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Hey Hey dudes and dudettes long time no posts. narly yo. hahaha....
okay so I what i have observed here in the good ol' US of A. is this.... the society needs to be male dominated. In order for it to be in a harmonious and peaceful society.
here in america men are innocent and get in to trouble whenever a woman feels like getting him into trouble. Like for instance, i was in the military a few years ago. i purued an american lady, but only because she was attracted to me. guess what happened. she told my boss that if i keep trying to be around her she will file sexual harrassment charges on me. so i stopped. A couple of months later she leaves the naval command. I close friend comes along and tells me she actually liked me. which i knew already. so why the hell file sexual harrassment charges on me if you liked me.
anyways i learned to live in a male dominated society such as east europe, mexico, part of south america, all of asia. the men in most of these countries can slap girls butts in public and get away with it. the authorities won't stop the guy from grabbing the girls ass. ( i am going to have lots of fun with this one ).
i talked to a female friend from bulgaria through facebook. she told me the guys there are married and have another girl on the side. the married woman knows about this. but she can't do anything about it. the authorities won't stop this from happening if they found out. why is this. because the society is male dominated.
it is extremely safe for males to be in foreign countries that are not feminist. the wome can't get you into trouble for saying hey baby nice ass.
here is something else that i found interesting. the women back in the 1950's if they dressed erotically in the slightest, they then would be fined in public.
if they acted sexual in public trying to tease men. they would get into trouble for it. now-a-days it is flipped. Men are The ones who get into trouble.
If a woman in our current era bends over to show you her ass, she gets away with it. but if the guy she is teasing looks to long. she gets HIM into trouble. When really she flirted with him, harrassed him sexually by bending over ON PURPOSE. how warped is that shit !!!.
So all in all. choose the male dominated society of your choice. have lots of fun giving cat calls, hey baby's, or " come here and sit on my dick honey bunny". watch how easy it is to do this and the girls know they can't do anything about it. let me know what ya guys think.
Not to sound sappy or something but I think your missing the point.
In other countries were its understood that your man has a chick on the side and they are powerless to do anything about it is one extreme. The other extreme is what you stated that women accuse men of wrong doing and are guilty until proven innocent.
What is ideal (middle ground) is that MEN are faithful to one woman or don't get married. In return women respect the men in their lives and defend them from others when called upon.
This is why Foreign Women value Western Men highly, at least those that want something that can't get at home. What's kind of ruined it for those looking for seriously relationship are those looking for STR at the expense of those looking LTR. Is this why the subject of P4P constantly comes up especially in Eastern Europe. How do the woman know your just not their for your jollies? There's nothing wrong with pursuing women for sex only, I just think this forums basic theme is beyond that.
Well I wouldn't quite go that far. America needs far more work than the rest of the world does, no place is utopia. If your minimalist, then you can likely live in the developing world and be just fine, but I wouldn't assume everybody wants to do that.
Here's what I wanna know however, society it just another brick in the wall. You need to take the overall picture into account.
If (insert country) is superior in one way, its inferior in others.
Sao Paulo has terrible traffic issues. If you think The 405 or The Jersey Turnpike are bad... I'd say Moscow has horrendous traffic problems and even more lax police force to deal with accidents, car thief, getting jacked and all kinds of stuff. Other countries make it expensive to own basic things we take for granted in America.
I think what we talk about here is what place is good for finding a long term relationships and quality of life with that person. Those are not separate issues.
djfourmoney makes some good points. I really loved the girls in Philippines, and the consistently warm weather, but the chickens walking around making noise, mangy dogs, poor food, people urinating everywhere, and general uncleanliness kinda ruined it for me.
“b***y is so strong that there are dudes willing to blow themselves up for the highly unlikely possibility of b***y in another dimension." -- Joe Rogan
For those who live outside the LA area and am not familiar with the 405 FWY:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interstate ... alifornia)
"I-405 is a heavily-traveled thoroughfare by commuters and freight haulers along its entire length and has earned its place as the busiest and most congested freeway in the United States. The freeway's annual average daily traffic between exits 21 and 22 in Seal Beach reached 374,000 in 2008, making it the highest count in the nation."
"The San Diego Freeway's congestion problems are legendary, leading to the joke that the Interstate was numbered 405 because traffic moves at "four or five" miles an hour. Indeed, average speeds as low as five miles per hour are routinely recorded during morning and afternoon commutes, and its interchanges with the Ventura Freeway (U.S. Route 101) and with the Santa Monica Freeway (Interstate 10) each consistently rank among the five most congested freeway interchanges in the United States. As a result of these congestions problems on I-405, it may take longer to pass through the entire Los Angeles area using this bypass route than merely taking the parent I-5 through the city.
