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chanta76 wrote:It 's like what MarcosZeitola said. From my travel through out Asia I notice that white guys tend to go for the Asian girls that local Asian guys are not attracted to. I saw this in South Korea, Japan and in Thailand. In some rare occasion I did see a really good looking Asian girl with a white guy but it was more of the exception.

Somewhat true but not always. I was told on more than one occasion by local Filipino guys on the street and a few cab drivers, "hey man it's ok to come to our country and date the ugly ones but you can't have the pretty ones." Filipino guys can be protective.....

I think the white guys are aware who is prettiere but they had already so much stress to make it there that they don´t need another dating high energy marathon.

For Asian guy it´s easier to take risks as they blend in. White guys have to choose low risk and easy women so the selection is fewer.

There might be a lot of other reasons to, but ratings on face might not be to different. White might prefer women with more meat might be because testosterone makes one prone to more volutous girls with butts titts and strong legs.

pete98146 wrote:
You speak the truth! I'll give you a perfect example. Years ago, my and a buddy went and visited Phuket Thailand for a week. We rented a condo on Caron Beach. The girl at the front desk was a light skinned, taller, attractive Thai girl in her mid 20s. We checked in and went straight to the beach. Later that night we went to a restaurant a stones throw away from the condo and lo and behold, working there as a waitress was the girl from the front desk.

So we were talking to her while she was working. Somehow we got to talking about whether she gets approached a lot by all the single male tourists vacationing in Phuket (mainly Germans, Scandinavians, Brits). She said "ABSOLUTELY NOT...I rarely get approached. See the waitress over there? She gets asked out constantly." I looked over and of course the other waitress, while very pretty, was darker, shorter, more exotic looking.

Perhaps this is a good thing!!! The Western guys come over and grab their type while the Asian dudes focus on the lighter skinned ladies. Everybody wins, right?

In the end these ratings and disagreements about who dates the truly good looking ones is infantile. Everyone has their preferences, including the women. There is an innate quality within many of us to be attracted to someone different from us - the opposites attract effect. So the Filipino is attracted to a whiter-skinned girl and the white guy (used to pasty white women) is attracted to darker skinned "exotic" women. As Pete says it's a win-win for everyone.

Some (though not all) Filipinas are the same and this accounts for part of the reason that "some" Filipinas are attracted to foreigners. My wife definitely falls into this category. I introduced her to a middle-aged Latino friend who I would normally assume was considered good looking by women here locally. He's dark with black hair (and all of it). Later on at home my wife said she thought he was ugly. I was surprised and asked her why. "He looks like a Filipino," she replied. "If I had wanted to marry someone that dark, I would have married a Filipino."

pete98146 wrote:
You speak the truth! I'll give you a perfect example. Years ago, my and a buddy went and visited Phuket Thailand for a week. We rented a condo on Caron Beach. The girl at the front desk was a light skinned, taller, attractive Thai girl in her mid 20s. We checked in and went straight to the beach. Later that night we went to a restaurant a stones throw away from the condo and lo and behold, working there as a waitress was the girl from the front desk.

So we were talking to her while she was working. Somehow we got to talking about whether she gets approached a lot by all the single male tourists vacationing in Phuket (mainly Germans, Scandinavians, Brits). She said "ABSOLUTELY NOT...I rarely get approached. See the waitress over there? She gets asked out constantly." I looked over and of course the other waitress, while very pretty, was darker, shorter, more exotic looking.

Perhaps this is a good thing!!! The Western guys come over and grab their type while the Asian dudes focus on the lighter skinned ladies. Everybody wins, right?

In the end these ratings and disagreements about who dates the truly good looking ones are infantile. Everyone has their preferences, including the women. There is an innate quality within many of us to be attracted to someone different from us - the opposites attract effect. So the Filipino is attracted to a whiter-skinned girl and the white guy (used to pasty white women) is attracted to darker skinned "exotic" women. As Pete says it's a win-win for everyone.

Remember also that the Philippines is a very color conscious and classist culture. For a Filipino to date or marry a whiter girl is a big advantage class-wise.

