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Postby EntrepreneurNet » Fri Jul 27, 2012 8:46 am

zboy1 wrote:Sorry to hear about the end of your relationship, EN. I also can't wait to leave this shithole of a country aka U.S. of Gay. I've also recently gotten my bachelors degree and haven't been able to find a job for two years now! Seems like everyday, I realize what a sinking ship economically, morally, and socially, the United States is becoming.
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Thanks. And good luck to you too, Zboy!

polya wrote:Yeah Right! Men need to stop being "pussies"! Women get their revenge every day e.g. take their man to the cleaners.

Women.. women.. I'm just so thoroughly disgusted with them now I don’t even know what to think about them anymore. Maybe there are some good women in other countries? Maybe even in the US??

But I don’t want anything to do with them anymore because they've so thoroughly disappointed me.
Just sex.. No commitment. No more "relationships". No more long term plans. Since women so EXCEL at ruining them. This isn't my first time either.

Some of my friends are completely shocked too when I tell them that. Since it so goes against ALL their previous recorded memories of me: In high school “I was one of the friendliest & ‘nicest guy they knew’. Always nice to girls, and thinking about others before myself.â€￾

Well I’ve survived a few years and taken a few notes along the way: http://drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy.html
People don’t just wake up one day, and decide to change all of a sudden. They change after being mistreated by others for years – even decades

From some of the other posts on HappierAbroad, I get the feeling I'm not the only one who thinks this: http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/view ... 9a21831b50

They becoming bitter, cold, & cynical, once the start to see the "darker side" of human nature. I theorize PTS (post tramatic stress) is also plays a major part in it?

One thing that really got to me about her, more than anything else, is the whole experience reminded me of my dad. I haven’t seen him for years but I remember being a child, after his divorce, and seeing all the hate, anger, & rage in his eyes. After my mom cheated on him. That really got to me emotionally as a kid, because my entire family was torn apart, and I didn’t understand it. I told myself “I will never be like him. I will never be like that, I will never hate.â€￾ And now I am more like him than I want to admit. :\

I understand what happened to him now: It’s not pretty.. but it’s a fact of life all men have to face through sooner or latter.

Women do that all the time to guys, and they get away with it ALWAYS. If a man does that he’s called a monster, and society shuns him.

And then (mostly Young) women are getting heartbroken all the time, and wonder why all men they meet are "Assholes"???


polya wrote:So I personally disagree and think you should get revenge on people who deserve it. I'm not saying "go postal" but definitely do something in a smart way that's legal e.g. give her the clap, post photos of her somewhere...


Hmm..? I know for a fact that she was a cam WHORE for some fraction of her life. She made money doing that before she met me, perhaps as far back as high school. And if I had any videos or photos from that I would spread them around around the internet like wildfire, so thoroughly even her grandmother would see them.. That would be a start??
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Postby Jackal » Tue Jul 31, 2012 3:58 pm

EntrepreneurNet wrote: I would like to go back to school for computer science, but can’t afford it.

Are you sure? There are degree programs in English in many foreign countries, many of which are MUCH less expensive than the ridiculous prices you pay for university in America! So do some research before you give up. In fact, at your age, going to university in a foreign country might be just the right thing for you!

EntrepreneurNet wrote:What perplexes me is I talk to friends/family who’ve never lived anywhere else–they’re all convinced they want to STAY here until they die? I don’t see how any rational person could say that??

Easy: fear! Most Americans fear what they don't know and that the American media conditions them to fear going to foreign countries and brainwashes them into thinking that "America is number one" at everything.

If you want to continue "unplugging" from American culture, start reading some news sites with real international news like AlJazeera and Russia Today. Of course, the most extreme form of "unplugging" is to learn a foreign language! A lot of Americans move their bodies abroad, but few are willing to "move their minds" enough to learn a foreign language.