Commuters are known to despise the freeway. Steve Harvey of the Los Angeles Times once featured a personalized license plate with the text HATE405 in his column. While much of this gridlock has to do with the lack of alternate routes between many of the areas it connects â€” some of which, such as the Pacific Coast and Laurel Canyon freeways, were proposed but abandoned for political reasonsâ€” the freeway would likely be busy even with the addition of other roads and mass transit solutions, as it connects so many important Greater Los Angeles area locations."
p.s. I live next to the Jeffery/University exit @ 405 FWY (the UC Irvine exit). But my biggest local traffic problem is Laguna Canyon Rd (SR 133). It's nice and scenic, but one accident or severe weather and it's out.
@ djfourmoney thank you very much for your perspective. I will have to agree with onezero4u the american society really does suck period. If You really want to live in a place where you can pursue women without trouble. as in she finds it flattering. then it is all good.
the american society is garbage period. workaholics, no social life, vast majority of women are after rich guys only. Now I understand that it isn't fair for the married foreign girl to see her husband with a mistress. My point is this....Your safe in that kind of environment as a male. The women CANNOT get you into trouble. You are totally free to express your desires there in these types of environments.
Phillipines is definitely a place where the girls can not get you into trouble. just like winston said your free to express your desires to be a with a woman. Here in the states it is very dangerous to express desires.
take the arab for example with his post about emasculated men. I totally agree, i am working on getting my masculinity back, in fact i am going to post something else. just came up. HA !!!.
I agree many men are metrosexual and emasculated. I didn't say the US doesn't have problems and sucks more than it needs to. What I am saying is being able to pinch women on the butt or whistle at them as they walk about a work area isn't expectable behavior either. Why have a mistress? I say don't get married. You get married to have and raise CHILDREN AND for companionship. You can have companionship without having children, then when that woman gets on your nerves or gets old, you replace here and there's no legal issues to deal with, as long as that's understood between the two parties.
Girls don't get into trouble in much of Europe or South America. I wouldn't say Western Europe is controlled by Women or European men are suffering from Feminism run amok. Prostitution is legal in Germany in controlled areas and just like The Netherlands. What has Asgane in trouble is much more troubling because it can be politically motivated and people are already assuming he's guilty of rape or something when its actually something different.
I don't have to get it back, I already do "guy things", I can build work on or fix anything and I drag race, love racing and football. So when bitches say I have nothing to bring to the table it just means they are gold diggers.
I just have to put my 2 cents in here.
I agree with you DJ! I mean I really don't see the value in shouting out crude comments or slapping a woman's ass. I mean, seriously, what does that say about you? The truth is, would you like some random guy grabbing your daughter's ass? Would you like some random guy shouting out "Hey Honey, come sit on my dick!" to your little sister? Your mother? Your grandmother? It's fine and dandy if it's someone else's daughter etc... BUT if it was yours, then I sure you wouldn't be pleased. The golden rule gentlemen!
I tend to want to treat people with class, including women UNTIL they prove themselves unworthy of it. Acting like a dog just ain't me. But different strokes and such.........
I agree that feminism has ruined most western countries, because, IMHO, it's gone WAY to far BUT should we go back to the good, old bad days?
As far as the Arab's posting, which I read, there are things he isn't telling you. I don't have the time right now to go into it BUT here are some things to consider....
1.)Women is his country, (he never said which one) , if it's an Islamic one, could be demure and horny BUT Mr. Arab would never know that because they aren't allowed outside without male chaperones. If Mr. Arab went up and slapped one of these women on the ass OR made a lewd comment, MR. Arab would be getting his ass kicked quite hard by her chaperone. If he, Mr. Arab did the kicking, THEN her family would get involved UNLESS Mr. Arab has powerful connections. Even then, the situation would be very very dicey.
2.)Women, in most Arab countries, are considered only for procreation. Whom are considered for sexual recreation? Just google "The Dancing boys of Afghanstan" for the answer to that question.
ssjParis, respect is what is warranted for both genders. How would you like to be treated that way if you were born female? Do unto others as you will have them do unto you. We want healthy relationships, not immoral ones.
In other words - The Golden Rule as mentioned by Truthville
Healthy Relationships are generally what is missing, explains the high divorce rate, constant misunderstanding the genders, etc, etc, etc.
@ womans'view are you a woman or a emasculated man.
sooooooo.....all i can say is this. the women enjoy getting their butt slapped and pinched in public. they enjoy cat calls or 'crude statements' they are very very sexual they just keep quite about it.
if your really a woman, come come now you know you. it is better period to be away from someone like you.
@ truthville i slap ass in public ALL the time. guess what....the girls blush and giggle and laugh. why is this !? because they enjoy it.
how about those comments to girls. " hey baby ride my dick !" they keep really quite and they never get angry. this includes american women. they like these comments. and butt slapping too.
Your just some emasculated man that does not know how women think. your a feminine fool.
I act the way I do BECAUSE I want to. You act the way you do BECAUSE you want to. Doesn't matter much to me.
Slapping a woman's ass and being crude just isn't my style. If it works for you, great!
Calling me names? Seriously, how old are you?
I will say that tend to be attracted to women whom have a little something called "class." Therefore, I tend to portray myself and act as if I also have "class."
Each to his own!
P.S. How does someone keep really "quite?"