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Yeah the reference for those IQ stats is "IQ and the Wealth of Nations." It's survey of average IQ for every country in the World. Writen by two economists; it's probably the most important book written on developmental economics in the past50 years. The thesis is simply-- if your people are stupid, they won't be productive. And with low productivity ( low efficiency), you will have poverty. I am an economist, well ....lets be truthful I have the equivalent of masters degree.
Making capital available and cheap won't be the answer for these developing countries. Only a percentage will make it into the middle class because too many are too stupid.
China has an average Iq of (I think) 104. Philipines 86. Mexico 87. Hong Kong, Germany have the highest average IQ in the World.
Hong Kong might be a place to meet smart women.
Making capital available and cheap won't be the answer for these developing countries. Only a percentage will make it into the middle class because too many are too stupid.
China has an average Iq of (I think) 104. Philipines 86. Mexico 87. Hong Kong, Germany have the highest average IQ in the World.
Hong Kong might be a place to meet smart women.
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I generally don't find NE Asian woman attractive, which includes Chinese, Koreans and Japanese. They usually have no curves, no tits, ass, nothing. And then when you marry them they cut all their hair off and look like grandma and don't put out anymore, only giving everything to their kids. That's why the guys from those countries have mistresses on the side or side wives in other countries like the Philippines.
Plus Chinese woman I heard are super materialistic and all they care about is pushing their husband to make more money, into an early grave. f**k that, I'll be the decision maker, not some annoying bitch who wants me to die young so she can inherit all the money.
Plus Chinese woman I heard are super materialistic and all they care about is pushing their husband to make more money, into an early grave. f**k that, I'll be the decision maker, not some annoying bitch who wants me to die young so she can inherit all the money.
"The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane." Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and stoic philosopher, 121-180 A.D.
Hi Eduardo,
Well I wasn't referring to online scammers, but in person scammers that you meet or date in Russia.
By scammers, I don't just mean swindlers. I am also talking about users or greedy people in general who want to take something from you but give you nothing in return. There are a variety of such types, from the subtle to the semi user to the pro.
I wouldn't say most Russian girls I met were like that though, but I've met many of them here and there. But like I said earlier, it's the bad ones we remember most. That's human nature.
You gotta remember that most of the girls I met were cold pickups in public places. As you know, Russian women are open and direct and usually comfortable talking to strangers (or at least me since I do not look intimidating or bad), so they are easy to meet and chat up.
Eduardo, do you consider meeting girls in public the way I did to be a good approach for Western men? Why or why not?
Some examples of scammers and users - girls who go out with you and then put on pressure to you to buy them expensive gifts, or put you in situations to try to force you to pay for non-date related expenses, or hit you up for cash loans without offering any collateral. They even do this with guys they aren't even interested in, that's what pisses me off the most.
More than a few times I’ve had requests from girls to buy them new cell phones, even from ones that weren’t really interested in me. Would you consider those to be scammers or merely users?
There are also some who just like getting fancy dinners from me each time, but are obviously not interested in me personally.
Then there are dangerous scammers who spike your drink then go to your place while you’re drugged and rob all your valuables. I personally witnessed this happen in my hostel room with a girl another guy brought back from a club. But she used misdirection to hide what she was doing, so that even I didn’t suspect anything peculiar until after she left. I detailed this in my report here: http://www.happierabroad.com/2_Professi ... beries.htm
I've had strange ones too. This girl from a tour office in Moscow named Anna went to a Japanese restaurant with me, then she proceeded to order a ton of stuff, costing me $50 on the bill. After that, she merely waved me goodbye quickly and coldly and left.
Later, she texted me nasty messages to try to intimidate me. It turned out she was a racist and called me nasty names like "chink", "mongoloid" and some words that were much worse. She thought I was disgusting and would never sleep with me. She merely went out with me to see what I was made of, and didn't mind making me spend $50 for nothing. We ended up in a nasty online flame war.
She also told me that I had no chance with Russian women because even though I'm not ugly, I'm an "asexual male" that cannot incite sexual desire in Russian women, which was a total blow to my ego. In other words, I do not look masculine enough to get any Russian woman to take me seriously. (incidentally, an expat's Russian wife in Crimea, Ukraine said something similar on my first trip to Russia)
But in a sense she was right, because almost all the girls I went out with never wanted to go to my place afterward or sleep with me that night, even if I went out with them multiple times. So even though I had a lot of fun meeting girls, going out with them, kissing them even, I hardly ever got any sex, which was frustrating as hell.
When I vented out this complaint on the internet, some of them told me that they did not have this problem, that almost all the Russian women they dated usually went home with them afterward. They said that Russian women who live with their parents do not really have a curfew, because they can just call their mom and tell them "sho narmani" (everything is ok) and their parents will let them sleep over with a guy. So if they were telling me they had a curfew or their mom was waiting for them, they were just turning me down. The guys on forums like expat.ru and others told me that all the foreigners they know here get laid easily without any problems, and that the problem must be me or that I give off some vibe that repels Russian women.
However, other foreigners I talked to in Russia reported the same experiences as me, that girls were making excuses to go home after every date. In person, I saw that other foreigners, even white foreigners, who were dating around, did about the same as me or a little better. But they were not getting normal girls to go home with them after every date. So I'm not sure if the guys on expat.ru and other sites were exaggerating or not.
