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mountaingrownOG
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American women chase another guy overseas....

Post by mountaingrownOG » September 18th, 2012, 9:41 am

Hello everybody :)

I'll be straight up and say that I'm 100% new to international dating, but I'm done with American women. I'm only 25 years old but I have the same hateful feelings about women that you see thrice divorced angry old men grumble on television. I've really been put through the ringer by American chicks. My story is probably pretty common around here. I was always an extremely dedicated, loyal, loving, caring, compassionate, considerate, thoughtful and all around perfect boyfriend. Needless to say I've had bad luck with that. To make a very very long story as short as possible every single American born woman I have dated has, at the very least, betrayed me (most did a lot more than just that) and treated me like shit; yet the one foreign born woman (a German immigrant) was the only woman who, despite eventually breaking things off, treated me with dignity and respect from beginning to end. My experience with this woman, and years of torture with domestic ladies, has brought me to give up on pursuing anything serious with a domestic born woman. I'll happily enjoy the intimate company of American chicks for the time being since I have no choice and there's no sense in being lonely, but my first (hopefully only) wife will be foreign born, no doubt.

The German woman that I dated was so very different than American women in so many ways, I really can't begin to describe it. She was much more feminine, always honest, believed in showing a person respect, had a mind blowing work ethic and was different in so many ways. She was rather Americanized, so she had qualities of American women that suck, but she gave me the glimpse I needed to bring me here. My god she was so much more feminine than US born chicks that in comparison to her they're a bunch of raunchy slobs. The only US born women I've ever come across that projected womanhood and femininity as much as she did weren't born women. After that girl I simply can't see myself spending a life time with an American born woman.

At the moment I'm broke as a joke, my income is literally a negative figure; however, should things go according to plan, I'll have a modest income in four to six months, followed by a steadily growing six figures by the one year mark. The articles here seem to stress that foreign chicks aren't as demanding as domestics when it comes to a man's career but I, personally, feel a need to solidify my financial situation before trying to build a family, which I'm very serious about doing. So at the moment I'm in no position to begin looking for a foreign wife, but I'd like to form a plan to use when the time does come. I mean there's loads to consider; do I look online? search by traveling? Will learning a foreign language increase my odds? If so, which one? Do I go asian, euro or latina? What's different between all the options besides the obvious surface stuff? etc etc etc (I'm not expecting answers to these).


At any rate thanks for your time and attention, I've got loads of questions and look forward to some answers :)
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Post by jamesbond » September 18th, 2012, 3:00 pm

Welcome mountaingrownOG, glad you found our forum. You are smart to think about dating foreign women at your young age (25). Some guys don't realize that foreign women are the way to go until they are divorced from an american women and they are middle aged.

Do you plan any visiting any countries within the next couple of years? If so, what countries are you most interested in?

It sounds like you and that German girl got along very well. I will taking a trip to Berlin as soon as I can save some more money and get some time off of work (I am working two jobs right now).
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Re: American women chase another guy overseas....

Post by WPO » September 20th, 2012, 2:31 am

[quote="mountaingrownOG"]Hello everybody :)

. I'll happily enjoy the intimate company of American chicks for the time being since I have no choice and there's no sense in being lonely, but my first (hopefully only) wife will be foreign born, no doubt.quote]

If you want to stay happily married with her, you must stay in HER country. Try to fight the temptation of wanting to bang other women there as well. You'll find out what it's like to be a player in the US! You'll go from nonexistent in the states to the center of attention in europe.
Go east, young man. Go east

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Post by xiongmao » September 20th, 2012, 1:35 pm

Welcome!

At your age you'll be gigantically popular with foreign women.

Here's a tool I made which allows you to choose which foreign women might be suitable for you.

As far as Asia goes, Chinese girls are often popular with younger guys. At your age you could date anyone in China. Chinese women are fairly loyal, especially once you have kids.
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Re: American women chase another guy overseas....

Post by NorthAmericanguy » September 21st, 2012, 3:13 pm

mountaingrownOG wrote: The only US born women I've ever come across that projected womanhood and femininity as much as she did weren't born women.
Quoted for truth....lol

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Post by Falcon » September 22nd, 2012, 9:02 am

xiongmao wrote:Welcome!

At your age you'll be gigantically popular with foreign women.

Here's a tool I made which allows you to choose which foreign women might be suitable for you.

As far as Asia goes, Chinese girls are often popular with younger guys. At your age you could date anyone in China. Chinese women are fairly loyal, especially once you have kids.
Agreed. And I am even younger than the OP. :P

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