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Postby OTB » Sat Oct 01, 2011 5:21 pm

Hello to all present members. I finally did it. I'm now a member and I have a LOT to say. I have been coming to this site from time to time since the beginning of this year but never took the time out to join. I would come to see what people had to say about different issues concerning AW, the American dating scene and American culture in general. Now that I made the decision to be a member I will be posting whenever I need to vent about experiences and observations. There is so much I want to spill about my feelings about this so called US of A and the type of women this country has produced. I'm not here to bash all American women but I can tell you this, from my observation, that the majority of them are not fit for marriage. This issue is constantly on my mind. The way women carry themselves today makes me frickin' sick. I am so fed up with the slutty, whorish, stuck up demeanor topped with a shallow, backwards way of thinking which makes it so difficult to find a good woman and form a normal relationship. I'm from South Jersey and I rarely see any girls who fit the description for being a potential mate for marriage. I see plenty of sexy, pretty American women on a daily but very very few that spark me to want to talk them. The ones that I would consider approaching and talking to just always give off that cold, paranoid, don't look my way kind of attitude. I'll expound on this in a future post.

Well with that said, I've always been attracted and more interested in foreign women anyway but at the same time I've always kept my options opened for AW. Whether she was white, black, latina, or asian, it didn't matter, because you just never know. BUT from observing how women operate and think in this culture it has pushed me further away from considering being with any woman from this backwards, delusional country. Now, there are some good American women out there who do have a traditional mindset and adhere to traditional values. The number is, I'm sure you know it, extremely low! I know of a couple of American women, both are married, who have even confirmed that finding a good, traditional-minded AW is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. So what is my option....you know it, GO ABROAD!!

I have some stories I want to share about my encounters with women from other countries but I'll do that in another post. I'm a traveler and have been since I was 22. I'm now 29 and the one thing I can say is that traveling and meeting women from other countries has completely changed me and has made the world smaller. It has broaden my options of finding a potential wife.

So I'm glad to be here. I'm just another American guy who is fed up with American women's mindset and behavior and looking outside the borders of the US.
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Postby Winston » Sat Oct 01, 2011 6:24 pm

Welcome OTB. Glad you finally joined :)

You seem like a decent down to earth type of guy who tells it like it is.

So where have you traveled to and what are your favorite travel destinations?

You might like these videos I've posted from other guys who feel the same way you do.

http://www.happierabroad.com/othervideos.htm
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Postby eurobrat » Sat Oct 01, 2011 6:28 pm

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Postby OTB » Sun Oct 02, 2011 8:23 pm

Thanks Winston and Eurobrat. As I said, I have a lot to say. But I appreciate the compliment Winston and you are correct. I am a decent down to earth type of guy, and I refuse to settle for some delusional and psychologically dysfunctional woman just to be with someone. I see the pattern in these AW. I just don't get it. Their choice of men from seeing couples in public and women that I know personally just baffles me. But that just tells me the type of women we're dealing with in this country.

Thanks for youtube clips. I actually saw the majority of thosem but I listened to two of them and it just reaffirms that other men see how screwed up AW are.

Now to your questions. Where have I traveled? I have been to the Dominican Republic many times and lived there for four months while studying abroad. I have some good stories about that experience. I've spent five weeks in Mexico for studying abroad. Another great experience. I've also been to Colombia, Spain, and Morocco. So far out of those five destinations I would say Mexico is one of my favorite places. But they were all amazing experiences. I'll put it this way if I had to live somewhere I would live in Mexico or Southern Spain. I loved Cartagena, Colombia and the women...oh my goodness Winston. Enough said. It's just beastly hot in Cartagena so I couldn't live there just like Santo Domingo, DR.

Now, eurobrat you wanted to know some of mysuccess and failure stories. Well, to put it frankly, I have never had success with AW. I'll let you in on one of my past relationships. I was in a brief relationship with a causcasian girl back in 2006 and that turned into a disaster. She had emotional problems due to her father not being in her life. She was a slut and had slept with 11 guys by the time she was 21. She stole money from me once. So you know the rest. She got the boot. How did I end up with her? I met her in college and she pursued me. We hung out from time to time and enjoyed hanging out with each other and eventually it turned into a relationship which I didn't really care for anyway because I knew it was going to be anything long term. But like I said we had a good time hanging out. She was more into me than I was into her. It was one of those relationships that you take as...why not? Just relax and have fun. But that came to an end! What did I learn. She had mental and emotional baggage. She would spill it on me from time to time. She wasn't mentally or emotionally stable. So that was my first fiasco with an American broad.

