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Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by Winston » September 25th, 2018, 1:04 pm

It seems sad. But Asian men are in a different predicament. We are not liked for our appearance or masculinity or white genes. We are only valued for our money and income. Thats why asian guys are expected to have a lot of money in order to have value to women. And they attract materialistic women too. It's very sad.

@eurobrat told me he went to ukraine and noticed that all the asian men there had to shower their women with lots of money in order to get brides or do well. I was shocked. Thats so sad.

So what happened to soulmate connection? It doesnt exist except in my mind? Lol. Thats baloney. There are many spiritual non-materialistic white women in America and europe. But they arent attracted to asian men. They still want their cute or hot white guy.

So you see im stuck between a rock and a hard place. Ill ask other asian men if they experience the same.
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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by Winston » September 25th, 2018, 1:06 pm

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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by Contrarian Expatriate » September 25th, 2018, 1:50 pm

Most young Asian men who do well with hot women in America are just as broke as the next guy, but they are in shape and exude masculine energy more than the average Asian men.

Sure Asian men do have lower testosterone on average. You know what that means? Get into the gym and eat a diet that increases testosterone!

Asian men have to work a bit harder for the hot girls like the rest of us "ethnics," but I would put up my current success with girls against any white guy who previously blew me away in the younger years because I had to work on myself to get what I had while it came to them easily till their "Chad looks" went away. Mine are still here in large measure because I still work out hard and melanated skin does not show signs of aging nearly as much.

One anecdote I want to share is that I have a sex partner in the Caucasus who is engaged to a Chinese man from Russia. She tells me she does not love him and barely even likes him but he is quite wealthy and her mother insists that she marry him. However, she is in my bed each time I fly in town. I saw photos of the young man and he is quite good looking (to which she very much agrees), but he only has himself to blame for setting himself up to be used for money by his fiancee. That is his crime, not his being Asian!
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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by Cornfed » September 25th, 2018, 2:34 pm

Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
September 25th, 2018, 1:50 pm
Asian men have to work harder like the rest of us "ethnics," but I would put up my current success with girls against any white guy who previously blew me away in the younger years because I had to work on myself and what I had while it came to them easily till their looks went away.
So this negro has everything - scholarship, degree, career, early pension etc. - handed to him on a plate. The males of his species are constantly lionized and promoted as sexy to white females by the media. The whole system is set up for him to be able to f**k white females. His crowning glory was to be able to pass the foreign service exam; something which I passed online in half the required time while drinking and posted the results here. Yet despite all this he still thinks he is the underdog that society is repressing who came through because of his own heroic efforts. It is just incredible. But then even Oprah and Colin Kaepernick think they are victims. It is just never enough.

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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by zerowing1 » September 25th, 2018, 6:05 pm

Yes that's the perception but I've seen some short, poor, not goodlooking Asians get women. One was in his late 40's, 5'3, scrawny, almost bald, poorly-dressed, and slept in saunas, i.e., he was homeless. He looked like gollum. But was super social, extroverted, energetic, and confident. He'd wake up at noon, then spend his day on chat, games, and porn. He'd approach women without inhibition, and they seemed receptive to some extent.

There was another Asian male in his late 20s who lived in a run-down boarding house and worked as an English teacher. Again super extroverted and energetic. I didn't think he was goodlooking but he somewhat conformed to the kpop look and style and somehow made people think he was goodlooking. He would always pick up girls and bring them back to his room and have sex with them. They seemed to view him as a temporary escape from a life of routine.

There's some other Asians who are goodlooking or athletic and easily get women without money.

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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by Winston » September 25th, 2018, 7:47 pm

CE,
Did you ask the girl why she didnt love or like that asian guy she was supposed to marry? Was it because he was asian and asexual and unmasculine?

Why would she marry someone she didnt want and become unhappy? Usually Europeans are smarter than that.

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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by Contrarian Expatriate » September 25th, 2018, 10:59 pm

Winston wrote:
September 25th, 2018, 7:47 pm
CE,
Did you ask the girl why she didnt love or like that asian guy she was supposed to marry? Was it because he was asian and asexual and unmasculine?

Why would she marry someone she didnt want and become unhappy? Usually Europeans are smarter than that.
Actually yes. I asked her if she wants to have his children and she replied, "Yes, he is a beautiful man!" I then asked, then why are you not happy about being his future wife? Her passionate reply was, "Because he is not HERE!!!!" I dug a little deeper and gleaned that this guy is a bit of a workaholic who puts professional success too high a priority for her taste. Apparently he either owns his own company or is the director of his company. Whatever the case, sister-girl is a little bit miffed at not being his number one priority. Oddly, she looks very happy with him in social media photos so there is a chance that on some level she does like him, but she deeply resents that he is away from her for protracted periods of time. Granted, this girl is 23 and she can't think rationally as is the case with most women. She is marrying him essentially for his wealth, but she has a problem with his wealth-creating time commitments. I actually feel for the guy because he does not seem to know that his fiancee is so self-centered and unfaithful.