Whatever the case, one of the reaons I didn't want to return to Russia a fourth time was because I didn't want to go through another 500 frustrating dates where I pay for lots of dinners and end up with no sex, especially when I have to put up with a miserable soul sucking Russian winter, harassment from Russian militsia stopping me all the time to check my passport, food I didn't like, and increasing danger from skinheads and racists, as well spending a ton of money on travel expenses again.
In Moscow, I even have gotten rejected from renting several apartments just because they only wanted white people to rent them. Sometimes when I showed up to see the room for rent advertised, they immediately told me that it was full, which I knew was a lie because when I emailed them from another email address, they said it was still available.
(Do you see now why I recommend other Asians to go to Eastern Russia instead?)
Out of hundreds of girls i met and went out with, only one or two were serious about me, this Alina in Yoshkar Ola (whom I met on a bus) whom I lived with for a while but wasn't really attracted to, plus she didn't like sex that much nor would she ever step outside of her city and routine. There was also this Olga in Volgograd but I wasn't that attracted to her and she didn't even care that I stopped writing. Just before I left, I met a nice sweet blonde named Marina that seemed really into me, but I met her just days before I was about to leave, unfortunately.
Bottom line is that the women I wanted didn't want me, even though I was able to meet and chat up hundreds of them.
Thus the expenses, time and effort I was incurring on repeated visits to Russia just weren't worth it anymore.
I'm sure you would have felt the same in my shoes.
But I had a great cultural experience in Russia and loved the magnificent museums, culture, music, openness of people, etc. Those things kept me going and I'll never forget them.
That's why I went to the Philippines the following year instead, because I knew that there, I would not have any sexual frustration or experience any racism, which turned out to be true. But there is nowhere near the cultural stimulation there that Russia offers, and that's the downside.
In addition to all this, I seem to be jinxed in Russia as I had some of the worst luck you can imagine that defied explanation. Let me give you a few examples, and you try to explain them if you can.
While I was teaching English in Moscow, I was invited to this banya with intelligentsia class Russians. There I met this nice girl named Olya. She was average looking but had this charming sweet personality that was out of this world and touched me in a special way that I am rarely touched. I was really into her. There was something special about her, and we also had a lot of interests in common.
When I took her out to dinner later, we held hands and gazed into each other's eyes for hours, barely even touching our food. Rarely do I have that kind of chemistry with someone, but when I do, it's very special cause it makes me feel alive. There seemed to be a strong attraction and energy between us, and it seemed mutual. It's the kind where you can be with someone for hours and not notice the time pass. We even kept nibbling each other's ears in form of "foreplay". I was sure that there was something between us and something special was going to develop. I was so excited.
The next day though, she called to cancel our date, saying that work had called her that night. I was very disappointed. The day after that, she didn't contact me to say she was free, like I had hoped. It was like she didn't place any importance on our time together, which was a real downer, since I thought she was just as much into me as I her. Frustrated that I was losing the momentum built up from our first date and the high it put me on, I SMSed her the next day and demanded to know why she wasn't bothering to make any time for us, even an hour or two. She suddenly replied that she felt that I was like a "brother" to her only.
WTF?! I was pissed and angrily told her that she was crazy because we definitely didn't have a brother/sister type of chemistry. But it was no use. I was shocked in disbelief and denial. I only saw her one more time when she took me spelunking with some cave enthusiasts. I had a great time exploring caves near Moscow and camping there too with some Russian hippies (the same type that go to Rainbow Gatherings). I even got to cuddle her that night while we were sleeping on rock floors, which was nice. But no love between us.
So, even when I meet someone special who seems to be "the one" and I have soulmate chemistry with her, it all bombs in an instant. Here's another example.
There was this brunette in Yoshkar Ola named Elena that I dated a few times. She seemed into me and we kissed a lot and made out intensely. She came to my apartment once but wouldn't go all the way or go near the bed. We just made out on the couch. One day she suddenly stopped seeing me or answering my calls with no explanation. I was stunned again.
The following year when I was in Yoshkar Ola again, I contacted her just to see what would happen. She offered no explanation for last year but wanted to see me again and start dating with me again. So when I arrived in YO, she came to my apartment. When she got out of the taxi, she ran to me with excitement and longing in her eyes, as though she had wanted badly to see me again.
When we went up to my place, we grabbed each other and started making out on my bed. Suddenly she stopped and said that she had to go home to take care of her grandma who was waiting for her, but that she would come over again tomorrow and we would have sex.
I was disappointed and didn't want to pay her taxi home but she pressured me into it.
Before she left, she kept asking me if she could take a teddy bear she saw in my apartment home. I kept telling her that it belonged to the owner of the apartment and was not mine to give. But that seemed to be over her head and she kept persisting, like she wanted it so badly and didn't care that it was wrong to take it. That was strange.
As I feared, she didn't show up the next day. I kept calling her to see if she was coming as promised, but she either wouldn't answer or someone would answer and then hang up the phone, or her mom would answer and say she wasn't home.
Again, a total let down. I couldn't explain it. How can someone look so into me and then suddenly disappear?
There was even this time I met this young really cute girl in the Moscow metro. When she saw me, she looked hypnotized in a trance as though she was marveling at me in awe. So we exchanged numbers and she said she would contact me later to arrange a meeting tomorrow. Later that evening, while I was out with another girl, she SMSed me about 10 or 15 times to say she wanted to meet me at 3pm tomorrow at the same metro station and wanted me to confirm it, as though she eagerly wanted to meet me badly. I finally told her ok and confirmed it.
