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Have you considered that you are a sex addict?

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Have you considered that you are a sex addict?

Postby Master » Tue Dec 29, 2009 11:28 am

The common thing here is that a bunch of men who are willing or are sacrificing a lot for a women they dont know just so they can sleep with them. Have you considered that you all are suffering from sex addiction?
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Postby firethrower1000 » Tue Jan 12, 2010 2:02 pm

Thats a generalization don't you think....To say that everybody is a sex addict is an exageration
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Re: Have you considered that you are a sex addict?

Postby globetrotter » Tue Jan 12, 2010 3:52 pm

Master wrote:The common thing here is that a bunch of men who are willing or are sacrificing a lot for a women they dont know just so they can sleep with them. Have you considered that you all are suffering from sex addiction?


No. Desire for companionship and sex is normal and natural.
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Postby Winston » Wed Jan 13, 2010 3:38 am

Even if we are sex addicts, so what? What should we do about it? Join a sex addicts support group? What will that do? They can't cure sex addiction. And besides, only in a puritannical society is that seen as bad.

If I have to eat everyday, is that food addiction?
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Postby ladislav » Wed Jan 13, 2010 8:26 am

A male body produces 200,000,000 sperms a day. When we try to get rid of them, we are called sex addicts. Anyway, sex addicts should be cured in the following way- 3 years in Bangkok until they are so sick and tired of sex that they can now devote their lives to other things and/or be able to see sex in perspective.
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Postby Enishi » Sat Jan 16, 2010 4:23 pm

I guess it kinda depends. I can go several months without sex and not really care. It's even easier now since I have some decent memories of fun sexual experiences under my belt. Doing meditation and chi kung also helps me to divert my energy elsewhere.

I do really want a decent girlfriend though, not just for sex, but for genuine love (me and my last girlfriend realized we weren't in love with each other and didn't remain together long) and if I have to move abroad to have that, I will.
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Postby Hero » Sat Jan 16, 2010 4:37 pm

Yes, I'm a sex addict... just like every other man on the planet.
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Postby momopi » Sat Jan 16, 2010 5:16 pm

The line is drawn where you want to do something (in control), versus you feel that you have to do something (lack of control). A person who has healthy sexual urges is normal, versus another who obsessive-compulsively masturbate throughout the day is not.
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Re: Have you considered that you are a sex addict?

Postby Nate » Sun Jan 17, 2010 5:08 am

Master wrote:The common thing here is that a bunch of men who are willing or are sacrificing a lot for a women they dont know just so they can sleep with them. Have you considered that you all are suffering from sex addiction?


Sex addict? Hmmm...I will blame that one on my girlfriend...I mean I have met some amorous filipinas, but this one has an appetite!
I mean damn...morning...noon...night...figuring I was going to die with a smile on my face and now you have ruined it!
We are both found out! Here I was thinking all this time how lucky I was and that we were such happy and friskly pair...I did accept that she is kind of a nympho...and I have really been getting used to the idea...in a glorious kind of way...and now I find out that both of us are nothing but addicts! I could have accepted being called sex maniac horn-dogs...well ok...it has GOT to be true about my GF...but I would not take offense at it...but an ADDICT? If so I must be a VICTIM! But at least in this case I don't need stimulus funds I guess...everything considered. My GF says she is totally certain we are the horniest couple she has ever heard of, but I will have to break it to her that she simply has an ailment! Considering that it appears that she is determined to F#*K me to death, I will no doubt hate you forever for saving me from such a wonderful demise!
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Postby Enishi » Sun Jan 17, 2010 5:19 am

Back when I was around my girlfriend regularly, I felt much hornier and wanted it on a more regular basis. It was the same thing back when I was going to a goth club regularly and seeing young women walking around in nipple tape and tight leather corsets, lol.

There seems to be a lot of things which influence how much desire one is feeling at the time, both external, diet and internal based. Many island based cultures have been historically more 'liberal' in regards to sex than others as a result of more sexually stimulating food. It's an interesting subject to think about.
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Re: Have you considered that you are a sex addict?

Postby Hero » Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:16 pm

Nate wrote: Sex addict? Hmmm...I will blame that one on my girlfriend...I mean I have met some amorous filipinas, but this one has an appetite!
I mean damn...morning...noon...night...figuring I was going to die with a smile on my face and now you have ruined it!
We are both found out! Here I was thinking all this time how lucky I was and that we were such happy and friskly pair...I did accept that she is kind of a nympho...and I have really been getting used to the idea...in a glorious kind of way...and now I find out that both of us are nothing but addicts! I could have accepted being called sex maniac horn-dogs...well ok...it has GOT to be true about my GF...but I would not take offense at it...but an ADDICT? If so I must be a VICTIM! But at least in this case I don't need stimulus funds I guess...everything considered. My GF says she is totally certain we are the horniest couple she has ever heard of, but I will have to break it to her that she simply has an ailment! Considering that it appears that she is determined to F#*K me to death, I will no doubt hate you forever for saving me from such a wonderful demise!


:lol: Man, I'm starting to wonder if all Filipinas are nymphos. Well, maybe they don't start out as nymphos, but once they lose their virginity, they turn into sexual tigresses. Incredible that there are so many women out there who are even hornier than I am.
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Postby leigh0180 » Mon Feb 08, 2010 8:20 am

Hahaha I really don't think that it is an addiction but more of an uncontrollable desire.
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