whats a good first country to go to for an american?

[hamdizzel]

for an American to gain his confidence back what first country would be best?
maybe a country with more women for sex then romance?

[ladislav]

Philippines, Angeles City- 2 hour bus ride from Manila airport- ask around. Fields Avenue. Stay at any hotel there. Check out youtube for:

angeles city bar girls,

angeles city bars.

angeles city pool party

To get an idea.

[E_Irizarry]

Shit don’t I know about that city!!!!!

Ham Dizzel, get there A-SAP because every six months that place is changing for the worse.

I went for the thickest pros in those Angeles City bars. Go to that Spanish influenced place called “La Presa� (even though fresa is Spanish for strawberry). It has strawberries in a sign above the place.

You go in there, and they have the cutest bargirls in AC (Angeles City) hands the hell down.

So easy to “smash� a bargirl from those bars.

[raindreamer333]

Why do you want to have sex first, and then romance? Shouldn't romance come before sex? Sex without love is a waste of time. You must as well just save your money and masturbate. Save sex for a special lady you really adore.

for an American to gain his confidence back what first country would be best?
maybe a country with more women for sex then romance?

[YoucancallmeAl]

Why do you want to have sex first, and then romance? Shouldn't romance come before sex? Sex without love is a waste of time. You must as well just save your money and masturbate. Save sex for a special lady you really adore.

for an American to gain his confidence back what first country would be best?
maybe a country with more women for sex then romance?

Raindreamer,
You wouldn't happen to be female, would you?
Because as a male, TRUST ME, sex without love is anything BUT a waste of time. In fact, it's probably the best use of time I've ever found. What wastes a lot of my time is all the strings and hassles that are added to the equation when romance is involved.

[rome86]

raindreamer seems to be a woman ..men care more about sex than romance a man cannot be happy with romance without but can enjoy sex with any woman ..that is a fact
but most women seem to care more about romance and commitment...
so sex is more important for a man

[Marcus Aurelius]

Well, in reality you may meet women of quality out there and get both. American women dominate relationships and really make sex more trouble than its worth here: but in a place like that you won't have the same problem. The women are just NICER.

[djfourmoney]

Just for sex? If your in America, Mexico is close and cheap.

Best thing to do is research International Sex Guide or Word Sex Guide.

[YoucancallmeAl]

Just for sex? If your in America, Mexico is close and cheap.

Best thing to do is research International Sex Guide or Word Sex Guide.

Yeah, but it's better when you don't have to pay for it.

[The_Adventurer]

When since he specifically said to get his confidence back, I agree with the Philippines recommendation. Not because of the bars or bargirls, but because just walking around there, or going into any shop or mall will quickly boost a man's confidence when he sees how all women react to him.

[wuxi]

I've heard stories of guys that go to philippines just to bang hookers and end up falling in love with them. I don't know if these stories are true but if they are it sure says something about the quality of the women there.

[E_Irizarry]

I've heard stories of guys that go to philippines just to bang hookers and end up falling in love with them. I don't know if these stories are true but if they are it sure says something about the quality of the women there.

That's really happening to the ex-pats and whoremonger tourists that come there. Per my case, I don't fall in love with them, but I do f**k them more than once if I feel some type of connection with the hooker.

[Repatriate]

I've heard stories of guys that go to philippines just to bang hookers and end up falling in love with them. I don't know if these stories are true but if they are it sure says something about the quality of the women there.

This happens quite frequently in Thailand. I'd say as high as 3 out of 5 of the white western male/thai female pairing usually involves a working girl. You can tell because they are tatt'd up pretty extensively, are from the NE area of Thailand (Isaan) with darker skin, and usually dress a certain way (tight hip hugger jeans with heels, gaudy earrings, and bar girl type accessories) that makes it way obvious.

The most revealing part is the way they speak thai. Working girls use a lot of crude thai language and just aren't very educated. Their english is usually pretty good but also has a lot of bar girlisms.

[djfourmoney]

Just for sex? If your in America, Mexico is close and cheap.

Best thing to do is research International Sex Guide or Word Sex Guide.

Yeah, but it's better when you don't have to pay for it.

It is?

I was hoping to get a cheap (read: free) piece off this BBW, something I swore off of years ago but given I have no money at the moment I can't afford to even do TJ and that's saying something since its cheap to go ($28RT bus) and street girls run about $25US, Bar Girls about $50-60US. So my options are limited, plus I'm not hypocrite.

Having sex with any woman just to say you're not paying for it is silly. As I mentioned before, BBW not ideal, far from it. Next on the "easy" list are Single Mothers. Both I have dealt with in the past and have no desire to deal with now or in the future. By paying, you get what you want. One of the last time's I got a very attractive, busty, long brown hair Latina with very light skin. Was kinda mechanical but visually its what I wanted and it looked great, made noise, etc. Yes I know its not "real" attraction or sexual contact, but neither is porn.

I much rather pay for it, than to invite woman, after woman out to a date or something to build up to a point of having sex, if all I wanted in the first place was to have sex.

While I was in Germany, I went to P4P's rather than give false hope to a overweight German mother of 3 boys that I might be interested in here and get some cheap p***y off of.

That's just how I roll, if you're a civilian (not a pro or part-timer) and if you wanna bang me great, but I am not willing to go through the gyrations to get it, 3 date min crap.

[djfourmoney]

I've heard stories of guys that go to philippines just to bang hookers and end up falling in love with them. I don't know if these stories are true but if they are it sure says something about the quality of the women there.

This happens quite frequently in Thailand. I'd say as high as 3 out of 5 of the white western male/thai female pairing usually involves a working girl. You can tell because they are tatt'd up pretty extensively, are from the NE area of Thailand (Isaan) with darker skin, and usually dress a certain way (tight hip hugger jeans with heels, gaudy earrings, and bar girl type accessories) that makes it way obvious.

The most revealing part is the way they speak thai. Working girls use a lot of crude thai language and just aren't very educated. Their english is usually pretty good but also has a lot of bar girlisms.

But people make post like his because he comes from a Western preceptive that you don't marry Sex Workers. I personally don't have a problem with it. At the end of the day Sex Workers that happen to be women are just that, women and want the same things other women do. You just assume in your Western Mind that these women aren't emotionally impacted by what they do. The same goes for Porn Stars and Strippers. Yes you can find alot of dysfunction in the Sex Industry, but not all the women are bat-shit crazy or even unfaithful. Another factor I find interesting is so many men expect these women to give up what they are doing and find a "regular job". Okay genius how many jobs do you know where a woman can make $300-$1000 or more a day?

Now that said, most of the girls from poorer countries tend to stop doing it because it was a means to an end and that's all. In Western Culture its not a means to an end for most, its a career choice.