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yes not having a purpose in life does get old. Have any of these women you met could any of htem make good girlfriends for a guy who wants a serious loving traditional woman with low drama and gold digging or do you think all the girls off the dating sites have personality issues and or drama?
Not all of them. If this is a richer country, then I would say yes. Generally speaking, cute girls who are well adjusted socially will not find themselves on dating sites as they would have multiple local pursuers in real life. But because most Filipinos are so poor, the cute girls here don't consider them as eligible candidates. That is why I find the online girls here to be significantly more attractive than what you would typically find online in other countries. In most countries, foreigners are just collecting local leftover scraps, but here, there are just too few eligible Filipino men, so there are excess cute girls to go around. So many of the girls I met here aren't crazy, they are just normal, traditional girls. Well, that's if we are talking about 6's or below. Most online 7+ girls here are still crazy though.
But the better question is are any you can stand long term? Most filipinas are so mindless and ignorant and boring it drives me absolutely nuts. The only girl i could have fun was with my bargirl but even her i couldn't talk to and just did my work all day we just had nothing in common except lots of sex. Id hate to have a future together with a girl like that. But other girls are just boring and have nothing to say. My gf would give me massages everynight that was great though.
Thats not very hopeful. I wont marry a girl unless she is 18, virgin, and at least a 7 (preferably a . Looks like ill just focus on other things and if such a woman comes along great, otherwise ill keep pushing on with other things.
The beauty queen actually has an interesting personality, ignoring the fact that she's full of drama. For me personality, I would not want to be with any of these girls long-term because I would prefer my long-term gf to have a wealthy background in supporting my business ventures, this is a quality that no Filipinas possess
I wouldn't want a woman with money in the relationship. I love to be the power player in the relationship. Money and educatio is of no requirement for me. Although a girl who may have a job or at least be eager to please me by working hard for me is an attribute I do want.
I am a youngish broke guy, so dating a woman who is willing to financially invest in me is a big plus for me.
My game is really slipping, got 2 girls into my place for heavy make out, but couldn't close the deal, one of them might be the third 8 I've met here. Well, a solid 7 who would become an 8 with some make up.
what was their excuse for leaving?
Are you planing to leave phil? Isn't this lifestyle getting unfulfilling? Im staying MGTOW for now in america cause i dont have the money to travel anymore really now that i quit my work. I dont want a wife right now anyways cause what i want is too difficult to find. If you're having trouble finding many women to stick around Id imagine id have even more trouble cause i have specific requirements that are higher than yours (not just based on looks alone). Especially in a country like philippines where most girls are ugly finding a girl that is a great lover and good looking AND the same religion and is passionate is like 1 out 500 LOL Id have better odds in korea or something but those girls have high standards.
I am on the halfway mark of my trip here. The girls usually give me specific time where they have to be at such and such, and I couldn't get them to stay pass it. I don't find this lifestyle unfulfilling because I am a horndog, lol. I am only worried about the financial aspect of it.
I thought you were moving there permanently cause of cost and ease of women. Where you going back to america?
Im a horndog too but its unfulfilling in the sense there is no purpose. Morally id like to have a wife but i doubt ill find one young and hot enough for me and who has the right personality.
I was wondering how you had the time to do online work and pay for all your expenses seems like you were spending all your time chasing women without a viable online business which was poor planning on your part.
No, I had an online job and savings which would support me for the duration of my stay but not beyond that.
My mini dry spell just ended with a Big Bang. Today is the second time during my stay that I banged 3 chicks in one day, with 2 of them being new. Morning bang, afternoon bang, and night bang. All different chicks.
The morning bang being with a regular who stayed overnight. The afternoon bang is second date with the solid 7 (8 with make up) girl mentioned in the post above. The night bang being by far the easiest lay I had yet. The girl crossed two cities to come to mine, and she basically gamed me instead of me gaming her, like she kissed me before I even made any moves. Pretty sure she's a major slut though as her p***y feels like the Grand Canyon. I was positive that she's scammer and was about to ask me major dough for taxi money, so I purposely left my wallet in my room as I escorted her out, but she never brought it up. I am still expecting her to pull the "can you help me with my medical bill" shenanigan in the future though.
Only two of them ever asked for taxi money. The rest I just paid for the food like how a gentleman would. Today one of the girls who borrowed money from me just paid me back. There were a few who texted me about needing to borrow medical bills after we have met, those get the silent treatment.
For the most part, the only money I am spending is 300 Pesos dinner for two people or 100 Pesos dessert.
Today, the supposed slut from last night texted me that she spent her day in church. Still expect this one to eventually ask for "medical bill" given past experience with super easy lays. I hope I am wrong though.
so after sex they just split without asking you for money? If thats true then that is just more evidence that most of these girls dont really give a crap about us foreigners or they wouldn't be doing that to us. I know they dont do it to pinoy. Thats why i dont really feel sorry anymore for any of them. If they really cared they would be more modest.
That church stuff is a big con game. Even my bargirl tried to play the role for me in tat regard to get brownie points. Never understimate how far these girls will go to play the act IN THE BED or out of the bed. Im not gonna search for a wife until im like 20 years older than said woman. So if she is a scammer and i later found out after we married or something at least she will be a hot one and I wont care. Nothing worse than marrying a woman who is a scammer and she isn't even hot or much younger than you at least to make up for the risk. And with some of these girls you wont know till after the marriage even if your cautious. I wouldn't want to marry at 35 to a 25 year old cause in 5 years she will already be washed up. Id rather marry a 20 year old at 40.