The next day though, she didn't even show up at the appointed time and place. Thinking she was running behind, I waited for her. I kept trying to call her and SMS her but she wouldn't pick up or answer my SMSes. I ended up waiting an hour before giving up, realizing it was futile and I was stood up.
I can't explain that one either.
How can someone eagerly want to see me, show all the signs of it, and then suddenly disappear or stand me up without explanation? Or act really into me, showing all the right signs and body language, but suddenly do a 180?!
WTF?!
Surely I was jinxed in Russia with the worst luck. Even when I found a "soulmate" or the perfect person, it would all bomb in an instant with no explanation. What that told me was that it was hopeless for me in Russia. No matter how I did, even if I met someone very compatible with me, it would still bomb, or she would suddenly change her mind, etc. It happened too many times.
Obviously it wasn't meant to be.
Eduardo, if you were in my shoes and the above incidents happened to you over and over again, wouldn't you feel that it was hopeless too? Honestly.
But again, these were my experiences. I can't speak for everyone.
Thus, even if your matchmaking system, Eduardo, was very effective and better than the rest and worked for a lot of people, I'm afraid that against the huge jinx I had in Russia, it might be ineffective in my case.
Furthermore, at the beginning of my 3rd trip in Russia, there were many signs and omens that I wasn't meant to be there. People would tell me that I ought to be wife seeking in China among my own race, or that I wasn't cut out to be in Russia because I was too soft and nice and not equipped to deal with the tough gangster ways in that country. Or imply such things indirectly.
Even old babushkas would suddenly explode at me for trivial things such as standing in front of a restroom too long trying to figure out which one was the male restroom. It was like these old babushkas saw me as an easy target and scapegoat to let out their tempers. I seemed to have a "victim vibe" that told them to use me as a target. I looked too nice and they didn't like my race, which contributed to this as well.
Simply put, I felt like they just didn't like who I was, and there was nothing I could do about it.
Like I tell people, Russia is never boring. You can have great luck and something good will happen, or bad luck, at any time. It's like a drama. You never know what comes next. It's rarely ever peaceful and noneventful. Always dynamic and changing.
I will say though that during my 2002 and 2003 trips, I did feel a positive vibe there that supported me, energized me and made me feel alive. But by 2004, the vibe had changed, and I felt a more hostile vibe against me.
Well I wasn't referring to online scammers, but in person scammers that you meet or date in Russia.
By scammers, I don't just mean swindlers. I am also talking about users or greedy people in general who want to take something from you but give you nothing in return. There are a variety of such types, from the subtle to the semi user to the pro.
I wouldn't say most Russian girls I met were like that though, but I've met many of them here and there. But like I said earlier, it's the bad ones we remember most. That's human nature.
You gotta remember that most of the girls I met were cold pickups in public places. As you know, Russian women are open and direct and usually comfortable talking to strangers (or at least me since I do not look intimidating or bad), so they are easy to meet and chat up.
Eduardo, do you consider meeting girls in public the way I did to be a good approach for Western men? Why or why not?
Some examples of scammers and users - girls who go out with you and then put on pressure to you to buy them expensive gifts, or put you in situations to try to force you to pay for non-date related expenses, or hit you up for cash loans without offering any collateral. They even do this with guys they aren't even interested in, that's what pisses me off the most.
More than a few times I’ve had requests from girls to buy them new cell phones, even from ones that weren’t really interested in me. Would you consider those to be scammers or merely users?
There are also some who just like getting fancy dinners from me each time, but are obviously not interested in me personally.
Then there are dangerous scammers who spike your drink then go to your place while you’re drugged and rob all your valuables. I personally witnessed this happen in my hostel room with a girl another guy brought back from a club. But she used misdirection to hide what she was doing, so that even I didn’t suspect anything peculiar until after she left. I detailed this in my report here: http://www.happierabroad.com/2_Professi ... beries.htm
I've had strange ones too. This girl from a tour office in Moscow named Anna went to a Japanese restaurant with me, then she proceeded to order a ton of stuff, costing me $50 on the bill. After that, she merely waved me goodbye quickly and coldly and left.
Later, she texted me nasty messages to try to intimidate me. It turned out she was a racist and called me nasty names like "chink", "mongoloid" and some words that were much worse. She thought I was disgusting and would never sleep with me. She merely went out with me to see what I was made of, and didn't mind making me spend $50 for nothing. We ended up in a nasty online flame war.
She also told me that I had no chance with Russian women because even though I'm not ugly, I'm an "asexual male" that cannot incite sexual desire in Russian women, which was a total blow to my ego. In other words, I do not look masculine enough to get any Russian woman to take me seriously. (incidentally, an expat's Russian wife in Crimea, Ukraine said something similar on my first trip to Russia)
But in a sense she was right, because almost all the girls I went out with never wanted to go to my place afterward or sleep with me that night, even if I went out with them multiple times. So even though I had a lot of fun meeting girls, going out with them, kissing them even, I hardly ever got any sex, which was frustrating as hell.