Some (though not all) Filipinas are the same and this accounts for part of the reason that "some" Filipinas are attracted to foreigners. My wife definitely falls into this category. I introduced her to a middle-aged Latino friend who I would normally assume was considered good looking by women here locally. He's dark with black hair (and all of it). Later on at home my wife said she thought he was ugly. I was surprised and asked her why. "He looks like a Filipino," she replied. "If I had wanted to marry someone that dark, I would have married a Filipino." Works for me

BlueLight, I was the first to (briefly) comment to your initial post, so let me clarify to you and everybody else: I never meant that you and Will N Dowd are the same person, just that aspects of your "love diary" are strikingly similar to WND's accounts of mindless pump & dump topped with occasional complaints about not consistently reaching the coveted peaks of female beauty he (as an ex model) believes he deserves.

I do agree with most old & wise (or young & wise, like Marcos) posters: if your preferences happen to align to those of the locals, good for you. If you're purposely trying to date white-skinned girls just to impress your condo security men and taxi drivers, I think you're making a very stupid mistake.

I never judged WND and certainly won't judge you. All I can say is that if, as inferred from your accounts, you're purposely picking your dates solely based on looks and perceived market value for local Filipinos, there is a world of personality, emotions, warmth and intimacy, support and friendship you're missing now, and you'll be missing for a very long time. Filipinas can be smart, hard-working, warm and friendly, kind, patient and supportive, as well as feminine and hot as hell when they want to. Seeing them as mono-dimensional beings whom you can show off on the street like a flaming Maserati, take to your apartment for a night and forget the morning after, is akin to eating the skin and throw away the fruit. It might be fun for a little while but it will soon leave you dry, soul and wallet.

This thread is full of what you would call the western "male hamster" on the Roosh forums. It's guys trying to justify why they are dating fairly average to below average looking girls.

Universal beauty standards exist especially across Asian, latin, and white ethnicities. Top notch girls have very similar traits overall. Just look at beauty pageants and the like, there is a typical emphasis on youthful looks, clear skin, long legs, and shapely bodies. Look at what the upper class or the local alpha studs date..it's those types of girls.

Even if you consider international beauty pageants to be skewed just look at local beauty mags like HM cover models or those university level pretty girl contests. The girls still have beauty standards that would go over well anywhere in europe, asia, or latin america.

Pete's girl in his avatar is one of the (very) few foreigner wives that I think would have universal appeal for most men assuming she looks that way in person. She has that body type and face that has a universal level of attractiveness.

Most western foreign men that I see are NOT dating women like that at all. They are dating girls who are usually very short, dark, and with the distinct malay/SEA monkey face.

Another reality is that your average white anglo man likes to down other races and nationalities as much as possible because your own countries are ruined now. The anglosphere is on a serious abject social decline due to feminism and other issues. Anglosphere men are increasingly fleeing a sinking ship and trying to find a place where they can sustain at least a economic and social niche. The problem here is that the rest of the developing world is also closing the gap. That global rebalancing is diminishing a lot of those old colonial advantages.

If you look at countries like Japan, Korea, etc.. the door is already pretty much already shut on those places being places for easy available women unless you're in the top 10% of looks as a westerner or you want to chase busted women.

MrBlueLight: you said: "Will N. Dowd had sex with ugly girls that nobody wants."

Hey, Liar!

What's taking you so long to prove what you said?

Funny how you made the original comment, but have not proved any of it even though I've asked you many times.

By the way, how many times have you been to Davao?

The longer it takes, the more your unstable credibility goes down.

Come on, you're taking way too long. I thought you would have proved what you said long ago, since you confidently made the statement.

Will: unless your taste deviates significantly from other white expats, I cannot see how the girls you are dating aren't fugly.

Yes, most of the girls I go after are the light-skinned slender type. The ones that are considered to be attractive by the Asian media. And it translates that the competition for these girls are fiercer, because I am competing against local men for these chicks. Whereas most white expats go after girls that local men don't want. I am not trying to impress local men and whatnot, being Asian, we just naturally go after the same type of women.

So am I bragging about dating women with higher local value than other expats? No, just reporting the facts.

UPDATE:
Day 16: Maintenance date with Rey, the girl who looks Eastern European but short. She's the kind of girl who rarely talks, but expresses all her passion in the bedroom, just my type. We even made a sex tape that is now heavily encrypted so no one but me will ever lay eyes on it.

