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Postby Ghost » Tue Sep 24, 2013 3:08 pm

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zboy1 wrote:Yes, the Philippines and Thailand is the whorehouse of Asia...shameful, really...


They're just two emerging countries where poverty and inequality push women to those behaviours. I wouldn't want to make a generalisation. Maybe it's us, or some of us at least, who view those countries as such.


As opposed to the West, where women are just whores of another color? Just because a country is poor doesn't mean that it can't have morals. There are probably good girls out in the Philippines somewhere. Even poor ones who didn't become whores. From what I've been told from a good source, Thailand is very conservative outside the tourist/partying areas. I'm sure Philippines is largely the same if you get rural enough. Finding a good girl there and living there and being accepted is a whole other story though...
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Postby publicduende » Tue Sep 24, 2013 7:28 pm

Ghost wrote:As opposed to the West, where women are just whores of another color? Just because a country is poor doesn't mean that it can't have morals. There are probably good girls out in the Philippines somewhere. Even poor ones who didn't become whores. From what I've been told from a good source, Thailand is very conservative outside the tourist/partying areas. I'm sure Philippines is largely the same if you get rural enough. Finding a good girl there and living there and being accepted is a whole other story though...


If you say "all women are whores" because you're disillusioned/jaded towards all women, that's a different story. I was simply pointing out that desperation and poverty often push women into a man's arms (and legs!) without much consideration for moral standards and social norms.

I have never been to Thailand but for what I could observe in the Philippines, there's a very high number of girls with high moral standards who wouldn't even consider losing their virginity before marriage. In Davao, where wealthy and upper class families are only a handful and usually send their offspring to Manila or abroad, the few poor or working class girls who are blessed by good looks (= eg. Chinese looks, fair skin, slender body) guard their virginity as their most precious asset, even more than that hard-earned nursing or accountancy degree. This in the hope to be spotted and chosen by a boy a few notches above their status. I personally spoke to two of them and they both told me that they don't even want to be seen with older foreigners in public, for the fear of being gossiped about and lose their chances to be a good catch for an upper class Filipino.

Before wondering whether Filipinas' morality is solid or dubious, perhaps we should ask ourselves what we are looking for. If one is only looking for sex escapades to soothe their battered egos, then why complain that some girls are easy and perhaps genuine sluts? If one is looking for a long-term partner, many a HA poster have shown us the way, so nothing new to discover there. Middle class girls in the Philippines, and I suspect Thailand, China and other countries too, would hardly target a middle-aged divorcee (pa)trolling the malls for girls 20 or 30 years younger than them.
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Postby publicduende » Tue Sep 24, 2013 7:34 pm

zboy1 wrote:Great advice Publicduende! F**king and chucking will get tiresome after a while...what you want to do is find your soul-mate and future wife overseas; that's what I'm doing in China and avoiding all the gold-diggers, hoes, and feminists as much as possible...


Thanks, and good luck with your Chinese quest! :)
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Wed Sep 25, 2013 10:49 am

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Postby Mr S » Wed Sep 25, 2013 12:22 pm

Will N. Dowd wrote:I'm at 6 and a half after 15 days. Met a 22 year old from DIA at the mall. Studying here from the provinces. Her picture was great, and in real life her face was quite nice, problem is she lied about her 5'2" height. She was below 5' and overweight by a little bit, which made her look even shorter. We hung around the mall a bit, then I said I was going home and she said she was coming for an hour and would then leave. Just before she was about to leave I started asking her about ex bf's etc and if she had ever done FWB. She hadn't but said she could with me, If I wanted. I grabbed her crotch and she responded well and agreed we could do it now, since she had always wanted to do it with a foreigner. I tried my best but couldn't get in there she was really small, and the condom didn't help. Then I had to pee, so did, tried again, got just the head inside but just couldn't get turned on or big enough to go further and gave up, said sorry and she left. My body just said it just wasn't turned on enough, and she was tiny, my finger hurt she said. If she had been taller and slimmer with bigger breasts it would have been pretty good, since her face and skin were really quite nice. Her body didn't cut it.

