friendly
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Postby hamdizzel » Mon Aug 17, 2009 7:16 am

couple of reasons

1. a man who wants only sex from a woman is considered a creep and a pig in
in the united states

2.American woman as i have said prefer to be alone and be sexless
they love being "independent" and any man who fancies her will get a cold
look back or even worse no look at all.

3.Generally speaking to bed American females is a job in itself
you must first "build" the attraction or spark which could take months
in other countries you signal that you want sex from a woman
and as long as you don't treat her badly you get rewarded.

3.shows like Oprah and Trya Banks further fuel this man hating culture
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Postby Winston » Mon Aug 17, 2009 9:10 am

hamdizzel wrote:couple of reasons

1. a man who wants only sex from a woman is considered a creep and a pig in
in the united states

2.American woman as i have said prefer to be alone and be sexless
they love being "independent" and any man who fancies her will get a cold
look back or even worse no look at all.

3.Generally speaking to bed American females is a job in itself
you must first "build" the attraction or spark which could take months
in other countries you signal that you want sex from a woman
and as long as you don't treat her badly you get rewarded.

3.shows like Oprah and Trya Banks further fuel this man hating culture


Not just "only sex" but even if you want romance, love and sex, you still get branded as a creep.

It's like having desires is not allowed.

You live in WA, hamdizzel, and that makes it worse. Women there are always jogging alone or walking their dogs alone. If you start up a polite conversation with them, you find out that they are on their day off and prefer being alone to have "time to themselves". Ick. Like women always want time alone and you're supposed to go sexually unsatisfied the rest of your life. Yuck. Sick.
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exactly

Postby track2004_400meters1 » Mon Aug 17, 2009 9:59 am

i prob have one of the hottest physical forms in existence.. im 6'2 215lbs currently,,, solid muscle,, track runner,, fitness model as well as nude model.. but yet i get the same f***ed up shit from women all the time. Its even worse with guys like me. Because in her pathetic mind when i write to her on myspace or facebook. Shes telling herself that she is better then me in some way or form and she doesnt have to lower herself to talk to me just because i have muscles and am attractive.. See women have it backwards.. They call the jocks and the athletes creeps. But then they go out of their way to call the geeky band boy with tattoos whos 4'11 ,, they call him a nice guy. And both of us will say the same thing to her in an email.. She will react differently to the band geek. Because she already feels a sense of control over his mind and body because hes a f***ing geek. So therefore shes more inclined to talk to him. Because deep within the american females minds their ultimate fantasy is a rich geeky guy. When she sees muscles,, she sees me as having the control over her.. And she doesnt like that. The femininstic ego here in this country feels intimidated when they see guys like me. They get scared. Because they know that they wont have the control. Something within women tell them to be in control of the relationships.. I mean who the f**k is feeding these women this f***ing bullshit? WHo is telling women that they need to be treated like princesses. What about treating men like kings? LIke i said before , i will say it again, women are black holes of the universe, they suck everything in and dont give anything back. Treating a guy like a king is out of her f***ing realm... . So i either have to win them over and make them obey me.. And then i get sex. Or i have to go for the geeky kinda women.. Because they have less ego.. WOmen are like so f***ing identical that its sickening... THey all use that word creeper.. I dont know how many times ive heard the word creeper by simply saying to a female in an email on facebook .. " hey how was your weekend? do anything fun? no you dont know me. i saw you on someones friends list." and then in reply to this message they either get a f***ing attitude with you or ignore you or call you a creeper. or something that makes no sense at all.. I mean we really are dealing with primitive snakes.. They are creatures.. They are animals.. They think that all guys are the same. SEx really does suck in america..... Its non existent compared to europe.
It doesnt exist here because all the times a women has had sex when she was drunk do not count.. Because all those times were not her true self.. It was her drunk self.. And the next day she is a complete different person. Women are not horny in their 20's... Thats just a fact... They dont get horny till they are 45 and old and ugly.... Basically every female ive ever talked to knew that i was after sex.. Because its obvious by the pictures that i post.. So therefore i always get the f***ing attitude. And your not a creep if you like sex.. Actually its the other way around. Your a f***ing creep if you dont like sex. And this is what women have yet to understand.. And from now on the word whore means someone that likes to have fun and enjoy themselves...
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Postby hamdizzel » Mon Aug 17, 2009 5:49 pm

