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Will N.Dowd, if you want--I can tell some HA members to chill with their criticisms of you...I enjoy reading about your trip experiences and hope you will stick around. I like that your honest about your problems, just like me. Don't worry so much about the attacks, because everybody has their own opinions about what is "moral" and what is not.
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Will, I am sorry I gave you the wrong impression. I have been to Davao and just wanted to give you some advice on what spots to hit to find the kinds of Pinays you are looking for. You're still young, unmarried and look good, so you definitely don't have to settle for a poor and desperate acne-ridden girl whose main aim is to get a free meal and a mobile top-up from you. You can do better, and I think the spirit of all the advice you received on this thread is to help you achieve just that!
I think if you are going to post about your travels you just have to accept that people are going to have their opinions. The reality is who really cares that much about what someone on an internet message board says that doesn't know you personally.
From the start of this thread I was wondering if this was about chasing tail or finding a long-term partner. I've done the party thing myself so I have no interest in judging, but when I was out hitting the nightclub (and even open to things getting physical with a girl I was really into) it certainly wasn't about finding a spouse. Telling a woman in any country you want to sleep with them the first day you meet them doesn't sound like a great way to start a relationship. It certainly isn't charming. When I did take a girl back to my hotel in Mexico City I didn't tell her um hey I want to have sex with her. That's definitely not chill.
Gentlemen, just to put things in perspective... let's not forget that many weeks ago, we were privy to comments like this:
Was Will offended by these comments? No. Not in the least. He was too busy banging girls, as he had just arrived in the Philippines and was still in his honeymoon phase. Could zboy1's comments above have helped Will bang more young Pinay pu ssy? No. Did Will threaten to stop posting after zboy1's comments surfaced? No.
Yet when well-meaning dating advice arrives when he's sexually shut out and frustrated, what happens? He lashes out at the messenger.
Let's think about this. Guys on here are offering free, no strings attached advice for the sole purpose of enabling Will to bang tons of Filipina girls young enough to be his daughter. These same guys are offering all this free dating advice *without* passing judgement on Will's pump and dump approach, and *without* making any ped ophile accusations a la zboy1. In other words: dude, the HA community is helping you get laid, no strings attached. Not sure how Will can complain about that....
Perhaps we should call this for what it is: Will is very sexually frustrated right now, and it really shows.
In case you guys haven't figured it out yet, he doesn't want your feedback so why don't you just STOP commenting here.
This has been a very informative and entertaining thread. So leave the author alone and let him do his thing.
Notice, he's going back and deleting posts now cus you keep doing what he doesn't want.
It's a real shame. In spite of what moderator(s) might think, I haven't noticed a pattern of improved quality or quantity of content on the forum. On the contrary, some of the more prolific posters have either scaled back or disappeared. So don't drive off contributors like this one.
I appreciate the posts which you have made. Thanks.
Please don't stop sharing your experiences. This forum suffers because we don't have enough guys out in the field actually out there trying to make a go of it internationally. Screw the negative posters!!!!!!!!! Who cares what they think! You are over there having fun and banging cute ladies. Do realize that a majority of the guys on this forum will never leave western soil....ever.
If at some point in time you do choose to focus on the middle class Filipinas they are there for the taking. It's just going to require patience and a different method of approach. I'm sure you'll figure it out.
I write stories all the time about China--and I get constructive feedback and even criticisms from guys like Kai, CerealKiller, and other posters--but I don't cry about it. In fact, they help me learn and improve on how to approach females here in China...
I think the Philippines is getting to WillNDowd, unfortunately. I don't think he sounds too happy there, right now. Hey, Will, why don't you move on to Thailand or some other country--if the Philippines is getting to you? Asia is a big place, you know....
Yeah, Will, I never screw chicks because I enjoy rejecting them more (he he) but even I love your feedback from Philippines! I like your way of writing, its f***ing funny as shit. No wonder women like you.
Dude, this is the stuff porn is made of. One question: what exactly compelled you to go back to Canada?
I'm transitioning gradually to moving there, and had many loose ends to tie up. I had to get my laptop fixed under warranty which was expiring soon. Brought things I didn't need, and didn't bring things I needed. Needed to buy some more things here also and I still have a lot of things to sell, which I have done since I got back.
Canada will be home base in between trips to the Philippines. Each place has it's own advantages and disadvantages, since they are opposite universes.
I could never do the things I did in the Philippines in Canada, and vice versa. I'm almost free to go there again. A few more things I have bought will arrive soon, and some events here I have to attend before I can go back. Soon I will hopefully be able to spend most of my time there. I can open a bank account thee next time finally. It took 6 months for my ACR card to be ready. Crazy!
My life in Canada is very comfortable, but usually boring because it's totally void of girls of course. My main hobby here is finding more things to sell online to make some $$$ and have less stuff. I have had lots of success, since one mans junk is another's treasure.
Maybe I missed where this was mentioned but, were the girls who were knocking on your window upon your arrival pipelined? Did you Skype with them for a month prior or were they just random girls hanging out at the hotel who happened to go nuts to see a white handsome devil drive up?
And how jealous were they that you were seeing others, too?
Seems like if I did that in the USA--Skyped with a girl for a month and pipelined her with another girl--if she found out about it she'd tell me to f**k off (I'm Canadian/American, LOL)
Do they only go this nuts in Philipines or is this the same in other places like DR, Brazil, Thailand?