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Postby Dr Smart » March 6th, 2013, 7:22 am

I guess I should introduce myself.

I'm a 40 year old guy from America, tall (6 feet) and good looking, have traveled abroad for years now, but never found true peace or happiness. Everywhere I go, my problems seem to follow me.

I go for p4p or casual sex, and I admit it's not bad. But then I'm reminded of the anti-male, feminist matrix I'm in, and I can't reconcile myself with it. It's the helpless feeling that bothers me, and I feel torn between wanting to escape, yet also wanting to fight back.

I think I have the same problem as Winston: wanting a "wife" but also wanting casual sex on the side. It's a demon that has plagued me for so long. I think that if girls had shown interest in me in HS or college, I would have been normal.

I had a GF who was a foreigner, and she was very nice and traditional. I proposed to her, but couldn't go through with it because I found out I wasn't cut out for monogamy. To this day, I still have hopes of someday being with her, but my instincts pull me in another direction.

I suffer from depression, and feel there's no hope for me. I feel dried up... spiritually, emotionally exhausted. I honestly don't know if I could truly be happier abroad.

Anyway, that's my story for now.
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Postby zacb » March 6th, 2013, 7:58 am

Welcome aboard! I hope you enjoy the forum . By the way, which countries have you been to?
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Postby E_Irizarry » March 6th, 2013, 9:04 am

@Dr Smart,

Great posts by the way during your six-post era. I look forward to more resounding posts by you!
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Postby xiongmao » March 6th, 2013, 2:18 pm

Welcome!

I think the solution in many cultures is to marry an ordinary girl and have a bit on the side.

Have you been to China? I'm happy here because the women here are friendly and also very hot.
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Postby KeepinItForeign » June 4th, 2013, 8:27 pm

In many cultures it's ok to have more then one wife.I know in bible times,men had more then one wife and had concubines on the side,so I really don't see nothing wrong with it.The only thing that bothers me is these women have been with countless other men.
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Postby Adama » June 4th, 2013, 8:50 pm

If anything you should have hope. You already know there is an escape hatch to all this. You arent doomed to stay here.

Now if all the world was like the USA and there were no escape, then I could see being majorly depressed over the situation.

As it is now, there is a super-bright light at the end of the tunnel. Just keep trekking.
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Postby terminator » June 5th, 2013, 8:04 am

Well you've come to the right place. I know of several guys in your position! Just don't be another George Sedoni as you can have a life with women by living in or visiting non-feminist countries!
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Re: My intro

Postby ryanx » June 5th, 2013, 8:21 am

Dr Smart wrote:I guess I should introduce myself.

I'm a 40 year old guy from America, tall (6 feet) and good looking, have traveled abroad for years now, but never found true peace or happiness. Everywhere I go, my problems seem to follow me.

I go for p4p or casual sex, and I admit it's not bad. But then I'm reminded of the anti-male, feminist matrix I'm in, and I can't reconcile myself with it. It's the helpless feeling that bothers me, and I feel torn between wanting to escape, yet also wanting to fight back.

I think I have the same problem as Winston: wanting a "wife" but also wanting casual sex on the side. It's a demon that has plagued me for so long. I think that if girls had shown interest in me in HS or college, I would have been normal.

I had a GF who was a foreigner, and she was very nice and traditional. I proposed to her, but couldn't go through with it because I found out I wasn't cut out for monogamy. To this day, I still have hopes of someday being with her, but my instincts pull me in another direction.

I suffer from depression, and feel there's no hope for me. I feel dried up... spiritually, emotionally exhausted. I honestly don't know if I could truly be happier abroad.

Anyway, that's my story for now.


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Postby jboy » June 5th, 2013, 3:55 pm

At least ryanx have some sense of humor lol
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Postby jamesbond » June 7th, 2013, 1:31 pm

Hello Dr Smart, welcome to the forum. What countries have you visited so far? Are there any you like more than others? In your opinion, what countries had the friendliest women?
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Re: My intro

Postby victorpaul1 » June 24th, 2013, 6:55 am

Dr Smart wrote:I guess I should introduce myself.

I'm a 40 year old guy from America, tall (6 feet) and good looking, have traveled abroad for years now, but never found true peace or happiness. Everywhere I go, my problems seem to follow me.

I go for p4p or casual sex, and I admit it's not bad. But then I'm reminded of the anti-male, feminist matrix I'm in, and I can't reconcile myself with it. It's the helpless feeling that bothers me, and I feel torn between wanting to escape, yet also wanting to fight back.

I think I have the same problem as Winston: wanting a "wife" but also wanting casual sex on the side. It's a demon that has plagued me for so long. I think that if girls had shown interest in me in HS or college, I would have been normal.

I had a GF who was a foreigner, and she was very nice and traditional. I proposed to her, but couldn't go through with it because I found out I wasn't cut out for monogamy. To this day, I still have hopes of someday being with her, but my instincts pull me in another direction.

I suffer from depression, and feel there's no hope for me. I feel dried up... spiritually, emotionally exhausted. I honestly don't know if I could truly be happier abroad.

Anyway, that's my story for now.


Hi Smart nice to meet you. Like you i'm also a new member of the forum.
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Postby xiongmao » June 24th, 2013, 9:19 am

Welcome guys.

Well if you read my other posts I rather burned out of China. I guess it was best to leave before the pollution poisoned my body.

Now I'm in Thailand - a few other guys from the forum are/have been here (Rock, Falcon, Everdred, hopefully Winston soon!). I'd say this country has the best quality of life of anywhere I've been. Check it out!
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