I am considering hiding or deleting my DIA account, since it would force me to hit on mall and sales or promo girls. I always fall back in DIA, but have been disappointed 3 days in a row now. Yes their are hot or cute DIA girls, but they are few and far between all the single mums with c section scars and photoshopped pictures and wrong statistics. Meeting a DIA girl also usually wastes a day since they stay at my place too long after inviting themselves back. Every time I meet one at a mall it also pisses me off because I have to sit their with them while all the hot ones in the mall walk by.

Tomorrow the 21 year old mall sales girl wants to meet, but has already said she is not that type of girl and won't set foot in my hotel. The best friend of the 19 year old promo girl is only 18, but has the day off and wants to meet me, so I might give her my time since I scored with her friend as I'm sure she found out.

Another frustrating day, courtesy DIA. If I keep on using it I will have to get really picky, most girls simply don't cut it for my picky tastes and previous GF's.


Next time you go on a banging holiday you should buy a bottle of the clear wet lube from the states or other Western country your from, not the jelly though (too messy). That works best for dry girls or small girls who are really tight. Actually, the small girls are usually like vices and feel much better than larger girls once they are lubed up properly. The only thing is sometimes you can make them bleed, if you're bigger than average. They usually don't care, but it can be a mess on the bed if you didn't put a blanket down beforehand. I would say that at least half the time I have sex with smaller women initially I make them bleed. If you have sex with them regularly it stops once their body gets used to it, but initially it can get messy. I personally don't care about blood but some guys might.

Many countries don't sell clear wet lube so that's why you need to bring some every time you leave a Western country. The only place I saw you can buy it in PI is in AC at a small sex shop on Fields, but it's way over priced in comparison to how much it would be in a Western country.
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Postby Mr S » Wed Sep 25, 2013 12:51 pm

Will N. Dowd wrote:After being here almost 2 weeks now, I have concluded that most DIA girls here in Davao are wastes of time. Even ones I friended on fb that agreed to meet me previously now usually ignore me. Most messages I send on DIA go unanswered from local girls. Yes of course I have met and banged 5 from there but 2 of them I met on my last trip and only banged now. The 2nd and 5th were the hottest ones, while the others were ok, nothing special. Strangely I get a lot of interest from outside of Davao, which I have to turn down for now. I still think that even though I am in the Philippines, dating sites here although much better are simply a way for mostly unattractive girls to hide behind pictures they have edited to look better. Most are too shy, or scared to meet, especially foreigners like me. They really only seem interested in chatting online and then texting. I have several that just send me good morning and evening texts, that's it. Every time I suggest meeting it's ignored.

Sometimes I admit to finding girls company here really quite annoying after we have sex. Once we've done it the appeal wears off pretty fast and I hope they leave soon unless they are very hot. After banging most of them 2-3X I have usually had enough of them and want a new girl. No follow up bangs yet here, they have all been new.


You're in the wrong city for wanting to casually date and bang. You have to stay near the large metro of Manila or Cebu to be fairly successful. Davao is more of a place to go if you already have a GF or married or plan to stay there 6 months or longer to build up an identity and wade through a lot of the marginal girls you will run into.

Your comment about wanting the girls to take off after you have been with them for a little bit is so true. Once you get over the ease of sex in the country (if you stay here long time) then you will realize half the time it's better to go home alone than deal with the woman you hook up with half the time in the morning. The girls may be easy to date and have sex with but in regards to interesting personalities that a Westerner would want to be around everyday, that is something to be desired. You have to wade through many marginal type women to find a few halfway decent ones, and that means you gotta put some time here on the ground in PI. I've been saying this exact statement you made over and over in some previous posts but no one wants to listen.

