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Back in Dallas Texas in 2008 i made friends with this very hot girl named Megan Long and she had a twin sister named Melissa Long they both looked alike and both had their own car driving it to go to school even though the school was about 3 to 5 minutes away from their home which i found very stupid and it showed just how lasy and how they think princesses shouldnt have to walk to go to school and yet they take pride in to saying and doing so....how materialistic is that....
this girl was pretty and i considered her my friend even though she would ignore me when we ran into eachother in the school's hallway ...when i was about to go back to Belgium i wrote her an email telling her that our friendship was basically meaningless because of the way she acted since real friends aren't suppose to act like that ....here is my message saying goodbuy to her:
Megan it's been a long time......well yesterday was my las day of school now i'm going back to Belgium ...Even though our friendship in 2008 was a little pointless it was intresting...good luck with wathever you will do in the futur....
Look at here reply : Aw, I'm sorry you're leaving. I know we didn't talk much (like, at all) this year but i'm definatly glad I met you. It was short-lived, but I don't think our friendship was pointless. : )
I probubly will never see you again but I hope you succed in whatever you do - you deserve it. you're a great guy <3
My point being? In conclusion did you notice how she said "I know we didn't talk much (like, at all) this year" That just proves how a friendship with an American girl is not worth trying to keep.....
You are correct. I feel bad you decided to do a foreign exchange in America. As you said, even a guy from a western European country as Belgium has issues with American women. I know that men from other parts of the world have had problems too with the average American woman. I know that it is bad in other countries but the idea of friendships is really artificial. This is why I will never be friends with American women. I know that they are not 'true' friends. American men are not better but they are better friends than American women are usually. They actually 'try' to be a 'normal' friend and not a person who calls you a friend and never wants to talk to you or do things with you. It is good you are not seeing her again. She is real bitch (and her sister) and this shows how by being a good guy and talking to her you cannot even be a friend to her. I have not had any female friends in my life and I will never have female friends who are American. I believe that you can have European women as friends. I know this is possible and generally they actually do activities with you and give you advice. It does not happen in America and I have seen this time and time again when you try to do something with them or ask them advice on a certain topic that does not relate to dating too. Well, I am glad you found the forum: Happier Abroad. Most men on here are American. They have had problems with the social/dating problem with American women and how Americans are in the US.
My advice to you is that you decide to go to another country if you want to do university in a foreign country. Please do not choose America. I know that I had problems coming to mind that I want to leave and I am trying to find normal ways such as education (master's degree) or other ways such as teaching English. I want to live in a different society and not have to live the artificial American life style everyday. Well, thanks for your story of how a European views America and look in other areas of the forum for questions you might have about living in different countries.
How long did it take you to find a new woman once you got back to Belgium? 2 wks? When I was in Germany, it took me about 5 days, once I got to a major city, to find a willing girl. I wish I could live in either Europe or South America. Making a living above minimum wage is the only reason I came back to the states. In those years I've been back, I have not have a girl friend or regular sex, and I am extremely lonely.
I've had lots of girls flirt but they are flakey, immature, always change their minds for unknown reasons. I find Anglophone women to me the worst of all the Earth's children.
about 3 weeks because i was still scared of approaching them since i had still this old habit in my had that they were just going to react like american girls but when i saw a very very hot girl eating a sandwish on a bench i went to her and took a chance and i was very surprised with the result because she was open minded and she looked half asian half white a combination that is hard to find in america let alone talk to...
Hi Loris, are you the Belgium student who wrote this?
If so, I posted it in another thread on this board, and added it to my quotes from foreigners/immigrants page too, at:
Hope you like being part of that collection
BTW, Texas is supposed to be one of the friendliest states in the US, so I'm a bit surprised at your experience.
Were the guys in your school easy to make friends with and talk to at least?
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I forgot to mention it but one thing i did notice in Texas is that guys are easier to be friends with even though they suffer silently as well but they just to bring it up as usuall....lets face it America is the secret land of VIRGINS.....you will never believe how easy it is to get girls in Belgium they might not look as plasticly perfect as some american girls try to be but they are pretty and instead of having lifeless eyes they have eyes rich in culture and full of life....
so if everyone is having a hard time getting women in the USA. then why are women afraid of sex here Do the words trashy, tramp, etc,, hurt their ego's too much that they go out of their way not to have sex with anyone, and in the process make every guy mentally ill because he cant get none? thats the question...Do they learn from others that sex is bad? Because as far as i know sex is a good thing. And i read that europeans have sex more then 70 times per year per person then americans do... So the question is are american women holdin back from sex or abstaining from sex too much just to not be labled a cuss word?????? is it as simple as that?? i mean it really cant be all that complex to understand.
well i cant speak for everyone but based on what i experienced in Texas is that girls got to a point were sex is the least important factor in society and i even believe that whats more important to american girls is that as long as they know you people find them beautifull like princesses its all they need and that all that can satisfy them...but in Europe hahahha hohoohooo its the other way around my friend....one thing i specially realises is that americans have no sense of style like youhave to wear sportly baggy stuff to look cool etc...in europe if you dress classy and nice withe thight pants and jackets that fashion...BUT in america they call it gay....what an excuse just beasue they are obese they hate on skinny jeans LOL here in Belgium the fat people are simply fat because of old age or beer belly...SO THEY JUST HAVE A BELLY FAT BUT THATS It...in america they are so OBESE that the neck ,face, arm and legs are fat....
Whew! I had the same reaction!!! Americans just call you gay, even girls do! You have to look bulky and nasty with oversized clothes or you are gay. WTF??? We, Europeans, think totally the other way. I was always thinking that tight is sexy and being gay? Totally freaking perverted society. Try listening to techno music - Americans will right away call you gay as well. WTF? I hate retarded R'n'B and I hate retarded country music too, but guess what? There is no freedom for music tastes in America, you have to listen to hip-hop or country because otherwise you will look "gay" or "psycho" or whatever else dumb b*tches decide to call you because you don't fit into their stereotypes.
I always wanted to visit Belgium. French make jokes about Belgian people, but I heard about very good level of education and very good overall everyday life.
America is a social and sexual prison for men! Winston has stated many times that women in the US have it much easier in the dating field than men do! Dates and sex fall into their laps without them having to do anything! Even if the woman is fat as a cow, or is as ugly as sin, she STILL will have an easier time getting dates and sex than a good looking, physically fit man will! WTF?
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."