Oh yeah, and welcome!
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Postby polya » Tue Jul 31, 2012 6:48 pm

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Re: Neo, Just Got Unplugged

Postby PeterAndrewNolan » Tue Jul 31, 2012 6:53 pm

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Re: Neo, Just Got Unplugged

Postby PeterAndrewNolan » Tue Jul 31, 2012 6:59 pm

EntrepreneurNet wrote: and now I’m trying to make it as a web-entrepreneur.

Ben,
let me introduce you to my pals at OPUS. www.opus.com.kh

They are experts at building web sites. What I have suggested to men on this forum is that they can get into the business of developing web sites for businesses in their local area and use OPUS as the back end build people. The owner is the son of a friend of mine.

So far no other men here or in the man-o-sphere think that having and absolutely trustworthy set of developers in Cambodia managed by two Irish guys is a good idea....I do...I sent my dev work to them.

When the MBA gets going and we need web sites OPUS will be building them. I am just using dot net nuke for the start up sites that are easy to create.

http://www.mensbusinessassociation.com/Home.aspx

So if you want to run your own business and be an entrepreneur then you would do well to consider OPUS as a supplier and MBA as a framework to work into.

Some ambitious young men have to get their businesses started via MBA sooner or later.
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Postby PeterAndrewNolan » Tue Jul 31, 2012 7:02 pm

polya wrote:
PrisonerOfLife wrote:
patrick wrote:Revenge is not good man, let it go. Live your own happy life and one day you'll see she's f***ed herself up. It always goes like that.


Agreed. You should be thanking her for doing you a huge favor.


Yeah Right! Men need to stop being "pussies"! Women get their revenge every day e.g. take their man to the cleaners. So I personally disagree and think you should get revenge on people who deserve it. I'm not saying "go postal" but definitely do something in a smart way that's legal e.g. give her the clap, post photos of her somewhere...


I do not call it "revenge"...it is actually JUSTICE.

Men must bring JUSTICE to those women who criminally victimised men...and that is what I am working on...
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Postby EntrepreneurNet » Fri Sep 07, 2012 3:24 am

Hey! I wanted to thank everyone for leaving comments.

I haven't been on here in a while, but I appreciate all the help and advice you give. You guys are the best support group a any man could ask for!

Jackal:
Jackal wrote:Easy: fear! Most Americans fear what they don't know and that the American media conditions them to fear going to foreign countries and brainwashes them into thinking that "America is number one" at everything.

If you want to continue "unplugging" from American culture, start reading some news sites with real international news like AlJazeera and Russia Today.


I guess I should have realized that's obvious. Most people here are so brainwashed and living in fear they'll never break out of their shell. And I love all the patriotic "parrots" who think they are living in the best country in the world: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h__uutzcQXc

Yeah man, One day I plan to write a BOOK about all the books and documentaries that have helped me "unplug". I frequent AlJazeera, RT, TYT, and a few others. Good thing I ended the "Brainwashing" that is cable TV - when I was 17! (I'm 23 now)


PeterAndrewNolan:
PeterAndrewNolan wrote:
EntrepreneurNet wrote: and now I’m trying to make it as a web-entrepreneur.

Ben, let me introduce you to my pals at OPUS. www.opus.com.kh

They are experts at building web sites. What I have suggested to men on this forum is that they can get into the business of developing web sites for businesses in their local area and use OPUS as the back end build people. The owner is the son of a friend of mine.


Thanks a TON! I am definitely VERY interested in Opus and the MBA!
I'tll have to get in touch with them. I also checked out your background and all your websites - you seem to know your stuff! So you're a IT/Data Warehousing guy? Good skills to have in this day and age..

I'm actually planning to open my web-development shop this month: once I've finished/launched 4 of my personal sites. I just need some "street cred" and reputation. So I was planning on cold-calling some of the >5,000 potential clients, small businesses and restaurants in my city who need websites. I'd give them an extremely affordable price since I'm new to the game. I already bought 500 business cards...

I spent literally the last 1 1/2 years learning Drupal. I figured Wordpress is too "limiting" for several of the BIG ambitious websites I want to build. But I've heard a lot about DotNetNuke from my web designer friends who swear by it..