Washington State is horrific if your looking for a potential Wife
or if your looking to bed beautiful woman
problem is THERE are no beautiful woman here lol
and the woman who are decent looking think their Jessica Alba.
The obesity epidemic is crazy here.
and even looking for friends is impossible here.
Jobs? don't ever go here for a job.
Housing? prices off the charts.
its insane when im walking in downtown and a woman catches my eye,
i take a glance and i can tell by their
Vibe and body language they DON"T want to be looked at lol
sometimes i even have gotten a cruel stares back
as if their saying
"You are not to look at me i am independent.
and don't need a man"
or She is only looking for a Tom cruise move star.
and won't go no lower.
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Postby hamdizzel » Mon Aug 17, 2009 5:53 pm

exactly Vinstonas
Every woman i see in grocery stores,
downtown, Malls
Are alone and prefer to be that way.
there either married or their not
thier not looking for just a good time with a man
Weird.
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Postby jamesbond » Mon Aug 17, 2009 10:24 pm

hamdizzel wrote:exactly Vinstonas
Every woman i see in grocery stores,
downtown, Malls
Are alone and prefer to be that way.
there either married or their not
thier not looking for just a good time with a man
Weird.


Winston put it best when he wrote in his essay, "American women are the most paranoid, unfriendly and anti-social women in the world!" How true that is! :shock: Women in the US, think a guy is a creep if he starts a conversation with her on a bus or train or bookstore. Your only "allowed" to approach women at bars, nightclubs and parties in the US. The only other way to meet women is through friends. Welcome to the "United Lonely States of America."
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wow this is so true

Postby track2004_400meters1 » Tue Aug 18, 2009 2:48 am

i almost feel like i cant even look at women in the grocery store.. and to try to even talk to one of them is takes so much f***ing effort that basically its not even worth it.. It would be so nice to live in a country where you can basically walk up to humble women and try to talk and have them blush and stuff.. That would be so great. But you cant do that in the usa without being looked at by like another 10 people like what the fuk is this guy doing? And then not only are they staring at you , but then the girl your trying to talk to is looking at you with a cheesy grin. I see women at the track all the time running. The majority of them are fat. But there have been a few hot ones. And you cant even go up to them there. They dont even look at you or anything. Its like women seriously do not look around at their surroundings. They expect everything to just look at them. And they dont have to look at no one. Its like what the f**k. Do women really exist? These snakes just slither on the ground everywhere just like animals not caring where they are going to what they are doing. Why do i have to even go up to them in the first place. Why cant women come up to me? Why cant they just f***ing do that for once?
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Postby puresalvation » Wed Aug 19, 2009 1:01 am

Hey peeps, you are not alone. British women are not far behind American women either! Worse of all if you start a conversation with them and they don't think you should have? You get called a pervert! what a load of rubbish! I bet you would not get that in Berlin, Stockholm. Helsinki, Oslo, Kiev or Moscow?

Alot of German women are lovely as well! They get portrayed by UK/US women as arrogant. I usually say have you looked at yourself in the mirror lately and walk off! lol!

Polish women are also really lovely women and so are alot of Hungarian women, But Russian women top the bill for me!

Don't know what all you lot think?

Don't worry about UK/US women, when you get your Russian/ Eastern European they will not be your responsibility or worry will they? Just let them carry on in their backward thinking lonely way! Just think for a second who will end up being the lonely frustrated ones? Not us eh lol?

this is my view!