There are decent girls here that are GF or wife material, but it takes a while to sort through them. There are lots of girls for easy sex here but generally they aren't that good in bed after the initial newness is over and they have lousy personalities and interests. I have to interview Filipinas of all socio-economic backgrounds on a regular basis and even then I'm not meeting many that can hold a decent conversation, even the really educated ones are boring sometimes. There are exceptions but generally you have to put in additional effort once you find a decent girl to bring her up to a level where you can deal with her on a daily basis, this means reeducation Western style and also breaking bad cultural habits. This takes time, maybe a few years or less depending on the girl.

If you want to get serious with a Filipina and move her back to the West, only get with Nurses, Medical Technicians, Dentists, Pharmacists for the most part. If you go to Australia or NZ you can get away with lower skilled jobs cause they pay higher minimum wages than in North America, but you still will have to train them up.

I will also agree about the girls in PI getting all shy over some men they consider really handsome, with Caucasian features they like. They will make overtures that they like you but once they realize you are seriously pursuing them they sometimes back off and pretend they are suddenly not interested.
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Postby Rock » Fri Sep 27, 2013 5:11 am

Will, which mall in Davao to your normally visit? When u say a girl is tall, how tall is that at least? When I visited Davao before, I mainly went to Gaisano (cus I was staying in that area) and I really didn't see much in the way of tall or attractive girls there. But it's an older mall. Perhaps you have found some which are much better.
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Postby MattAmerican » Fri Sep 27, 2013 10:24 am

Thanks Will, you're a wealth of information. I'll be reading this entire topic before I come to the ph.. sadly I don't know when exactly I'll get there.. I'm working on making money through affiliate marketing to support myself (I'm only 20 and no degree yet). Anyway, not to hijack your thread, but.. Since I changed my profile to be similar to your old one I've gotten way more messages and girls telling me my profile is interesting (which didn't happen before).. lol. And it's basically about how great I think traditional Filipinas are, almost nothing about myself compared to my old one, lawl.

Guys (especially American guys like myself and also Canadian guys like Will, can't speak for other nationalities but I suspect pretty much all white guys on DIA are like candy to these girls), if you want to move to Asia and especially the Philippines, but you can't support yourself yet in a new country, like me, and are looking to motivate yourself to do it somehow.. create an account on DIA, have a good profile picture, and make your profile "interesting". You'll get swamped. Tons of pretty girls that would LOVE to meet you.. if only you were there. THAT is a HUGE motivator (especially after you talk to some of the good ones, you'll want to meet them so bad).. for me at least. Especially if you give them a time frame from when you might get there.. and if you don't meet it then you'll disappoint a lot of girls, look like a weak p***y, and possibly even break some hearts.. which are of course all BAD things. Point is, put some social pressure on yourself, and the fear of loss (losing these girls) as well as the promise of reward (meeting and shagging some of these DIA girls).

Just try not to get too addicted to the site :). Girls will message you a lot, so I'd suggest just sending one message to each new girl who messages YOU each day, that way you won't waste too much time chatting. Because you can waste a lot of time that way. The plus side of this is that you will also learn to manage your time better, which will help you more on your mission to support yourself in the PH.
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Postby publicduende » Fri Sep 27, 2013 12:42 pm

Will N. Dowd wrote:I usually go to Gaisano Mall, Victoria Plaza, and Abreeza. Haven't been to other ones yet but will. I'm also thinking of hitting the bar scene here on Torres St. I don't drink but wanna check it out anyways and see what it's like to meet girls.

I have put on my DIA that I want to have FWB. I have never done this until now, but wanna try it and see how I like it compared to a steady GF. No interests yet. I assume my volume of messages will drop a lot, but at least I'm honest and getting right to the point and girls that want the same will not be shy I hope. I'm interested to see what happens.

I'm meeting another one of the girls I met last night after her mall promo shift ends tonight. I have already told her I see other girls too and she is ok with it, as the girl last night was too.