I'm also very sorry to hear about your marriage. :( But It's good that you've turned all that emotion and passion into a drive to help other men succeed, and avoid making the same mistakes. Of course some men need help "getting back on track" after a major life derailment (mine was a mild one.)

I plan to read all your books when I get some free time. Not only for me - but so I can inform my friends as well.

I have a friend right now who just got divorced (at 33), paying alimony, left with $120,000 in debt, and just got his 2 children taken away from him by the courts -- I'm surprise he hasn't killed himself yet..
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Postby PeterAndrewNolan » Fri Sep 07, 2012 7:06 pm

EntrepreneurNet wrote:Thanks a TON! I am definitely VERY interested in Opus and the MBA!
I'tll have to get in touch with them. I also checked out your background and all your websites - you seem to know your stuff! So you're a IT/Data Warehousing guy? Good skills to have in this day and age..

I'm actually planning to open my web-development shop this month: once I've finished/launched 4 of my personal sites. I just need some "street cred" and reputation. So I was planning on cold-calling some of the >5,000 potential clients, small businesses and restaurants in my city who need websites. I'd give them an extremely affordable price since I'm new to the game. I already bought 500 business cards...

I spent literally the last 1 1/2 years learning Drupal. I figured Wordpress is too "limiting" for several of the BIG ambitious websites I want to build. But I've heard a lot about DotNetNuke from my web designer friends who swear by it..

I'm also very sorry to hear about your marriage. :( But It's good that you've turned all that emotion and passion into a drive to help other men succeed, and avoid making the same mistakes. Of course some men need help "getting back on track" after a major life derailment (mine was a mild one.)

I plan to read all your books when I get some free time. Not only for me - but so I can inform my friends as well.

I have a friend right now who just got divorced (at 33), paying alimony, left with $120,000 in debt, and just got his 2 children taken away from him by the courts -- I'm surprise he hasn't killed himself yet..


I am one of the top BI people in the world now. No one has the breadth of skills I have which is useful on a project because it means less people need to be hired to cover the gaps. I can do everything from write C++ like a pro to sales calls with C-level people as well as contribute to the marketing strategy for large organisations. Not many men can cover such different skills....most guys who are C++ programmers can not sell for nuts.

OPUS can build sites for you at a quality and a price that local houses in the US can not match. The owner is the son of a friend of mine.

The first thing you need to get out selling is a web site, some decent sales collateral, and plenty of motivation. After that it is all pretty easy actually....but the economy being down is not helping at the moment.

When men finally wise up and realise that the idea of the MBA is a good idea....men making oath to be honest in business and being held to that oath by other members......then more will sign up for such an idea. It is an indication of the dysfunction in the west that even the idea of making oath to be honest as a member of an association is considered "strange" and men will not join in en masse.

And they wonder how they are so easily controlled.?? It is because the all act as individuals.

The FIRST thing you learn in the army is the buddy system and to rely on those around you and those around you rely on you. The exact OPPOSITE of how men act today.
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Postby EntrepreneurNet » Fri Sep 07, 2012 11:22 pm

*I just signed up for the MBA under the username: Entrepreneur.
I'll be reading through all the forums sometime later.

PeterAndrewNolan wrote:I can do everything from write C++ like a pro to sales calls with C-level people as well as contribute to the marketing strategy for large organisations. Not many men can cover such different skills....most guys who are C++ programmers can not sell for nuts.


You got that right! The programmer != marketer; disconnect is so massive you could fit a Grand Canyon in it, with room to spare. You’ll be a good long-term friend for me to have then! :) I plan on doing this for a career.


Right now I am trying to become a master “copywriterâ€￾/marketer AND round out my software engineering skills so I can make great products. I did graduate from a business school; but I’ve never had any formal education in computer science, so I’m all self-taught.

Since every website is just a “piece of softwareâ€￾ + a database, I’ve realized it’s CRUCIALLY important for me to have those skills, if I want to do tech startups.