When I vented out this complaint on the internet, some of them told me that they did not have this problem, that almost all the Russian women they dated usually went home with them afterward. They said that Russian women who live with their parents do not really have a curfew, because they can just call their mom and tell them "sho narmani" (everything is ok) and their parents will let them sleep over with a guy. So if they were telling me they had a curfew or their mom was waiting for them, they were just turning me down. The guys on forums like expat.ru and others told me that all the foreigners they know here get laid easily without any problems, and that the problem must be me or that I give off some vibe that repels Russian women.
However, other foreigners I talked to in Russia reported the same experiences as me, that girls were making excuses to go home after every date. In person, I saw that other foreigners, even white foreigners, who were dating around, did about the same as me or a little better. But they were not getting normal girls to go home with them after every date. So I'm not sure if the guys on expat.ru and other sites were exaggerating or not.
Whatever the case, one of the reaons I didn't want to return to Russia a fourth time was because I didn't want to go through another 500 frustrating dates where I pay for lots of dinners and end up with no sex, especially when I have to put up with a miserable soul sucking Russian winter, harassment from Russian militsia stopping me all the time to check my passport, food I didn't like, and increasing danger from skinheads and racists, as well spending a ton of money on travel expenses again.
In Moscow, I even have gotten rejected from renting several apartments just because they only wanted white people to rent them. Sometimes when I showed up to see the room for rent advertised, they immediately told me that it was full, which I knew was a lie because when I emailed them from another email address, they said it was still available.
(Do you see now why I recommend other Asians to go to Eastern Russia instead?)
Out of hundreds of girls i met and went out with, only one or two were serious about me, this Alina in Yoshkar Ola (whom I met on a bus) whom I lived with for a while but wasn't really attracted to, plus she didn't like sex that much nor would she ever step outside of her city and routine. There was also this Olga in Volgograd but I wasn't that attracted to her and she didn't even care that I stopped writing. Just before I left, I met a nice sweet blonde named Marina that seemed really into me, but I met her just days before I was about to leave, unfortunately.
Bottom line is that the women I wanted didn't want me, even though I was able to meet and chat up hundreds of them.
Thus the expenses, time and effort I was incurring on repeated visits to Russia just weren't worth it anymore.
I'm sure you would have felt the same in my shoes.
But I had a great cultural experience in Russia and loved the magnificent museums, culture, music, openness of people, etc. Those things kept me going and I'll never forget them.
That's why I went to the Philippines the following year instead, because I knew that there, I would not have any sexual frustration or experience any racism, which turned out to be true. But there is nowhere near the cultural stimulation there that Russia offers, and that's the downside.
In addition to all this, I seem to be jinxed in Russia as I had some of the worst luck you can imagine that defied explanation. Let me give you a few examples, and you try to explain them if you can.
While I was teaching English in Moscow, I was invited to this banya with intelligentsia class Russians. There I met this nice girl named Olya. She was average looking but had this charming sweet personality that was out of this world and touched me in a special way that I am rarely touched. I was really into her. There was something special about her, and we also had a lot of interests in common.
When I took her out to dinner later, we held hands and gazed into each other's eyes for hours, barely even touching our food. Rarely do I have that kind of chemistry with someone, but when I do, it's very special cause it makes me feel alive. There seemed to be a strong attraction and energy between us, and it seemed mutual. It's the kind where you can be with someone for hours and not notice the time pass. We even kept nibbling each other's ears in form of "foreplay". I was sure that there was something between us and something special was going to develop. I was so excited.
The next day though, she called to cancel our date, saying that work had called her that night. I was very disappointed. The day after that, she didn't contact me to say she was free, like I had hoped. It was like she didn't place any importance on our time together, which was a real downer, since I thought she was just as much into me as I her. Frustrated that I was losing the momentum built up from our first date and the high it put me on, I SMSed her the next day and demanded to know why she wasn't bothering to make any time for us, even an hour or two. She suddenly replied that she felt that I was like a "brother" to her only.
WTF?! I was pissed and angrily told her that she was crazy because we definitely didn't have a brother/sister type of chemistry. But it was no use. I was shocked in disbelief and denial. I only saw her one more time when she took me spelunking with some cave enthusiasts. I had a great time exploring caves near Moscow and camping there too with some Russian hippies (the same type that go to Rainbow Gatherings). I even got to cuddle her that night while we were sleeping on rock floors, which was nice. But no love between us.
So, even when I meet someone special who seems to be "the one" and I have soulmate chemistry with her, it all bombs in an instant. Here's another example.
There was this brunette in Yoshkar Ola named Elena that I dated a few times. She seemed into me and we kissed a lot and made out intensely. She came to my apartment once but wouldn't go all the way or go near the bed. We just made out on the couch. One day she suddenly stopped seeing me or answering my calls with no explanation. I was stunned again.
The following year when I was in Yoshkar Ola again, I contacted her just to see what would happen. She offered no explanation for last year but wanted to see me again and start dating with me again. So when I arrived in YO, she came to my apartment. When she got out of the taxi, she ran to me with excitement and longing in her eyes, as though she had wanted badly to see me again.
When we went up to my place, we grabbed each other and started making out on my bed. Suddenly she stopped and said that she had to go home to take care of her grandma who was waiting for her, but that she would come over again tomorrow and we would have sex.
I was disappointed and didn't want to pay her taxi home but she pressured me into it.
Before she left, she kept asking me if she could take a teddy bear she saw in my apartment home. I kept telling her that it belonged to the owner of the apartment and was not mine to give. But that seemed to be over her head and she kept persisting, like she wanted it so badly and didn't care that it was wrong to take it. That was strange.
