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My name is Gary, a white male
I've been lurking on this board since around July. I did a Google "giving up on women" and it directed me towards this forum.

I've lived around Philadelphia my entire life, though on different contract jobs I've traveled to different parts of the country, notably Orange County and Chicago. I can't imagine a worse place to meet women and a worse quality of women than Philadelphia but I suppose anything is possible. The accents and the attitudes are hideous; not to mention alot of unhealthy fatties whose greatest accomplish in life is outperforming their man in beer guzzling contests.

I agree with the generally rant of the forum; though I do have Christian beliefs so that may make some eyes roll.

It is true that is very difficult to hold a conversation with an americanized women based on anything meaningful or deeps; its all frivolous BS.

I recently turned 40, which has me a little bummed. I have eaten a healthy diet since the summer of 2006. In the past I ate like the typical American pig. I exercise regularly and I am in good shape. So, I'm not the typical american 40 yr old male, so maybe there is a glimmer of hope in meeting a nice foreign girl.

I've always been introverted so that's prevented "successful" with women. I blew alot of chances when I was younger; in retrospect, chances at sex, not meeting a wife because if i married one of they'd all be huge whales at this point and bossing me around; and i would have never had a chance to be enlightened about our culture. So, in a way its a blessing because I didn't become one of those mangina's bearing a baby carrier strap over their torso ( i find those men pathetic and offensive)

Anyway, I do believe there is a "conspiracy" against the american people and all the other peasants in every nation. Perhaps the soulless nature of American culture and the masculined women/feminized men is an experiment that will be exported to everywhere else in the next 15-20 yrs.

I work at a boring, uninspiring job that I hate in teh mortgage industry staring at a computer screen all day looking at information that I could care less about. At anytime my company could lay me off; I just survived a 300 plus layoff 2 weeks ago. Management hass assured us no more lay offs are coming..... sure....... eyeroll. Sadly, Im sort of disappointed that I wasn't included in the layoff because I despise all 40 hours of the week spent at my cubicle.

I decided to take the plug and earnestly investigate leaving this hellhole. I'd appreciate any advice and assistance. And if anyone has advice about earning work at home income/at home business income I'd appreciate it.

Has there been any discussion about the men here meeting together? or helping one another leave America? joining forces together? just a thought

Interests - I'm always reading some piece of literature; the Classics are my favorite. I'm always reading books/information about history, science.... from the viewpoint of conspiracy nuts; at least that's how the lemmings in america would describe it because it doesn't follow the mantra mandated by the goverment through the media and education system.
I'm learning guitar, french then spanish.
I write scripts and I'm working on a couple novels.


In terms of women, as I mentioned I'm a white man; however I'm pretty much disgusting with white women.
I find Indian, and semite women (Arab and Israeli) to be the hottest in the world. Of course, spanish and then asian women are hot as well.

Any advice on a whtie guy finding an indian girl?

I am no expert on the subject, but I will tell you what I know. From what I understand, Indian women in India are rather reserved, and the culture is rather masculine, and still kinda focused on tradition. Perhaps you could find one in one of the major expat areas like Dubai. The same goes for Arabs, for the most part. You might want to talk woth mompi (I believe that is his name, correct me if I am wrong), as well as Jester. Both are from Orange County. Best of luck!

Welcome gannable, glad you found our forum. Do you plan on taking any trips overseas in the future? Even though things look bleak now, just image how horrible your life might be right now if you were married to an American woman!

I have friends who are divorced and have to make child support payments until their children turn 18! Just be glad you are not in that situation. Save up your money and travel, that's my game plan. What part of Chicago did you live in? I live in the Chicago area right now.

Again, welcome to the forum!

i live around Philly.

I worked on a couple projects in the past in Chicago, most recently last year. (stayed in hotels)

I don't know if I had said this before, but H.A. member here skateboardstephen is originally from Philly and now lives in Brazil.
You can PM him if you'd like.