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Looking for advice about where or if to start!
I'm 68, widowed a few years now after being married for 45 years and am looking for a new partner. I'm healthy and active, thin, athletic, reasonably attractive and fully retired looking for someone to join me in outdoor activities and travel. Beside the normal qualities that people are looking for, closer to my age, reasonably athletic and adventurous (kayaking, snorkeling, boats, diving, flying) and not religious are qualities that I'm looking for.
Suggestions on age range, countries and anything else you think relevant would be greatly appreciated! Is there even any hope of finding someone mature, petite, 50+ and adventurous and not a church goer and who won't be offended by a non believer and who would be willing to relocate to the US? I'll bet that's asking for a lot! Thank you!
You're looking for a 50+ year old woman to bring to the U.S. and marry? Then you can choose just about any country and make that happen. I don't recommend it though...
China could be your best bet. Thailand is full of tricksters. Vietnam is a bit new when it comes to international dating. Japan is another option if you have money, but Japanese women don't tend to like living overseas so much. The Philippines is popular and visas are easy to come by, but I'm not sure I would want to go there.
Older Chinese women can also be very attractive, I have seen this with my own eyes having lived there for a few months. On the downside, English speakers in your age bracket (45 - 55?) are rare, as at the time they were in school they would have been learning Russian, not English.
How much money do you have?
You might want to talk to davewe personally if he's around. He's an older guy close to your age range and has done what you want to achieve.
I am a terrible person.
So, you want to import some poor woman that will be ostracized by your xenofobic neighbors/culture? Why don't you move there? Maybe you can get a mailorder bride who will split once she has a greencard......
Get the f**k out of the US of Gay.
50+ it would be difficult to find any chick in the Philippines that old. Go there and find a young one.