Pure.
Just find me a proper broardminded Dominant Russian or East European woman lol!
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Re: exactly

Postby JamesSa » Wed Aug 19, 2009 2:34 am

track2004_400meters1 wrote:i prob have one of the hottest physical forms in existence.. im 6'2 215lbs currently,,, solid muscle,, track runner,, fitness model as well as nude model.. but yet i get the same f***ed up shit from women all the time. Its even worse with guys like me. Because in her pathetic mind when i write to her on myspace or facebook. Shes telling herself that she is better then me in some way or form and she doesnt have to lower herself to talk to me just because i have muscles and am attractive.. See women have it backwards.. They call the jocks and the athletes creeps. But then they go out of their way to call the geeky band boy with tattoos whos 4'11 ,, they call him a nice guy. And both of us will say the same thing to her in an email.. She will react differently to the band geek. Because she already feels a sense of control over his mind and body because hes a f***ing geek. So therefore shes more inclined to talk to him. Because deep within the american females minds their ultimate fantasy is a rich geeky guy. When she sees muscles,, she sees me as having the control over her.. And she doesnt like that. The femininstic ego here in this country feels intimidated when they see guys like me. They get scared. Because they know that they wont have the control. Something within women tell them to be in control of the relationships.. I mean who the f**k is feeding these women this f***ing bullshit? WHo is telling women that they need to be treated like princesses. What about treating men like kings? LIke i said before , i will say it again, women are black holes of the universe, they suck everything in and dont give anything back. Treating a guy like a king is out of her f***ing realm... . So i either have to win them over and make them obey me.. And then i get sex. Or i have to go for the geeky kinda women.. Because they have less ego.. WOmen are like so f***ing identical that its sickening... THey all use that word creeper.. I dont know how many times ive heard the word creeper by simply saying to a female in an email on facebook .. " hey how was your weekend? do anything fun? no you dont know me. i saw you on someones friends list." and then in reply to this message they either get a f***ing attitude with you or ignore you or call you a creeper. or something that makes no sense at all.. I mean we really are dealing with primitive snakes.. They are creatures.. They are animals.. They think that all guys are the same. SEx really does suck in america..... Its non existent compared to europe.
It doesnt exist here because all the times a women has had sex when she was drunk do not count.. Because all those times were not her true self.. It was her drunk self.. And the next day she is a complete different person. Women are not horny in their 20's... Thats just a fact... They dont get horny till they are 45 and old and ugly.... Basically every female ive ever talked to knew that i was after sex.. Because its obvious by the pictures that i post.. So therefore i always get the f***ing attitude. And your not a creep if you like sex.. Actually its the other way around. Your a f***ing creep if you dont like sex. And this is what women have yet to understand.. And from now on the word whore means someone that likes to have fun and enjoy themselves...




I also have an athletic physique as I go to the gym 4x/week (played football and was a 100/200meter and long jump champion in high school) and am relatively attractive, yet I receive the same BS from women. I've observed that even some fat women have this complex where they think they deserve the perfect man and that most guys are beneath them.

Granted, I have scored a few times and have gotten some girls to call me while being re-separated from my wife. And women check me out in the gym. Yet, most still project this certain fu&$-off vibe when you approach them. NY women take this to the extreme.
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Postby Winston » Fri Aug 21, 2009 8:22 pm

puresalvation wrote:Hey peeps, you are not alone. British women are not far behind American women either! Worse of all if you start a conversation with them and they don't think you should have? You get called a pervert! what a load of rubbish! I bet you would not get that in Berlin, Stockholm. Helsinki, Oslo, Kiev or Moscow?

Alot of German women are lovely as well! They get portrayed by UK/US women as arrogant. I usually say have you looked at yourself in the mirror lately and walk off! lol!

Polish women are also really lovely women and so are alot of Hungarian women, But Russian women top the bill for me!

Don't know what all you lot think?

Don't worry about UK/US women, when you get your Russian/ Eastern European they will not be your responsibility or worry will they? Just let them carry on in their backward thinking lonely way! Just think for a second who will end up being the lonely frustrated ones? Not us eh lol?

this is my view!

Pure.


So true. The advantage we have is that at least in other countries, women still want us, even though we're rejects in America. But American women who are rejects whom no one wants will not fare any better in other countries. They can't just go abroad and get a great partner or love life, cause if they suck, foreign guys won't want them either. LOL

I guess that's one reason why this site doesn't appeal to them, unless they only like going abroad for cultural reasons.
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Postby hamdizzel » Sat Aug 22, 2009 7:22 am

i agree talking to woman should not feel like a burden or chore.
She sould acknowledge your presense as a man
not treat him like shit just because he is not a movie star.
its gotten so bad i can't even look at these american females
know what happens? they get creeped out that thier "getting looked at"
and are afraid in this man hating culture.
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