As I feared, she didn't show up the next day. I kept calling her to see if she was coming as promised, but she either wouldn't answer or someone would answer and then hang up the phone, or her mom would answer and say she wasn't home.
Again, a total let down. I couldn't explain it. How can someone look so into me and then suddenly disappear?
There was even this time I met this young really cute girl in the Moscow metro. When she saw me, she looked hypnotized in a trance as though she was marveling at me in awe. So we exchanged numbers and she said she would contact me later to arrange a meeting tomorrow. Later that evening, while I was out with another girl, she SMSed me about 10 or 15 times to say she wanted to meet me at 3pm tomorrow at the same metro station and wanted me to confirm it, as though she eagerly wanted to meet me badly. I finally told her ok and confirmed it.
The next day though, she didn't even show up at the appointed time and place. Thinking she was running behind, I waited for her. I kept trying to call her and SMS her but she wouldn't pick up or answer my SMSes. I ended up waiting an hour before giving up, realizing it was futile and I was stood up.
I can't explain that one either.
How can someone eagerly want to see me, show all the signs of it, and then suddenly disappear or stand me up without explanation? Or act really into me, showing all the right signs and body language, but suddenly do a 180?!
WTF?!
Surely I was jinxed in Russia with the worst luck. Even when I found a "soulmate" or the perfect person, it would all bomb in an instant with no explanation. What that told me was that it was hopeless for me in Russia. No matter how I did, even if I met someone very compatible with me, it would still bomb, or she would suddenly change her mind, etc. It happened too many times.
Obviously it wasn't meant to be.
Eduardo, if you were in my shoes and the above incidents happened to you over and over again, wouldn't you feel that it was hopeless too? Honestly.
But again, these were my experiences. I can't speak for everyone.
Thus, even if your matchmaking system, Eduardo, was very effective and better than the rest and worked for a lot of people, I'm afraid that against the huge jinx I had in Russia, it might be ineffective in my case.
Furthermore, at the beginning of my 3rd trip in Russia, there were many signs and omens that I wasn't meant to be there. People would tell me that I ought to be wife seeking in China among my own race, or that I wasn't cut out to be in Russia because I was too soft and nice and not equipped to deal with the tough gangster ways in that country. Or imply such things indirectly.
Even old babushkas would suddenly explode at me for trivial things such as standing in front of a restroom too long trying to figure out which one was the male restroom. It was like these old babushkas saw me as an easy target and scapegoat to let out their tempers. I seemed to have a "victim vibe" that told them to use me as a target. I looked too nice and they didn't like my race, which contributed to this as well.
Simply put, I felt like they just didn't like who I was, and there was nothing I could do about it.
Like I tell people, Russia is never boring. You can have great luck and something good will happen, or bad luck, at any time. It's like a drama. You never know what comes next. It's rarely ever peaceful and noneventful. Always dynamic and changing.
I will say though that during my 2002 and 2003 trips, I did feel a positive vibe there that supported me, energized me and made me feel alive. But by 2004, the vibe had changed, and I felt a more hostile vibe against me.
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Eduardo, one more thing. When I was in Kazan and met a girl I corresponded with from Cheboksary named Natasha, she turned out to be very quiet, introverted, almost ghost like. And prickly thin, almost like a skeleton. I didn't know what to say to her since she had no expression on her face for me to gauge off what to say or do next. Very strange. But she was a person of very good character, which was evident in her letters and perfectly symmetrical writing.
Before we parted, (since we had no chemistry) we went to an internet cafe together to use an online translator at http://translation2.paralink.com/ because she had something to say to me. Using the web translator, she said that I was not strong, dominating and did not make her feel secure. And that my good qualities and kind soul were not enough for a foundation to build a family with. She also said I was too "modest" and not courageous (yeah right, like any wimp can travel around Russia alone). I guess I just wasn't giving off the masculine vibes that she was attracted to. I have heard that most Russian women like macho dominating big men. I am not like that and can never be like that. (But in the Philippines, the girls do not like macho dominating big types, so I am much more their type, that's why I do much better there).
A year before that, an expat's wife in Crimea also said that I had no chance with Russian women because I was too small and too child like in appearance for them to take seriously, even though she thought I was a good person.
So you see, I basically had no chance in Russia since I'm not the type that they wanted. I did not f*** up anything.
Anyhow, here is what Natasha of Cheboksary wrote that was translated by the web translator:
"Uinston, I think you will not be offended on me, if
Something to not like you that I shall write to you.
Having communicated with you, I have understood why you can not
To meet the woman. As abroad and in Russia,
To women like courageous, resolute, not
Modest men. In Russia too it is a lot of women, which
Choose partners in a condition in a society that is them
Life consists in money. If you want to have
The woman from Russia you need to change itself.
In Russia pay attention to the external data, a manner
Behaviour and many trifles. If you are surprised with mine
Indecision I usually am not such.
In you there is what is not present in many people, kind soul,
But in you there is no that is necessary for family that
To feel protected. The man - it force,
Fortress. I want you to ask. As you concern to me.
I seem to me do not approach(suit) you. It seems to me at you others
Inquiries.
That you now have decided. What sense to continue and
To make trip to Cheboksary if javam I do not approach(suit).
It would be desirable that the decision yours was with all the heart, instead of
Because to you it is lonely.