After that I was with an Indian girl. She was a good girl. I could trust her for sure. That was something she had over a lot of American broads. However, I gave her the boot twice. She thought she was very Indian because she said she hates the US and she listens to and watches nothing but Indian television. But the fact is that she had American ways that just fricking irritated me. Her way of talking and certain expressions she would use was very American. She had emotional problems too. So my point in telling you that is that even though she was Indian she was very American in some ways. She would be ready to claw my eyes out if I said this to her.

Now I met a Dominican girl on OKCupid back in April. I'll make this one short. She was sexy and pretty but she had that type of personality that we all can't stand in AW. I even sensed it in her the first time I talked to her. She was ghetto even though she had a Master's degree. Now, these were her exact words. She said she had a hard personlity and she was a feminist. I'm leaving out some details here. But get this. I asked her, I think the third time we spoke, if you were to have a child would you take off of work for at least two years to stay home with your newborn while your husband provided for the family? Get ready......she said..........................HELL NO WHY DID I GET A MASTER'S DEGREE THEN!!!! That was her response. You know she got the boot. End of story. My next post will be about my encounters with women from abroad.
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Postby Taco » Sun Oct 02, 2011 8:41 pm

Hi OTB, Its nice to meet you. I think you'll find most of the guys here are friendly and happy to help you any way they can. Just be careful who you date, theres lots of crazy women out there, as if you didn't know that.
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Postby OTB » Sun Oct 02, 2011 8:52 pm

I appreciate that Taco. Where are you from?
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Postby eurobrat » Sun Oct 02, 2011 10:13 pm

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Postby E_Irizarry » Mon Oct 03, 2011 6:18 pm

@OTB,

You look like that younger version of that Latino-looking Black male porn star that always talks down to his women in every scene he's in and he cums grunting loudly (not Wesley Pipes and it's not Jack Napier).

And you look like your parents could have been a P. Diddy and a J. Lo. Heehehee!

But seriously though, it's crazy how a lot of HA dudes are Black and Latino males. Looks like Black women really are the spearheads of neo-feminism.
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Postby magnum » Mon Oct 03, 2011 6:59 pm

Welcome, and by all means vent away.


This is one of the few spots AW can't say you raped them when speaking negatively about them!
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Postby eurobrat » Tue Oct 04, 2011 12:23 am

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Postby ErikHeaven » Tue Oct 04, 2011 1:32 am

You look like that younger version of that Latino-looking Black male porn star that always talks down to his women in every scene he's in and he cums grunting loudly (not Wesley Pipes and it's not Jack Napier).
Ha Ha Ha Irizarry is nuts like me. Yes welcome aboard and give us more of your nightmares!
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Postby NorthAmericanguy » Tue Oct 04, 2011 1:41 am

Welcome! And you look like an athlete.
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Postby Winston » Tue Oct 04, 2011 7:31 pm

OTB,
From your pic in your avatar, you look very down to earth too. Most black guys I meet are very down to earth and appreciate my truthful rants and observations. That's why I vibe with them really well, most of the time that is.

One of the reasons we have a lot of black American guys here is that they love hearing the truth and appreciate it.
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Postby OTB » Thu Oct 06, 2011 4:52 pm

Thanks guys. I appreciate all the comments and the welcomes. I do indeed have more to vent. So standby. It's not just about AW but also about this culture we live in. E_Irizarry you made me chuckle with that comment you made.
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Postby E_Irizarry » Thu Oct 06, 2011 5:37 pm

eurobrat wrote:@E_Irizarry

Dude what's going on with that avatar? I think I just went blind looking at it.


It's no Photoshop. I went from 1993 until 2004 dicking down AW built like that (I had dicked down some "skinny minnies" and some "skinny thicks" and some "thicky thick" women here and there).
I went from 2004 until 2007 dicking down my last girlfriend, whom is Canadian SSBBW (super-sized big 'beautiful' women) but mixed with St. Maartenian, Portuguese, and Brazilian) and that was the longest relationship I have ever had with a western woman. All the AW I have dated lasted shorter so I would get my 90-day warranty return). However, the longest relationships I had on American soil were with FW that were no more than 1 to 2 years already on American soil: one was with a Singaporean BBW in NYC, one was with that Japanese girl that shitted on me for that Jersey thug (this was in Charlotte), and one was with a Ghanaian, W. African regular-build woman when I lived in Charlotte, too.

I've been a chubby chaser from 1993 until 5 months ago because American BBWs are becoming more psychotic and becoming more self-entitled to shit that they not fairly worked for. I still have somewhat of a knack for one, but not for the American ones anymore.
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