PeterAndrewNolan wrote:When men finally wise up and realise that the idea of the MBA is a good idea....men making oath to be honest in business and being held to that oath by other members......then more will sign up for such an idea. It is an indication of the dysfunction in the west that even the idea of making oath to be honest as a member of an association is considered "strange" and men will not join in en masse.

And they wonder how they are so easily controlled.?? It is because the all act as individuals.

The FIRST thing you learn in the army is the buddy system and to rely on those around you and those around you rely on you. The exact OPPOSITE of how men act today.


Hey, Then I’m not sure if you’d be interested in: The Entrepreneur Network

That’s the main site I’m building. I think it could make a great companion-site to the Men’s Business Association. It's not live yet http://entrepreneurnet.org/ It’s going to be social-network build by and exclusively for entrepreneurs. Helping people find inspiration, mentors, and business partners. I figured it could maybe help some members of this forum to to create location-independent businesses.


Plus no site out there really takes you by the hand and “teaches you step-by-stepâ€￾ how to become an entrepreneur. You have to read a lot of books, or go to Babson college of Entrepreneurship for that knowledge. The closest I’ve seen is Mixergy.com http://mixergy.com/courses/. So we will have many free tools, interviews, and a step-by-step educational system to turn wage-earners into successful entrepreneurs. It’s also about freeing minds as much as growing bank accounts.


My goal is for it to become the "Linkedin/Facebook for entrepreneurs"; but all 100% free though. *Unlike LinkedIn where you have to PAY a monthly fee for ‘advanced features’. When I talk to my friends on LinkedIn more than half of them are entrepreneurial, and LinkedIn doesn’t really serve their needs too well – it’s more for “employeesâ€￾. And Facebook is a sad joke when it comes to getting things done.

You ever heard of Markus Frind? http://plentyoffish.wordpress.com/2006/ ... an-empire/
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About a year ago I was involved in a web-startup with a family members. And I couldn't find this info online anywhere. I figured a site like this didn't exist yet or I would have found it already. *I just wanted to pay rent! We had no ambition to become millionaires or multi-millionaries.

Needless to say out business failed miserably because of our lack of skills knowledge & experience. That's when I made it my life goal to create the Entrepreneur Network. Everything I’m doing now, including my web-design firm, is based on it: That’s why my username is EntrepreneurNet.
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Postby PeterAndrewNolan » Sat Sep 08, 2012 1:57 am

EntrepreneurNet.
If you check my resume I was the business development manager for BI for Hitachi Data System in Asia Pacific in the mid 90s...then went to PwC as the BDM for Australia-New Zealand and then went on to Ardent as the Professional Services Manager for Asia Pacific. I was very, very successful in those roles. So I am used to selling multi million dollar deals to very large companies.

I moved to Dublin on a two year working holiday and did not go back.

Now I am relaunching IBI http://www.youtube.com/user/InstantBI/featured

So if lads want someone who advise them and guide them on creating businesses I would be more than happy to assist..but I will be paid for my time.

MBA is the idea that men will make oath to do business honestly and to act with honour and integrity.....it is the idea that men move their business outside the jurisdiction of the guvment and therefore not pay the guvment for their "help" in a thing called taxes.....Any man who wants to bring his business efforts into that umbrella can do so for an affidavit and oath to sit on juries. He then can use the brand name in his selling.

There is too much deceit in business today...too many charlatans.....and they make life difficult for honest men......if good men would only cooperate rather than compete or "go it alone" they would do much better
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Postby PeterAndrewNolan » Sat Sep 08, 2012 2:01 am

EntrepreneurNet,
just so you know....on the site you linked they have Jimmy Wales.

http://mixergy.com/courses/

Wikipedia is funded and supported by the Illuminati as a disinfo site......Jimmy wales is about as good an entrepeneur as barrack obama is a politician...both are totally owned by the Illuminati.