If at you any problems and if I can to you
To help, ask. Only please not
Be over-modest, be natural. "
Here is the cryllic version, if you can make it show somehow:
"ÓèÃñòî? ÿ äóìà ?òû ÃÃ¥ áóäåøü îáèæåà Ãà ìå? , åñëè ÷ò?òî òåáå ÃÃ¥ ïîÃðà âèòüñÿ ÷ò?ÿ òåáå Ãà ïèøó. Ã�îîáùà âøèñ??òîáî? ÿ ïî?ëà ïî÷åìó òû ÃÃ¥ ìîæåøü âñòðåòèò?æåÃùèÃ? Êà ?çà ãðà Ãèöåé òà ???Ã�îññèè, æåÃùèÃà ì Ãðà âÿòñÿ ìóæåñòâåÃÃûå, ðåøèòåëüÃû? ÃÃ¥ ñêðîìÃûå ìóæ÷èÃ? ?Ã�îññèè òîæå ìÃîã?æåÃùèÃ, êîòîðû?âûáèðà þò ïà ðòÃåðî?ïî ñîñò?Ãè??îáùåñòâå òî-åñòü èõ æèçÃ?çà êëþ÷à åòñÿ ?äåÃüãà ? Åñëè âû õîòèòå èìåò?æåÃùèÃ?èç Ã�îññèè, òî âà ?ÃóæÃ?èçìåÃèòü ñå?. ?Ã�îññèè îáðà ùà þò âÃèìà Ãèå Ãà âÃåøÃè?äà ÃÃûå, ìà Ãåðó ïîâåäåÃèÿ ?ìÃîãèå ìåëî÷è. Åñëè âà ?óäèâ?åò ìîÿ ÃåðåøèòåëüÃîñò? òî ÿ îáû÷Ãî ÃÃ¥ áûâà ?òà êî? ?âà ?åñòü òî , ÷åãî ÃÃ¥?âî ìÃîãèõ ëþ?? äîáðîé äóøè, Ãî ?âà ?ÃÃ¥?òîãî, ÷ò?ÃóæÃ?äëÿ ñåìü? ÷òîá?ïî÷óâñòâîâà ò?ñå? çà ùèùåÃÃîé. 헾֏Ã?ýò?ñèëà , êðåïîñòü. Õî÷ó âà ?ñïðîñèòü. Êà ?âû îòÃîñèòåñü êî ìÃ? ÃŒÃ?êà æåòñÿ ÿ ÃÃ¥ ïîäõîæ?âà ? ÃŒÃ?êà æåòñÿ ?âà ?äðóãèå çà ïðîñ? ×ò?âû òåïåðü ðåøèëè. Êà êî?ñìûñ?ïðîäîëæà òü ?ñîâåðøà ò?ïîåçäê??×åáîêñà ð? åñëè ÿâà ?ÃÃ¥ ïîäõîæ? Õîòåëîñü áû ÷òîá?ðåøåÃè?âà øå áûëî îò äóøè, ?ÃÃ¥ ïîòîìó ÷ò?âà ?îäèÃîê? Åñëè ?âà ?êà êè?òî ïðîáëåìû ?åñëè ÿ ñìîã?âà ?ïîìî÷ü, òî ñïðà øèâà éò? Òîëüêî ïîæà ëóéñòà ÃÃ¥ ñêðîìÃè÷à éòå, áóäüòå åñòåñòâåÃÃûì."
Before we parted, (since we had no chemistry) we went to an internet cafe together to use an online translator at http://translation2.paralink.com/ because she had something to say to me. Using the web translator, she said that I was not strong, dominating and did not make her feel secure. And that my good qualities and kind soul were not enough for a foundation to build a family with. She also said I was too "modest" and not courageous (yeah right, like any wimp can travel around Russia alone). I guess I just wasn't giving off the masculine vibes that she was attracted to. I have heard that most Russian women like macho dominating big men. I am not like that and can never be like that. (But in the Philippines, the girls do not like macho dominating big types, so I am much more their type, that's why I do much better there).
A year before that, an expat's wife in Crimea also said that I had no chance with Russian women because I was too small and too child like in appearance for them to take seriously, even though she thought I was a good person.
So you see, I basically had no chance in Russia since I'm not the type that they wanted. I did not f*** up anything.
Anyhow, here is what Natasha of Cheboksary wrote that was translated by the web translator:
"Uinston, I think you will not be offended on me, if
Something to not like you that I shall write to you.
Having communicated with you, I have understood why you can not
To meet the woman. As abroad and in Russia,
To women like courageous, resolute, not
Modest men. In Russia too it is a lot of women, which
Choose partners in a condition in a society that is them
Life consists in money. If you want to have
The woman from Russia you need to change itself.
In Russia pay attention to the external data, a manner
Behaviour and many trifles. If you are surprised with mine
Indecision I usually am not such.
In you there is what is not present in many people, kind soul,
But in you there is no that is necessary for family that
To feel protected. The man - it force,
Fortress. I want you to ask. As you concern to me.
I seem to me do not approach(suit) you. It seems to me at you others
Inquiries.
That you now have decided. What sense to continue and
To make trip to Cheboksary if javam I do not approach(suit).
It would be desirable that the decision yours was with all the heart, instead of
Because to you it is lonely.
