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Hi everyone. I'm Dwayne!

Postby mobstersreport » Wed Dec 24, 2008 7:29 am

It's a pleasure to meet you all. A good portion of you probably remember me. Including Winston Wu :)

I'm looking forward to going abroad in 2009 coming up and I do believe in going abroad for any lonely man in America and the U.K. to find their happiness. Foreign women are truly giving American women over here, a definate run for their money.

I'll also make more videos for Winston and Happier Abroad in the very near future and I'm still working on my online businesses as we speak. Once they are completed. I'll be making videos for Winston. I just had some tough times with a former friend that most of you already know about. It's difficult for me. But, I agree that Winston Wu was right that I should not let the situation bother me. But to let it be a situation to where I have become stronger and should ignore the drama.

Thanks for reading my intro and am looking forward to posting more here on Happier Abroad. It's just that I've been so busy lately. I do not have alot of time for post topics untilt these sites I'm working on are completely done, over with and are on automatic for me.

Thanks for reading and I'll post as much as I can in the meantime.

- Dwayne
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Postby mobstersreport » Wed Dec 24, 2008 8:08 am

I also wanted to share my story and insight about who I am and how I came to find Happier Abroad.

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It's a bit of a long story. So, I'll try to keep it as short as possible.

I was apart of a former movement online. My former friend and myself came upon this website of HappierAbroad.com many months ago. Here in the year 2008 of summertime I believe of 08. Mostly my friend and myself thought that Winston Wu and this website was a scam or schill. But the only difference was at the time. I had a intellect for reading, while my former friend had a very hard time with words and reading.

Months later after alot of research and thought into what Winston Wu had explained here in the States when it came tot eh "Dating Scene" and how jaded women are here in America. As well as his 20 years of loneliness story. I took more time to think about this website. I also had some thought and dreams to going abroad to find my own happiness.

I'm now 32 years of age. I'm mulatto or ( black/caucasian ) mixed decent. I've only had ONE real girlfriend in my life and lost my virginity in 2007. It's not that I did not want a girlfriend. It's because I've come to learn on my own from experiences, that women in this country are completely delusional, jaded, and mostly do not know what they want out of a real relationship.

I feel very uncomfortable around a group of ladies here in the states. Due to the fact that most ladies here in the states are "stuck up". Delusional about the type of guys they fantasize off of their daily television shows of "Soap Operas" and consumerism type reality shows for "brainwashing" and "bitchy" attitudes.

Now in learning this all on my own. I started to browse online of ladies abroad in foreign lands. But to recent circumstances and situations. I believe it's just best for me to just go abroad and meet a foreign lady for meet-to-meet relaitonship and see where it goes.

I'm sick of the dating scene here in the states and I've personally had enough of American women and close friends do not even understand what I'm going through. Most friends tell me to "Stay home" or "Don't go abroad" or "Don't give up on American women, there's a girlfriend here for you". But if this was the case. Why the hell am I still so damn depressed, lonely, confident to approach ladies with no problem. But still get "rejected" when after communicating with a lady for awhile. Only to get the cold shoulder or "I'm to good for you" type of attitude from females here?

Even women that are physically un attractive can get a date here no problem.

I do have an overweight problem that I am doing well on in my diet and excercise routines and I'm loosing weight slowly. But why is it that I see obest and full-figured women in this country STILL have a date and have no problem in getting a guy into a relationship?

I'm tired of having to WAIT around to be "CHOSEN" by a female. When I can simply go abroad and find my happiness and feel a helluva lot better and comfortable in approaching ladies overseas. I cannot be comfortable here in asking a lady out. Because a guy like myself that has asked "Countless" of ladies either online or offline for a date here locally or in other states. I'm never good enough to date. I've heard all the excuses to my weight, color of my skin, my being at home with family, to my education, to my disability or combinations of everything to not having a girlfriend.

I believe most of you reading this post can get the picture of where I'm going, Yes? good...

Because I'm not getting ANY younger and I'm tired of spending the Holidays alone with nothing to do or no place to go. I'm by no means "House ridden or House attatched". It's just that mostly. I'm tired of having nothing to do or nobody to go out and share good times with. I believe Winston Wu knows EXACTLY how I feel personally. He's been there and done that.

I'm to the point emotionally, that I've had enough of the dating scene here in American and I'm going abroad to find my happiness. I cannot FIND happiness here in the dating scene by any means.

Cheers to you Winston on making this website for lonely men everywhere that also has dreams and aspirations of going abroad to find their happiness. Like ( yours truly )...

Most people do not understand Winston and I know Winston has enemies that do not want him to succeed in what he's doing.

I'm sick of these people that pick on him all the time online or anybody else ( like myself ) that wishes to help him in his cause to help lonely guys find happiness.

It's perverted and sick that people treat him bad. Just because he wants to help lonely guys in going abroad to find that happiness. He's done more than most P.U.A. leaders out there do. I've bought into the P.U.A. crowd myself and nothing worked for me still.

Even friends tell me that.. "I should loose the weight and women will come FLOCKING to me." well why is it that Winston has shown me actual quotes from guys in America that work out 24/7, have a nice car, have a nice home. And women will still treat such guys like 3rd class rate or a wheel to not date or be with?

Well, I do believe that women do have something to worry about. Because a person like myself in my own mindset and many other lonely guys in this country are NOW starting to LOOK ABROAD for REAL relationships. Instead of the emotional games, excuses, drama and forcement of loneliness out of the dating scene.

People can tell me whatever they want. But in the end. I'm going abroad to find my own happiness to have more choices in the dating scene. To meet new people. See new sites. And to find a lady that seeks a REAL relationship, without the games.