Buy the way, I would not call her European, she is of primarily Turkic extraction with perhaps some dollops of Slavic dropped in. She looks perhaps Latina or Israeli to some extent. Yes, I know I like the EE girls, but some of the slightly more swarthy girls catch my attention too.

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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by chanta76 » October 2nd, 2018, 1:52 pm

CE,

How did that girl meet that Chinese guy? Whose to say he might be a player too and maybe has another woman on the side and maybe thats' why he is busy.

Let say he is not a player but a hard working man who is just plain dumb around woman and is making a big mistake marrying this girl. Would you help him out? I know your sleeping with this girl but for what's it worth she is skank. Like notify him that his girl is sleeping around. I imagine with your pua skills or game you can get another fairly easy.

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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by rabbithabit » October 3rd, 2018, 2:00 pm

they are in my experience locally. taiwan girls will chase up to caucasian and black guys mostly. if an asian man throws cash around he will attract taiwan girls if no caucasian or black guys are flagging them
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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by rabbithabit » October 3rd, 2018, 2:00 pm

they are in my experience locally. taiwan girls will chase up to caucasian and black guys mostly. if an asian man throws cash around he will attract taiwan girls if no caucasian or black guys are flagging them
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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by momopi » October 6th, 2018, 1:02 am

Income is one of the checklist items, not the only item on the list for most.

If you see an 18 year old marry a wealthy old man then that may be an exception. Real/competent/successful gold diggers from developed countries wouldn’t bother with most of us, our net worth is below their expectations:

http://www.ladbible.com/community/weird ... e-20180430

Wealthy folks who use money to get bling bling girls aren’t looking for something abstract like “soul mates”. A Taiwanese guy who went to Ukraine and spent NT 1.5 million ($48.5k USD, prolly with some agency) to find a pretty young blonde complained on TV show that she was stuck up and wouldn’t do housework. When she ran away he simply spent another bucket of money to replace her with pretty young blonde #2. This kind of person is pragmatic and not a romantic.

In Taiwan we joke that girls want 3H (Height, Handsome, High income). But it's very possible to be popular with girls if you don't fit the criteria. My uncle is a little short, average looking and a poor ($) student back in college 30 years ago. But he can play the guitar and sing, and my aunt (his wife) said he had a girlfriend in every college nearby back then. This may or may not have been an exaggeration, but she was his GF back then competing against other women. This was over 30 years ago and I think musicians (and wanna be's) are still popular with the young crowd today with or without 3H. For example, the Korean band AKMU is a pair of bother-sister indy group, both are short, nerdy, and oriental in appearance. Many Koreans like to apply Western standard of beauty and comment that they're not that good looking, nor are they as popular/successful as groups like BTS or Red Velvet. But you know what, they don't give a f**k. When they signed their contract with YG they specified NO PLASTIC SURGERY. They have their own fan following who loves them and buy millions of digital download songs. The brother looks like a short and geeky Asian guy but he is very physically fit and passed the entrance requirement to join ROK Marine Corp.

https://www.koreaboo.com/stories/akdong ... eople-say/

https://www.allkpop.com/article/2014/04 ... _Pil-lMgZk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_Pil-lMgZk (enable CC for subtitles)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=darUxwCj4GI


If your hobbies is severely lacking in gender ratio, like chess, conspiracy theories, dungeons and dragons, trap/skeet shooting, fishing, etc., then you need to find some new hobbies with more girls. I was in the anime/manga hobby for years and it was mostly geeky guys, except cosplay which attracted a lot of girls. So I went to hang out with the cosplay folks as a photographer. If you're still relatively young and looking for a hobby or class with a lot of girls or appeal to girls, try music, dance, and art. Music major is filled with pretty long-haired girls in dresses and you don't need to become a pro musician to meet them. Dance class has huge lopsided gender ratio filled with girls and is great for physical fitness (I did this in college). Chess and computer club, not so much. Leave the "money showering" to old dudes trying to hit on girls half their age.
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Re: Are Asian men only valued for their money? If so that sucks!

Post by zboy1 » October 6th, 2018, 4:06 am

Simple answer: if you need to shower your 'girl' around then she isn't worth your time and money! So many Asian men are so stupid, such as mainlander's who shove money around like it's nothing.

You should never be a p***y like that to any woman! I will marry a great woman from China, who is not materialistic and self-centered like most woman on the Earth. They are a rare breed but they do exist. Winston can vouch for my gf, as he has met her before.

Dump any girl who only values you for money and find a woman who doesn't. Simple as that.

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