If at you any problems and if I can to you
To help, ask. Only please not
Be over-modest, be natural. "
Here is the cryllic version, if you can make it show somehow:
"ÓèÃñòî? ÿ äóìà ?òû ÃÃ¥ áóäåøü îáèæåà Ãà ìå? , åñëè ÷ò?òî òåáå ÃÃ¥ ïîÃðà âèòüñÿ ÷ò?ÿ òåáå Ãà ïèøó. Ã�îîáùà âøèñ??òîáî? ÿ ïî?ëà ïî÷åìó òû ÃÃ¥ ìîæåøü âñòðåòèò?æåÃùèÃ? Êà ?çà ãðà Ãèöåé òà ???Ã�îññèè, æåÃùèÃà ì Ãðà âÿòñÿ ìóæåñòâåÃÃûå, ðåøèòåëüÃû? ÃÃ¥ ñêðîìÃûå ìóæ÷èÃ? ?Ã�îññèè òîæå ìÃîã?æåÃùèÃ, êîòîðû?âûáèðà þò ïà ðòÃåðî?ïî ñîñò?Ãè??îáùåñòâå òî-åñòü èõ æèçÃ?çà êëþ÷à åòñÿ ?äåÃüãà ? Åñëè âû õîòèòå èìåò?æåÃùèÃ?èç Ã�îññèè, òî âà ?ÃóæÃ?èçìåÃèòü ñå?. ?Ã�îññèè îáðà ùà þò âÃèìà Ãèå Ãà âÃåøÃè?äà ÃÃûå, ìà Ãåðó ïîâåäåÃèÿ ?ìÃîãèå ìåëî÷è. Åñëè âà ?óäèâ?åò ìîÿ ÃåðåøèòåëüÃîñò? òî ÿ îáû÷Ãî ÃÃ¥ áûâà ?òà êî? ?âà ?åñòü òî , ÷åãî ÃÃ¥?âî ìÃîãèõ ëþ?? äîáðîé äóøè, Ãî ?âà ?ÃÃ¥?òîãî, ÷ò?ÃóæÃ?äëÿ ñåìü? ÷òîá?ïî÷óâñòâîâà ò?ñå? çà ùèùåÃÃîé. 헾֏Ã?ýò?ñèëà , êðåïîñòü. Õî÷ó âà ?ñïðîñèòü. Êà ?âû îòÃîñèòåñü êî ìÃ? ÃŒÃ?êà æåòñÿ ÿ ÃÃ¥ ïîäõîæ?âà ? ÃŒÃ?êà æåòñÿ ?âà ?äðóãèå çà ïðîñ? ×ò?âû òåïåðü ðåøèëè. Êà êî?ñìûñ?ïðîäîëæà òü ?ñîâåðøà ò?ïîåçäê??×åáîêñà ð? åñëè ÿâà ?ÃÃ¥ ïîäõîæ? Õîòåëîñü áû ÷òîá?ðåøåÃè?âà øå áûëî îò äóøè, ?ÃÃ¥ ïîòîìó ÷ò?âà ?îäèÃîê? Åñëè ?âà ?êà êè?òî ïðîáëåìû ?åñëè ÿ ñìîã?âà ?ïîìî÷ü, òî ñïðà øèâà éò? Òîëüêî ïîæà ëóéñòà ÃÃ¥ ñêðîìÃè÷à éòå, áóäüòå åñòåñòâåÃÃûì."
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W: Mostly true. But Filipinas and Russian women are not the same. They have differences. Russian women are taller and more educated in general, and have higher fashion sense. But many men, including white men I know, who have slept with both Russian and Filipina women claim that Filipinas have a more warm, sensual, tender touch that is more fulfilling and satisfying. Plus, Russian women tend to be a lot pickier about who they sleep with (I can attest to that even), whereas Filipinas are more eager and willing. So a horny desperate guy will score more with Filipinas and not be as frustrated.Eduard wrote:Well, Mr.S's post clears the myth that Phillipina women are somehow "better" than Russian. One thing he said is for sure, if you just meet women at bars and discos you are going to meet the same "type" pretty much in any country. Good Russian women are very family oriented and loyal to their husband. They are very smart, worldly, well read, many have 2 college degrees and they are usually very intellectual. You just really need to know what you are doing in order to avoid scam, gold diggers and insincere women. But if you do know, then you pretty much have an unlimited choice of beautiful sincere women to choose from. A lifetime wouldn't be enough to go through all of them.
Plus, they like different types of men. Russian women tend to like macho, dominating, masculine men with size and commanding presence. Filipinas like tender sweet romantic types. I definitely fit the latter, hence there is far more natural chemistry and attraction between me and the average Filipina. And personality chemistry as well. I am also a sentimental hopeless romantic type of person, like them, so I vibe with them on a more natural level as well.
These are deeper factors that go beyond money and power.
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W: What I said was that friendly and open chicks in the US who are eager to go out with a guy are usually fat and unattractive. The intellectual type of chicks tend to be skinny bookworm prudish types or not very feminine looking. Even if they are attractive, they aren't usually into dating or have super high standards.gmm567 wrote:Finding an intellectual chick here in the States is not easy either. If they read books, they are usually fat and unattractive, as Winston has astutely observed.
