Nomad wrote:I agree with Yohan.
A lot of men love to say that women are getting sex on a golden platter at these clubs, with hot men. However, this is projection because this is what MEN want. They want a hot woman, every night. That is the carnal male fantasy. Women on the other hand, want more than sex, because sex is easy to them. They want a relationship WITH a hot guy.
So while many men bemoan the fact that women are slutting it up at clubs, the reality is, every sex partner they have, decreases even further their chances of having a stable normal marriage, or a marriage at all. It also increases their chances of STD's, a risk you don't have to worry about. Also, their BF's generally are violent types, so they get the crap beat out of them from time to time.
My point being is, as Yohan said, this is the path they have chosen. They are playing with fire and they are getting burned. Its the consequences of their choices. Many men here though, seem to think they are just living it up and partying and having one hell of a life. In reality, I believe the majority of these women are miserable souls, and if you were offered to trade places, you would speedily decline.
I think women are more confused than ever. As a rule - women can't rule themselves, they are just a disaster, they are in a perpetual state of turmoil... They will go after any man they feel drawn to that is masculine or looks like he might protect her, that's how it is. Men - on the other hand...don't have to give up their status as dominant, nor should they, that's all that we have.
One thing I really noticed when coming here was how cold and hardcore US culture had become - it was like interpersonal relationships were destroyed and replaced by coldness and hardness, competition, distrust and distance. It was as if all good feeling and respect between 'man' and 'woman' was destroyed... replaced by nastiness and hatred.
You're judged by things such as "how hot your gf is"...... shallow things like this. This was a main thing I noticed when I came here from Turkey. It was like there was pressure to be separate and not have intimate feelings with someone, all that mattered was "hotness" sex and hooking up.
You were ridiculed endlessly for not having a hot gf, even if she was a great person. This destroyed relationships because it made everyone self conscious and afraid. This was done, I believe, on purpose to destroy culture. It's made everything about sex and dehumanized us - made us afraid of connection. It's destroyed chemistry between men and women.
This was a main thing I noticed when I came back here..... it was shocking.
It's actually much like pre SOviet Russia.
I can't remember a time I felt harmonious, soft tender feelings towards a woman. ...... that's wonderful. It's natural it's how it should be. But that's what they want to get rid of here the most.
I knew that at a young age but didn't know why. Now, I know.
Guys, it's not about sex. Let's not forget where we came.
There's something more important than that. Let's climb back up out of being degraded. People have lost perspective.
Always fall back on the Lord. God teaches you the basic way of things.... Let's not forget things.
let's not lose the forest for the trees. They are trying to destroy the heart here... it is not natural to be this hard, cold, sex drive. WE don't realize it because, like a frog being steeped in a slowly heating pan...we don't realize it and to us, even though we realize something's not right, it feels normal. This is why we're so confused. No culture like this has ever existed - that's because it was contrived, it's unnatural - it's meant to break you apart...
that's also why everyone has so much trouble and insecurity keeping up. That's why everyone feels insecure, cold, inadequate. Everyone, men + women, everyone.
I will not forget where I came from. With softness is hardness.... pull that softness out of your heart again, uncover that part that makes you human again; for you know that's really you, before you numbed yourself from this world.
I know JEW wood has spread this stuff all over the world, literally everywhere. But you don't have to partake. Ridicule is a powerful force that destroys people and makes them fall in line.
You don't have to cave to it though. Even though everyone else is.
The only thing that helped pull me back out and give me reach to my soul and meaning was scripture. It can do the same for you.
Misery and happiness are only states of mind.