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What is the most important thing you've learned being abroad?

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What is the most important thing you've learned being abroad?

Post by Ghost » August 4th, 2018, 10:44 pm

I learned that there is a balance to everything and that you can never have everything you want in one place and situation. This isn't only about living abroad, but applies to life in general.

For example, you want a bigger, better dating pool, so you move to a major city. The options are better, but the city is a soulless rat race where people aren't friendly and never stop to relax and enjoy life.

Or another example, you get a job you love, but the area is a social and dating wasteland.

There are always sacrifices to make, where ever you go, whatever you do.
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Re: What is the most important thing you've learned being abroad?

Post by CannedHam » August 5th, 2018, 12:14 am

I learned how much big US cities suck compared to places like LA/SF/Chicago have nothing on Hong Kong, Singapore, Tokyo, even most Chinese T1 cities. A bunch of crime infested, poorly run, thug ridden shitholes.

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Re: What is the most important thing you've learned being abroad?

Post by Johnny1975 » August 5th, 2018, 11:19 am

I wonder how easy and practical it would be to live in 2 countries.
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Re: What is the most important thing you've learned being abroad?

Post by Ghost » August 5th, 2018, 8:26 pm

Johnny1975 wrote:
August 5th, 2018, 11:19 am
I wonder how easy and practical it would be to live in 2 countries.
If you have money or family roots not going back too far, it's doable.

For the rest of us, marry a local, become a lifer in the TEFL field, or be a permanent backpacker / tourist.
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Re: What is the most important thing you've learned being abroad?

Post by HappyGuy » August 10th, 2018, 6:10 am

CannedHam wrote:
August 5th, 2018, 12:14 am
I learned how much big US cities suck

places like LA/SF/Chicago have nothing on Hong Kong, Singapore, Tokyo, even most Chinese T1 cities. A bunch of crime infested, poorly run, thug ridden shitholes.
Then why do Asians from those very cities keep coming to America! and Canada and Australia.

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Re: What is the most important thing you've learned being abroad?

Post by CannedHam » August 10th, 2018, 10:39 pm

HappyGuy wrote:
August 10th, 2018, 6:10 am
CannedHam wrote:
August 5th, 2018, 12:14 am
I learned how much big US cities suck

places like LA/SF/Chicago have nothing on Hong Kong, Singapore, Tokyo, even most Chinese T1 cities. A bunch of crime infested, poorly run, thug ridden shitholes.
Then why do Asians from those very cities keep coming to America! and Canada and Australia.
I don't exactly see hoards of Japanese and Singaporeans dying come live in the US. Hong Kong is a bit different, largely due to the astronomical COL that they can't fully control (thanks to mainland Chinese snapping up all the housing).

And most that do come live in nice suburbs with good schools, not urban areas.

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