MrBlueLight: you said: "Will N. Dowd had sex with ugly girls that nobody wants."

ANSWER MY DAMN QUESTIONS LIAR!

I'VE ASKED THEM MANY TIMES AND YOU ALWAYS AVOID THEM!

HOW DO YOU KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT MY SEX LIFE HERE?
WHEN WERE YOU IN DAVAO?
HOW MANY OF THE GIRLS I SLEPT WITH DID YOU MEET?

POST THEIR DATING PROFILES SO YOU CAN PROVE YOUR STATEMENT!

OR JUST ADMIT TO ME AND EVERYONE ELSE YOU ARE A LIAR ABOUT THAT AND ALL YOUR OTHER BS YOU POST HERE!

COME ON LIAR, WE'RE TIRED OF WAITING. OTHERS WANT TO JUDGE THE GIRLS I SLEPT WITH THAT YOU SUPPOSEDLY MET.

MrBlueLight wrote:Will: unless your taste deviates significantly from other white expats, I cannot see how the girls you are dating aren't fugly.

So you finally "discretely" admitted you are a liar. What took you so long?

Just like I and everyone else expected:

You have never been to Davao.
You've never met a single girl I've met.
You know absolutely nothing about any of the girls I've slept with.
You know nothing about my taste in girls so stop pretending you do.
You know nothing about the beauty standards I have.
You know almost nothing about me.
You are too chicken to actually directly apologize and admit you are wrong, so you did it using vague words.

Shithead, if you had met the girls I've slept with, you would have tried to sleep with them too.

Stop posting about things you now nothing about.
You've only recently joined here and your credibility is rock bottom already. Way to go.

Yes I know, you have special taste. Somehow your taste in girls is much better that everyone else. Other expats have poor taste in girls, except you.

LOL! Get a life liar.

Will N. Dowd mr. "i'm too handsome that some local girls reject me!" is talking about credibility.

Through your trip report Will. Sure I would love to bang some of those girls, but probably not the majority of them.

MrBlueLight wrote:Through your trip report Will. Sure I would love to bang some of those girls, but probably not the majority of them.

Now you have finally reluctantly admitted you are a liar, stop giving your opinion. It's worthless, since you know nothing whatsoever about what kind of girls I like or have met and scored with. Just like I know nothing about yours. That's why I don't go making stupid comments about your girls. You're an ignorant fool. Until you have met every girl I have been with, your opinion is useless and not wanted. Go back to posting about your "love" diary.

By the way, you should change the title of your thread to "lust" or "sex" diary. You should then change your user name to "MrRedLight" That sums you and your diary up much better. Maybe even go so far as to change the title to "manila sex diarrhea"

That way your thread title will read:

"MrRedLight's sex diarrhea in Manila"

Then go buy a bathmate:

http://www.bathmatedirect.com/

Lucky for me I don't need one. I live up to my user name, that's why I use it.

Repatriate wrote:Will N. Dowd mr. "i'm too handsome that some local girls reject me!" is talking about credibility.

No "Repatriate" I won't waste my time reading the PM you just sent me with the charming title "you dumb asshole". That's your opinion, and you'll never convince me I'm dumb and/or an asshole.

It was unread and deleted, just like most messages guys send girls on Plenty of Fish.

Winston, I thought this turkey was on ban warning. Why is he still here annoying people as usual?

Will N. Dowd wrote:

Repatriate wrote:Will N. Dowd mr. "i'm too handsome that some local girls reject me!" is talking about credibility.

No "Repatriate" I won't waste my time reading the PM you just sent me with the charming title "you dumb asshole". That's your opinion, and you'll never convince me I'm dumb and/or an asshole.

It was unread and deleted, just like most messages guys send girls on Plenty of Fish.

Winston, I thought this turkey was on ban warning. Why is he still here annoying people as usual?

A threat to ban. That's pretty much the only way cowardly simps like yourself can answer anyone, including Winston. Censorship is a simple way to avoid answering difficult questions.

You've never addressed the claims about the "too handsome to get chicks" schtick. It's hilarious so answer it at least or do you regret making that statement now? It wouldn't surprise me.