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Postby Banano » September 11th, 2013, 2:15 pm

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Postby Will N. Dowd » September 11th, 2013, 2:36 pm

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Postby Will N. Dowd » September 12th, 2013, 11:36 am

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Postby Will N. Dowd » September 12th, 2013, 3:12 pm

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Postby Falcon » September 12th, 2013, 4:09 pm

Have fun in Mindanao! I'm in Western Visayas now. Glad to know you're going off the beaten path. Keep us updated. :)
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Postby innovatorsclub » September 12th, 2013, 5:11 pm

Congrats....absolutely nothing wrong with bringing happiness and hope to lonely women who haven't been loved in years if ever...they know they have little hope because their are so many women they are competing with...as long as you don't promise marriage but suggest just be happy and see what happens

don't pay attention to these jealous and insecure others here...you only live once and nobody gave a shit about your happiness in North America
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Postby davewe » September 12th, 2013, 8:43 pm

Will N. Dowd wrote:Where did I ever say I pump and dump them? You guys are making unfair assumptions. I tell them I am after FWB only even before we meet so they know. I tell them I meet other girls but like sleepovers and use protection. I am actually friends with them, that's why it's FWB. I do actually like them and want them as friends. I stay in touch with them and it's usually them who cut me off when they get a BF. I don't accept smokers, drug users, tattoos and prefer no drinkers. I make everything very clear to them before we meet so their is absolutely no confusion. If they still want to meet me, they are into the same thing. If they don't, then no big deal, just move on.

The best way to do it is meet them on DIA, then friend them on FB, and then tell them what I want. If they don't unfriend me on fb then, they are OK with it usually. Just today i went to visit one of my notches from my last trip at her work and while she wasn't there, her co workers told me they knew all about me as the girl in question had spoken very highly about me.

I am completely open and honest with these girls and they thank me for being so even if they are not interested. I even tell them all about my old foreign GF's in Canada.


I too was a little bit surprised by the "pump and dump comments" by a few other posters. I know Will outside of HA (at least a little bit). My impression of him is that he really likes the Philippines and its culture, really loves Pinays, and seems pretty honest with the girls he gets to know.

Is it still possible that despite his honesty that some of the girls meet him hoping to become "the one" - of course. It's also very possible IMO that after a while of having fun with as many girls as possible, one of those girls will actually snag him and he will decide to go for a relationship. But in the meantime I do not believe he is destroying the Philippines and its women.

Maybe it's a fine line but there are many foreigners who come to PI and use and abuse the women. I just don't think Will is one of these. I think (or at least hope) that's he's left Canada behind for good and found a new home.
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Postby Will N. Dowd » September 14th, 2013, 3:26 am

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Postby Hero » September 15th, 2013, 12:16 am

Damn, this is a long thread. I don't have time to read every post, but I'll just say that I know exactly what Will is talking about. I, too, was God over there.

By the way, Will, would you remind me how old you are?
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Postby Will N. Dowd » September 15th, 2013, 3:10 am

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Postby publicduende » September 15th, 2013, 4:47 pm

Glad to know you're enjoying Davao City! As you may (or may not) remember I was there for 2 weeks, December last year, and definitely liked the vibe, the food and the girls (for what I could like of them, as I'm married). It's nowhere near as cosmopolitan as Manila, but being a somewhat backwater city, it probably has better opportunities for you to find good girls who will want to spend some time with you without the high risk of scamming.

Where are you staying, by the way? Renting a flat, or a hotel?
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Postby Will N. Dowd » September 15th, 2013, 5:29 pm

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Postby Mr S » September 15th, 2013, 5:47 pm

Will N. Dowd wrote:Today was a bit of a disaster as I cut hair in the CR in my apartelle. I removed the wall mirror from above the sink and put in on the window sill for a brighter better view, but it fell and smashed, so the hotel will charge me. I successfully cut my hair using a wall mirror I moved into the CR. Then the hot water tap broke, so I had bad luck with my place. While this was going on the 16 year old texted me incessantly saying she was waiting for me at the mall and missed me terribly, even though she barely said a word to me yesterday. She texted me almost 80 times just today, pleading me to meet her at the mall and how she wanted to kiss and hug me so badly. Doesn't matter what I told her, she kept saying the same thing, she missed me terribly and wouldn't be shy anymore.

Then I went to another mall in the evening and told her so she immediately came there to meet me, texting me furiously the whole time. For every text I sent her, she would send me 3 or 4. While waiting for her at the mall about 8 sales girls gave me the 20 questions routine, but I then excused myself to meet the 16 year old outside, with her aunt who is my age haha! She was much more open this time and kissed me 3x on the cheeks while her Aunt wasn't looking, while the security guards were laughing in the back ground. This girl is truly beautiful. Flawless skin, thick long hair, perfect smile, exotic eyes and a really attractive jawline and cheeks. If she was 18 I would be all over it, she is that attractive. She has told me she is a virgin, but is not scared of making love and hope she can with me when she is 18 in 2 years.

The japanese/pinay mall girl is on her way over for the night and I've got a girl a day lined up for the next few days. I'm sure the 16 year old will assault me with messages every day from now on but I cherish it, she is really stunning and calls me gwapo and wants to kiss me on the lips next time for her first time. She invited me to her house and her aunt agreed. She knows I meet other girls and knows until she is 18 we can't be alone even though we both want it. Her 5' 0 body is petite and slender. Very weird experience to have a 16 year old obsessed with me, while in Canada she would have called the police on me! Her mum died 5 years ago and her Dad is in manila so she lives with her mums sister.


Why you wasting time cutting your hair in the apartel mirror when you can go to any decent barber shop or salon and get your hair cut for only a few dollars?
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Postby publicduende » September 15th, 2013, 5:50 pm

Will, I appreciate you're head over heels about being the subject of attention of a beautiful 16 years old...but be careful. I have heard stories of such girls becoming obsessed with the foreigner and putting up some serious shit when they wouldn't get reciprocated or just bumped off after a while. In the Philippines it is illegal to even be in the same room with a minor who is not part of your family, so the girl needs very, very little indeed to stir the interest of a local police guy (especially if bribed, or bribable). Davao is a relatively safe city, but that also means that Mayor Duterte has created special (armed!) forces for everything...even to keep the "morality" in order, which means whatever BS a jaded underage girl and her family may want to throw at you, will definitely stick.
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Postby publicduende » September 15th, 2013, 5:52 pm

Mr S wrote:Why you wasting time cutting your hair in the apartel mirror when you can go to any decent barber shop or salon and get your hair cut for only a few dollars?


LOL true, in Davao I had a haircut with scalp massage for 90 pesos!
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