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http://joybehar.blogs.cnn.com/2011/02/0 ... r-orgasms/
I don't see this as a problem as much as a rejection of America's current cultural structure. Why should men go out to local watering holes and nightclubs to only be rejected by groups of women because women often travel in packs for various reasons and men don't go alone often not to seem like some weirdo. Women have the upper hand, only women not that attractive are the ones that complain about getting rejected by the best looking man in the room, as it should be. Why should an attractive man have to downgrade? But women expect that if we aren't that attractive we should automatically downgrade. I think women live in fantasy land and men often live in a stark reality.
Men often date already BELOW what they believe tthey would be a match too. Which is why you see fat women with thin men. Just to get any p***y at all many men are just saying no. Why should your choices be - Fat Girls, Girls that make jokes about you when your not looking and Internet Porn? To me I fully understand how Porn could replace actual pursuits of relationships, to many men its just not worth it.
I'd also say a big factor in the addiction to porn by many men is the fact that prostitution is illegal in 99.8% of the US the sole exception being Nevada and not very close to populations centers.
What's your opinion?
There's not going to be any acknowledgement on a show like that of the real problem, which is American women and their attitudes and lack of genuine affection for men and their disdain of romantic attitudes in general. The default viewpoint on that show and everything else on the dinosaur media is an anti-men, feminist perspective. Why should a man be expected to have sexual interest in what is often a fat, masculine woman with an attitude? Look at Joy Behar, who would be aroused for that creature?
I faked it sometimes with a chick I used to see in the Philippines when I first got here. She was hot but she would get so aroused during sex she would get too wet and then you could feel absolutely nothing! I kid you not it was like f***ing a bucket of water or something. So eventually I think she figured out I was achieving orgasm so we kinda just drifted apart. She was psychotic anyways so probably better that way. But as they often say, the craziest ones are often the best in bed...
"The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane." Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and stoic philosopher, 121-180 A.D.
*cough* the ancient Chinese secret for men to stay thin, push 1/2 of the food on your over-sized American portioned-plate to someone else's plate, such as your date or girlfriend's. There's a trick to this, you have to sell it well, like "hey wanna try a bite of this" and "let me try a bite of that", while you send a larger portion of your plate onto hers, and take a smaller portion from her plate onto yours. Downside is that your GF is going to get chubby after a couple years.
By American sized portions, I mean breakfast like this:
If your date is Korean, you might want to consider finishing her plate (or bowl) for her as a sign of affection. This is rather old fashioned and may not work with youngsters.
Prostitution may be illegal de jure in most cities in North America, but the fact is (de facto) that certain forms of prostitution is tolerated in many places as long as you don't rub it in the public's eye.