Yes, I've even had a Long-distant relationship with my ex that lives abroad. Due to circumstances. She parted ways with me to move on with her life. I'm more attracted to women abroad, than I am here at home.

I'm sick of family, friends and people that try to give excuses, ideas or anything to keep me emotionally depressed, down and without finding my own happiness. All I hear is drama and B.S. about not going abroad.

"Oh, it's a dangerous and cruel world out there!" type propaganda and mind control to keep me here in chains and unhappy. Any little excuse.

Anyways. I cannot wait to go abroad and I'm working hard online to achieve MY OWN financial independency to go abroad. If people think I love staying at home and living off of disability every month is fun to me. They have another thing coming. I'm not loving it and I pay my way like everyone else and I still have my problems. But I'm not going to let that destroy my life in not finding the happiness that I want and seek.

I do understand that it takes "ACTION" instead of "TALK" for people to understand me. So, I guess I'll do just that. As I am working hard in my online businesses as we speak, in order to go abroad. I maybe on disability. But that does not make me weak to not have my own dreams of becoming my own boss and working hard to achieve financial independency to go where I want and when I please in this world.

I've faced the facts for myself a long time ago. That I either go abroad. Or continue to be here in the states, unhappy, dateless loser, waiting to be chose by a female, and into a grave early ( if the stress doesn't kill me first ) from unhappiness, depression and loneliness. :roll:

Thank you all for reading my intro story and the low-down about myself in details, emotions and feelings.

Peace,
Dwayne
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Postby Winston » Wed Dec 24, 2008 8:32 pm

Welcome back Dwayne! And Merry Christmas too!

Remember to be strong, never give up hope, and remember that where there's a will there's a way!

Remember I was forced to endure 20 years of loneliness, datelessness, and boredom in America, AGAINST my will! It felt like an excruciating eternity.

Anyhow I hope your participation in this forum helps you and acts as a therapeutic outlet for you to vent on.

Love and Happy Holidays,
Winston
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Postby mobstersreport » Thu Dec 25, 2008 8:49 am

Hey Winston, 8)

No problem bro' and you are "spot on" in all of your wisdom and experiences my friend. And I've learned to become quite strong from yours and others advice on here. As you and everyone else saw. It's been really hectic. But I will continue to do HappierAbroad re-do-overs and more later on when my sites are up and completed. =)

Happy Holidays to you, Dianne, other expats and others here on HappierAbroad :wink:
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Postby Winston » Thu Dec 25, 2008 9:12 am

Thanks Dwayne. I can't wait to see the new videos you'll come out with!

BTW, people don't bash me cause I'm trying to help lonely men. They do so because they are bullies and I'm an easy target to them, and since I'm short and Asian, they feel that they ought to be superior to me and have a right to pick on me. It's no different from my grammar school bullies. Plus they cannot accept an Asian man being so outspoken and more confident than they are. Some of them are just haters and hate everyone too, not just me.

As I've always said, I've never met a happy healthy person who has a lot of friends and it very outgoing and who hates me.
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Postby mobstersreport » Thu Dec 25, 2008 9:50 am

WWu777 wrote:Thanks Dwayne. I can't wait to see the new videos you'll come out with!

BTW, people don't bash me cause I'm trying to help lonely men. They do so because they are bullies and I'm an easy target to them, and since I'm short and Asian, they feel that they ought to be superior to me and have a right to pick on me. It's no different from my grammar school bullies. Plus they cannot accept an Asian man being so outspoken and more confident than they are. Some of them are just haters and hate everyone too, not just me.

As I've always said, I've never met a happy healthy person who has a lot of friends and it very outgoing and who hates me.


Haha! I agree with you there bro' and you're right. There's haters everywhere and it makes them feel big to do what they do to you. But that's because they TALK more than they DO or TAKE ACTION. So, they choose "you" to vent everything on. It's like the same thing in Internet Marketing from a standpoint.

95% of people look for an online opportunity or homebased business. They cannot follow simple instructions ( for such info out there online that's simple to understand, that is... ) they do not "act or take action upon it". Then they fail 95% of the time. Then they put blame and vent on those that "take action" and impliment the strategies to earn a living online that's working for them. Then jealousy and envy fits into those that fail at it. Then they go and rant about it everywhere online on how it all never works. :roll:

So it's that analogy in mindset in away when you think about it from a view point. It's crazy! Hahaha. But yes, I'll make more videos in the very near future coming up Winston. I believe in ways it was a good scenario. Becasue with your new website updates. I'll have FRESH and PROFESSIONAL aspects to show people in videos of your new website theme layout.

I'll never do that again. It's just that I did not want the drama coming your way all the time and I just wanted the attention away from you and the good people here from my former friends craziness. Because I know how his mindset is. But you we're right my friend. The drama would come my way at that time before the first video was put up. And that's what happened. But next time, I'll just ignore it. It's just that I hate the drama in messages that comes my way, when I'm minding my own businesses to help others and we're forced to look into the drama. But anymore of that my way will be ignored and not responded too.

Cheers to you for the Holidays my friend. =) :D
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Postby Winston » Wed Dec 31, 2008 5:05 am

Dwayne,
Have you seen this melodramatic speech video to you? It's really funny and the guy cusses with style. He's not bashing you, just trying to give you some pep talk.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQENKLzZirw

There's also another one here where they put your head onto the body of Jabba the Hutt. lol. Like how my face was put on Yoda once by the bashers. Have you seen it?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYrmMMyXeeg
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