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How to deal with bitchy women

Postby Mystery » Fri Sep 03, 2010 5:26 pm

A big part of empowering your dating and social life is to become aware of the culture you live in. It’s like telling a fish what water is, he will never know until he gets out of it. Besides going out of the country, the best way to become aware of your culture is to look at the clearest role models.

First look at this video. It’s a very funny video made out of fun. It portrays neediness but in a humoristic and respectful way.

The Lonely Island - Jizz In My Pants
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLnWf1sQkjY

Now look at this video response from a woman. It may be funny but it’s made out of anger, dismissiveness and arrogance. It portrays one of the most toxic aspects of the North-American culture by associating puking with pleasure and by associating disgust with social interactions.

MsTaken.com - Puke In My Mouth
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJsQcnB6GC0

People leave two kinds of feedback. Either “waaaa thez girlzz are sso hott I wanna BANG them ALL!!â€￾ or “that’s crap and it takes the fun out of the original videoâ€￾. Nobody says they would actually enjoy spending time with these girls other than a quick bang. These girls treat men like shit. The sad truth is that there are many women living like you see in the video, and the way you do one thing is the way you do everything.

A conventional goal for ladies men is to attract hotter women. I would suggest reframing this into attracting better experiences with women. It’s not just about the physical look, it’s all about the overall experience you’re living with them. Let’s look at how to handle independent bitchy women.

If you’re in a relationship with such a woman, don’t think she’ll treat you differently than the rest of the people. The way they do one thing is the way they do everything, so even if you sleep with her, the next day she’ll take her independence back and treat you like a wimp. If things are going great in the relationship, she’ll eventually treat you like she treats everybody whenever there will be any kind of problem in the relationship. So how do you solve this? Take a ride with her, drop her off the road, keep driving and see the problem getting smaller and smaller in the mirror. Their drama does not have to part of your experience in life.

Lots of men are thrown off by such women in bars and clubs. They become afraid of talking with women, they can’t enjoy socializing and they get emotionally thrown off by their rude behaviors. How do you handle that? The hardest part is probably not to be emotionally affected by them as their aggressiveness is very contagious. The easiest way to detach yourself emotionally from them is to realize this is only a social façade covering a more gentle nature. The games they play only lead to fantasy and not to reality. Becoming aware of what a real woman is and becoming aware of how natural connection with women happens is the best way to detach yourself from independent women and to not want anything form them. The only way to get physical with these women is to be even more independent than they are, and it’s not worth it. The best relationships I had so far were always the ones that happened the most effortlessly. Once you are not emotionally affected by these women anymore, you want to keep a great social and open vibe when you’re going out. When you talk with half the people in the bar and come across a rude independent woman or group of women, just tell them in a calm way “If you’re not here to socialize and if you treat people like shit, stay the f*** homeâ€￾ and move on. If dozens of guys tell them, they’ll eventually get the message and bars will be an open place where you can socialize and enjoy conversations with people.

The biggest part of this is to realize there are other social dynamics that exist. Things can be different. Look at this video to experience a totally different reality. You’ll see a huge contrast. This is the kind of vibe you want to have when you go out. Watch this video 5 times in a row and really feel the energy. Soak in the energy.

Natural Grounding 'SuperHalo' Shakti Meditation
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9IL6kx_y2vw

Living a great dating and social life is like growing a gorgeous and colorful garden. Weed doesn’t respect the beauty of the other flowers and they try to take all the space. Take out the weed, plant flowers, value these flowers and take care of them. That’s the best way to have a great garden. Do the same with your social life. Most girls are neither a pure angel nor a pure bitch. They are a mix in-between and have both aspects within them to varying degrees. You can bring out the angelic side of them through the way you feel, through what you value and through how you expect them to behave. However, it’s always easier and better to select than to train women.
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Postby fox » Fri Oct 29, 2010 12:56 pm

Mystery,

no offense but your stuff is weird. really creeps me out
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Postby E_Irizarry » Fri Oct 29, 2010 2:12 pm

fox wrote:Mystery,

no offense but your stuff is weird. really creeps me out


Hey Fox what's new?

I don't know what is so weird about Mystery. Can you please enlighten us? Maybe I missed the points here?
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Postby fox » Fri Oct 29, 2010 4:41 pm

E_Irizarry wrote:
fox wrote:Mystery,

no offense but your stuff is weird. really creeps me out


Hey Fox what's new?

I don't know what is so weird about Mystery. Can you please enlighten us? Maybe I missed the points here?


not this post. but he claims to teach 'seduction' while his approach and ideas are weird.
he has some weird posts on Rion's forum.

one of his ideas is playing with your penis while watching Thai music videos - and that is supposed to make you an attractive man :shock:

He also talks about other weird and creepy stuff which I don't want to get into here now.

So I would not reccomand learning 'seduction' from this dude
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Postby E_Irizarry » Fri Oct 29, 2010 5:22 pm

fox wrote:one of his ideas is playing with your penis while watching Thai music videos - and that is supposed to make you an attractive man :shock:


That sounds a tad weird, but hey, if that would help a dude get his own confidence and PUA game up for when he really interacts with a woman, then it's all good.
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"MGTOW resilience is the key to foreign residence. You better muthafuckin' ask somebody!!"
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"I rather be ostracized by 157.0 million (27.3% of the US of Gay pop), then to appease 1 feminist." - E. Irizarry (2013)

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Postby ssjparris » Fri Oct 29, 2010 11:06 pm

fox israeli dude. ( why are they so smart, dang israeli people ) you do have a point man. they is very weird stuff. you don't have to do techniques with foreign women though. this stuff is just really unnatural crap. its totally unnecessary.
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Postby fox » Sat Oct 30, 2010 2:22 am

ssjparris wrote:fox israeli dude. ( why are they so smart, dang israeli people ) you do have a point man. they is very weird stuff. you don't have to do techniques with foreign women though. this stuff is just really unnatural crap. its totally unnecessary.


Yea foreign women are the best.

One thing I like about them is that they never give you tests that they picked up on 'sex and the city'.

Israeli women are not as bad as American women but they are learning and I think that the way things are going, they might become like them in the future.
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Postby ssjparris » Sat Oct 30, 2010 7:05 am

yes your exactly right fox. I am very sorry to hear that about israeli women. from my experience they are just extraordinary women. they perhaps are moving in the same route as american. i like isralei sooooo much its sad to hear that i have to have more money then them, have a car, and a house ouch. but foreign women in general are the best women in the world hands down.
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Postby ssjparris » Sat Oct 30, 2010 7:08 am

so they give you tests on " sex and the city ". your talking about israeli women, right ?
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Postby fox » Sat Oct 30, 2010 8:54 am

ssjparris wrote:so they give you tests on " sex and the city ". your talking about israeli women, right ?


Yea they give you tests that they picked up on 'sex and the city' or from other stupid American TV shows.

American culture really influenced my country esp. the women.
Now sadly they are becoming more and more like American women.

I really hope that this will stop but I'm not very optimistic looking at the direction things are going...
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Postby ssjparris » Sat Oct 30, 2010 9:33 am

aw man yes this is a said thing. not a very good one at all. i like them soo much. but they sound like they are turning slowly into american. oh no !!. okay we still have millions of other approachable friendly high quality women in the world that is for sure.
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