In case you do not know...companies like Google, Facebook, Dell, IBM, Microsoft are all Illuminati companies....no company gets to be large like that without being totally controlled by the Illuminati....sorry if that bursts your bubble.
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Postby skateboardstephen » Sat Sep 15, 2012 8:05 pm

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se eu soubesse o que eu sei hoje, teria mando mulheres americanas para foder-se há muitos anos.que deus abençoe o brasil!
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Re: Neo, Just Got Unplugged

Postby DevilsAdvocate » Sat Sep 15, 2012 8:23 pm

EntrepreneurNet wrote:Hi! My name’s Ben,

I just 'discovered' this forum today: and only just started reading. But it already feels like a breath of fresh air to me. I think I finally found some place where I belong.

So I’m a 23yr old, typical, white, middle-class (actually closer to lower class) American. I live in New Orleans.. I got a Bachelor’s degree in Finance last year, and am still unemployed. I gave 4 years of my life to get that degree, but it didn’t go to waste - because I will Earn my initial wealth through other means, and THEN use that knowledge to *grow my wealth.

I’ve given up looking for a job months ago – and now I’m trying to make it as a web-entrepreneur.

Relationships: I’m single. Actually just went through the most horrible, damaging, scarring experience of my life (thus far). As I almost Killed myself over it. But I survived, and kept my sanity. Although I don’t know how long it will take for the wounds to fully heal.


NOW my life is characterized by Only 3 goals:

1. To make as much MONEY as humanly possible.

2. To get out of this f***ing disgusting sh**-hole of a country!

3. *And sleep with as many beautiful foreign women, as humanly possible, before I die.


I guess I do want to have an actual relationship with some of these women instead of just sleep with them. But I know the nature of such things is transient. I don't have a lot of hope or expectations for that...


And also as a bonus - I’m want to rub it in my Ex’s face, one day.. The fact that she is a disgusting piece of filth and she is never going to get a chance with me again: When she’s divorced, all alone, OLD, wrinkled, disgusting, on antidepressants because her life has gone to sh**, and she threw away the ONE good person in her life who actually GAVE A DAMN about her. She’s simply not good enough.

I don’t care what anyone says or thinks about me now. I don’t care what my family or friends think. *I don’t care if they disapprove of my behavior. Because I can see how hollow and shallow they really are – they’re just as unhappy as me, because they’re all in dysfunctional/failing marriages.. or dead-end relationship. And they want to try to give me advice on how I should live my life?? YEah right!

I don’t think so.

Also I've come to the conclusion that I don't ever want to have kids. EVER. I'm 100% sure about that now.. I grep up as an only child in an abusive household. Even without the abuse, it was still hell. *If I did have kids, couldn't bear to have 2 or more children and retain my sanity & my freedom. So I just won't have any...


Not having kids or any family ties will make it significantly easier to travel the world and leave my past life behind.

I want to live this life in the moment, how I want to live, enjoying every day - and only for me. My focus is on my own happiness and pleasure first and above all else.
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I feel like Neo who just got “unpluggedâ€￾ from the Matrix and can see the "truth", through all the lies, for the very first time... Or maybe I just opened my eyes to it.

I have been set free.

So Yeah, that’s my introduction. Selfish aren’t I? :D





I'd like to play Devils Advocate here. I have believed this general belief for a long time now, say back to around 1998 or so. And so in the year 1999 I started looking for a Russian girl. I found one, she being from Moscow. I brought her to the USA and to make a long story short she turned out to be a minimum of a thousand times worse than ANY American girl I have ever dated, hands down. And once she got to San Diego I had the pleasure of meeting other Russian people. My take on Russian people? Thanks but no thanks, nothing personal, just culture difference too great, I can barely stand my own people.

More recently I tried a Filipina, she makes the Russian girl look like a an angel, never in my life I have seen such lies and deception and greed like a child before, with glee and happiness at being able to fool a foreigner. While the men watch cock fights all day and drink beer and kill dogs or pigs and roast them for dinner, the women on the other hand scam and con foreigners and then go sing Karoke and laugh and giggle like 10 year old children......Ahhh, what culture....