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W: Not only that, but in most Chinese countries outside of mainland China, the women are totally NOT comfortable talking to strangers and behave like if they do, they will be put in front of a firing squad. They seem very religious about following this social law for some reason. This means that your chances of meeting girls are very limited. You can't just chat them up in public like in most countries of the world, or else you will be seen as some rude asshole and get creeped out looks. I hate that.Mr S wrote:I generally don't find NE Asian woman attractive, which includes Chinese, Koreans and Japanese. They usually have no curves, no tits, ass, nothing. And then when you marry them they cut all their hair off and look like grandma and don't put out anymore, only giving everything to their kids. That's why the guys from those countries have mistresses on the side or side wives in other countries like the Philippines.
Plus Chinese woman I heard are super materialistic and all they care about is pushing their husband to make more money, into an early grave. f**k that, I'll be the decision maker, not some annoying bitch who wants me to die young so she can inherit all the money.
All my relatives here in Taiwan even told me that in their country, people (especially women) do not talk to strangers. It's just not proper or normal. (I do not see other people talking to strangers in Taiwan too, except for elderly folks walking around in the park) In fact, they think that in America, people are very open and talk to strangers!!!!!!!!!!
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BTW, it was after a very sexually satisfying experience with a Russian girl who looked like a Filipina that I became inspired to go to the Philippines. Here is the one I'm talking about.WWu777 wrote:W: Mostly true. But Filipinas and Russian women are not the same. They have differences. Russian women are taller and more educated in general, and have higher fashion sense. But many men, including white men I know, who have slept with both Russian and Filipina women claim that Filipinas have a more warm, sensual, tender touch that is more fulfilling and satisfying. Plus, Russian women tend to be a lot pickier about who they sleep with (I can attest to that even), whereas Filipinas are more eager and willing. So a horny desperate guy will score more with Filipinas and not be as frustrated.Eduard wrote:Well, Mr.S's post clears the myth that Phillipina women are somehow "better" than Russian. One thing he said is for sure, if you just meet women at bars and discos you are going to meet the same "type" pretty much in any country. Good Russian women are very family oriented and loyal to their husband. They are very smart, worldly, well read, many have 2 college degrees and they are usually very intellectual. You just really need to know what you are doing in order to avoid scam, gold diggers and insincere women. But if you do know, then you pretty much have an unlimited choice of beautiful sincere women to choose from. A lifetime wouldn't be enough to go through all of them.
Plus, they like different types of men. Russian women tend to like macho, dominating, masculine men with size and commanding presence. Filipinas like tender sweet romantic types. I definitely fit the latter, hence there is far more natural chemistry and attraction between me and the average Filipina. And personality chemistry as well. I am also a sentimental hopeless romantic type of person, like them, so I vibe with them on a more natural level as well.
These are deeper factors that go beyond money and power.
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Winston--nice to hear your full story on your adventures in Russia. And it's great to hear of your comparison between Russia and Philipines. I've been trying to decide whether to go back to germany or to the philipines and your experience and others on this site have led me to a philipino decision. That's where I am going, next.
S-I totally agree with you about chinese, korean, etc women. I am more of a body guy like you .My picture of the oriental woman has always been "no body." I am rarely attracted to them. No hips and no tits. But then I didn't realize there was any distinction to be made between philipino and the other orientals. There are a lot of philipinos babes with sexy bodies.
S-I totally agree with you about chinese, korean, etc women. I am more of a body guy like you .My picture of the oriental woman has always been "no body." I am rarely attracted to them. No hips and no tits. But then I didn't realize there was any distinction to be made between philipino and the other orientals. There are a lot of philipinos babes with sexy bodies.
Hi all,
Check out Eduard's film "Russian Women, The Real Deal" in which he takes clients to Russian on dates and tours. It's very interesting and you see a lot of knockouts in the background.
In part 5, you can watch this awkward date in which the Russian woman acts polite and uninterested. It gives you an idea of how they act when they're not into you. Notice how the blonde below tilts her head slightly away from him - a huge bad sign on a first date.
Check out Eduard's film "Russian Women, The Real Deal" in which he takes clients to Russian on dates and tours. It's very interesting and you see a lot of knockouts in the background.
In part 5, you can watch this awkward date in which the Russian woman acts polite and uninterested. It gives you an idea of how they act when they're not into you. Notice how the blonde below tilts her head slightly away from him - a huge bad sign on a first date.
Check out my FUN video clips in Russia and SE Asia and Female Encounters of the Foreign Kind video series and Full Russia Trip Videos!
Join my Dating Site to meet thousands of legit foreign girls at low cost!
"It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards." - Harry Browne
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"It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards." - Harry Browne
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Well, it doesn't look like anyone has hired Eduard so he's gone back to his 9-5 job in the USA. Of course, men think they know it all and don't need help, so its a waste of time trying to help them - especially when these penny-pinchers have to pay for a guide.
"Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal... If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters." Cato the Elder
I couldn't agree more - Women will use her husband to get revenge on other boyfriends who used her and this dynamic can't be overcome. Nice guys should forget about all foreign brides as these girls know the misandric US family-law system.gmm567 wrote:...the norm with Russian women is that they f**k you over once you bring them here. My family has known at least a dozen of them and they've all married to get into the country. Once they are here, they are here for someone who is rich; they discard you for someone who has money... None of the women who were grautiously brought to the US by decent, though not rich, American men were divorced and stripped of any assets they had. All of these decent men have been f***ed by Russian women...
"Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal... If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters." Cato the Elder
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