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A male is not designed to be " cute"

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A male is not designed to be " cute"

Post by track2004_400meters1 » December 12th, 2009, 5:04 am

Everywhere i go alls i see is all these so called " cute " looking girlish band geeks getting all the attention from supermodels, lingerie models,, etc,,,,, So why do you have to be " cute" for a female to love you... What i think is going on is that males are adapting to what females have done to themselves with birth control and everything. And how birth control could make women hate macho guys...

I look on myspace and i cant count how many times that a female will comment a guys picture based on the fact that he looks " cute"

Its disgusting..... They dont want men.... I swear they all want females...... Where are the women that appreciate a masculine male???????

So now in order to attract women you have to be girly looking? wow seriously.. . And now everywhere you see... It seems that males are picking up on this.. and wearing makeup, earings,, etc,, etc, in order to be more attractive to her...

Look a male is meant to be a male.. He is meant to have testosterone.. He is meant to be nothing else but a male... .When are women going to pick up on this. ANd who else notices this too?




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Post by momopi » December 12th, 2009, 5:11 am

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Re: A male is not designed to be " cute"

Post by Nate » December 12th, 2009, 6:29 am

track2004_400meters1 wrote:Everywhere i go alls i see is all these so called " cute " looking girlish band geeks getting all the attention from supermodels, lingerie models,, etc,,,,, So why do you have to be " cute" for a female to love you... What i think is going on is that males are adapting to what females have done to themselves with birth control and everything. And how birth control could make women hate macho guys...

I look on myspace and i cant count how many times that a female will comment a guys picture based on the fact that he looks " cute"

Its disgusting..... They dont want men.... I swear they all want females...... Where are the women that appreciate a masculine male???????

So now in order to attract women you have to be girly looking? wow seriously.. . And now everywhere you see... It seems that males are picking up on this.. and wearing makeup, earings,, etc,, etc, in order to be more attractive to her...

Look a male is meant to be a male.. He is meant to have testosterone.. He is meant to be nothing else but a male... .When are women going to pick up on this. ANd who else notices this too?

Why is this mysterious? Many American female "She-prics" want "He-bitches" for mates...
All aspects of a culture in decline.....

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Post by Contrarian Expatriate » December 12th, 2009, 4:11 pm

Younger, silly girls or cougars looking to dominate tend to go for the cuteness factor. In each case, the minimization of masculinity is the goal so as to prevent the male from overtaking the female in the relationship. Cute guys are playthings, eye candy, and quick screws.

When women want a provider to finance their lifestyle, future alimony, and child support, they forgo the cuteness factor in favor of how financially solvent is a man and how easily he can be manipulated into marriage. Some of these men can be downright ugly, but there is a reason attractive women marry them.

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Post by DiscoPro_Joe » December 13th, 2009, 3:38 am

My take on this issue can best be summed up with this post of mine: (click here to read).

People should just relax and be themselves, regardless of how much masculinity or femininity they were born with.

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Post by Master » January 2nd, 2010, 11:51 am

This is a beautiful and real topic. You guys don’t know how many times I have pondered this and felt this way. I’ve done and felt like I needed to be gay. Most people are. Even though I know its wrong and disgusting I felt I had to do it to get laid. Look like a girl. It did work but I felt disgusted by myself. I am a man and meant to act like a man. It castrates you to look and act like a girl. I feel deeply about this subject and I know this wiping out the manly world. I am a samurai and won’t humiliate myself to such disgust.




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