Beware that your revelation doesn't turn into the biggest nightmare of your entire life, proceed with extreme caution.

Personally, I have a new outlook on American women, I know them, they are of my culture, and I know the difference between a two bit hoe and a classy girl working a good job. I know BS when I hear it from them, because I know how life in the USA works and what is BS and what isn't.

There are tons of immigrants from all over the world coming to the USA everyday, Latinas and Asians and Russians, so there are girls that can be found right in the good old USA, and that's where I'm going to stay. Where the air is clean and the food never makes you sick, where you can live a good quality life and do many great things all over the country. Where you can trust the police won't try to extort you, and that you have rights as a person.

Yes I will stick with the USA, it isn't perfect that's for sure, and the women are either sluts or very hard to get, but I would rather it be hard to get a classy girl than to have as much sex as I want with some other girl who only has a agenda about money.

Good luck to each on his quest for happiness on this planet, you're going to need it....

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Re: Neo, Just Got Unplugged

Postby NorthAmericanguy » Fri Sep 21, 2012 8:22 pm

EntrepreneurNet wrote:Hi! My name’s Ben,

I just 'discovered' this forum today: and only just started reading. But it already feels like a breath of fresh air to me. I think I finally found some place where I belong.

So I’m a 23yr old, typical, white, middle-class (actually closer to lower class) American. I live in New Orleans.. I got a Bachelor’s degree in Finance last year, and am still unemployed. I gave 4 years of my life to get that degree, but it didn’t go to waste - because I will Earn my initial wealth through other means, and THEN use that knowledge to *grow my wealth.

I’ve given up looking for a job months ago – and now I’m trying to make it as a web-entrepreneur.

Relationships: I’m single. Actually just went through the most horrible, damaging, scarring experience of my life (thus far). As I almost Killed myself over it. But I survived, and kept my sanity. Although I don’t know how long it will take for the wounds to fully heal.


NOW my life is characterized by Only 3 goals:

1. To make as much MONEY as humanly possible.

2. To get out of this f***ing disgusting sh**-hole of a country!

3. *And sleep with as many beautiful foreign women, as humanly possible, before I die.


I guess I do want to have an actual relationship with some of these women instead of just sleep with them. But I know the nature of such things is transient. I don't have a lot of hope or expectations for that...


And also as a bonus - I’m want to rub it in my Ex’s face, one day.. The fact that she is a disgusting piece of filth and she is never going to get a chance with me again: When she’s divorced, all alone, OLD, wrinkled, disgusting, on antidepressants because her life has gone to sh**, and she threw away the ONE good person in her life who actually GAVE A DAMN about her. She’s simply not good enough.

I don’t care what anyone says or thinks about me now. I don’t care what my family or friends think. *I don’t care if they disapprove of my behavior. Because I can see how hollow and shallow they really are – they’re just as unhappy as me, because they’re all in dysfunctional/failing marriages.. or dead-end relationship. And they want to try to give me advice on how I should live my life?? YEah right!

I don’t think so.




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EntrepreneurNet wrote:Also I've come to the conclusion that I don't ever want to have kids. EVER. I'm 100% sure about that now..

Not having kids or any family ties will make it significantly easier to travel the world and leave my past life behind.

I want to live this life in the moment, how I want to live, enjoying every day - and only for me. My focus is on my own happiness and pleasure first and above all else.



Good choice! You're a wise young man.


Just recently I was talking to an older gentlemen who's an engineer. He has 2 kids in prestigious colleges and he told me on the side while his wife was gone that it was a mistake having kids.

Story short, we were taking about his job and he said even though he makes good money it all goes out the window to pay for taking care of his family. He said with all the traveling required for his job he puts in 14 hour days and gets little sleep....

I felt bad for the guy because it does not seem like his family really appreciates all the work that he puts in. In fact, from other families that I have seen, it seems like nobody cares about the father until he's dead; it's only THEN do they realize how good of a man the guy was.
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