I find myself very lazy here during the day. I sleep until 11 am usually then have brunch, shower but don't go out usually until it's 4 or 5pm and cooler, when I go to a mall for dinner. Cooking in my place sucks, and restaurants here are very cheap, even when I buy for a girl too. So I usually eat brunch at home and dinner out. I always try to pay with a credit card to get points here. I got an Amazon.ca credit card with no forex fee so I don't have to pay the 2.5% currency conversion.


Another popular hotspot you should check out are Matina Town Square (MTS), packed with University of Mindanao students. There's a large food court fronted by a stage where they play live music at least three times a day. Another relatively new spot is Brick Lane Square, between Polo Street and Palma Gil Street, both side streets from JP Laurel.

The mall for the better fashion events is definitely SM Lanang. I saw one fashion school presentation one evening, and it was all pro and semi-pro models and their (good looking) friends.
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Postby kai1275 » Fri Sep 27, 2013 4:43 pm

Will N. Dowd wrote:Something very strange has happened to me. I met the 22 year old promo girl from yesterday at another mall after her shift today, after she invited herself to dinner. This girl is very hot, both in face and body, that's why she is a promo girl. We ate at the mall and she said she wanted to go home, but I convinced her to come back to my place. Once there I started to fondle her and she loved it and we went to bed and she agreed to do it as friends, and she had never done it with a foreigner. I got her and me naked fast and I started to lick, suck, kiss and taste all her yummy and naughty places. But no matter what I did, my member stayed shriveled up and small. I tried to help it with my hand but nothing worked and I gave up exhausted. She got dressed and went home and I said sorry, maybe next time. Once I got outside with her to walk her to the trike stop I felt like I was going to puke and almost did when I smelled some of the street smells, but recovered to see her go. She said we could try again in a few days. The whole thing was very embarrassing, but she seemed to understand something was wrong with me. In the past I have sometimes been nervous with a new girl the first time and had trouble getting big, but never like this with such a hot girl and no arousal at all.

After eating I felt very tired and heavy, and felt like a brick was in my stomach. I assumed I had eaten too much, but I think now I have eaten something bad because even though I finished eating over 3 hours ago, it feels like I still have a brick in my stomach, and I expect to puke later tonight. The last time I puked, I also ate something bad and woke up in the middle of the night and vomited 11 times. It seems that the bad food in me prevented any sexual function at all, since I felt heavy, tired and slow, and was exhausted quickly. The only other explanation is that my body has rejected the lifestyle I have chosen here and is saying stop. But I had already had 7 girls in action here and only had issues with the not hot enough girl no 7. This girl tonight, no. 8 was the hottest of the bunch so far and yet my body said no way, even though it had no problems banging the first 6 many times. I will try to sleep now but expect to puke very soon, which will be a huge relief, because that means it was the culprit and I can hopefully bang her good the next time. I'm supposed to meet her co worker promo friend tomorrow, also very hot and has never been with a foreigner.

It was a very strange feeling to be with such a hot girl naked in my bed and licking her special places but getting no reaction from my manhood. I really hope it doesn't happen again. Thoughts of viagra pop into my head, but as Tom Leykis says, the all natural cure for erectile disfunction is not viagra, but a young hot girl, which I had.


LOL! Too funny. A hot girl is not a cure for ED. ED is caused by many different things. Anything from: poor blood circulation, jet lag, too much sex, low testosterone, low or high blood pressure, nausea, drug side effects, poisoning, stress, mental disorders, back pain, high cholesterol, diabetes, smoking, etc. And those are just the things off the top of my head that I remember!

You could even be lacking vitamins. You have been f***ing your brains out like a child in a candy store. You cannot just take from your body and not properly replenish the things it is releasing. Zinc, Vitamins, Tribulus, maca, bilberry, CQ10, Omega Fish Oil, Flax Seed Oil, etc. you need to put things in to bolster and help replenish what you take out. Food is medicine and food is fuel.

If you want to continue f***ing women this much, you need to make some adjustments to what you eat and the supplements you take. You are not 23 years old ya know....
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