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Postby Nikar » Wed Jan 28, 2009 6:16 am

Hi all!

I accidentally stumbled upon this via an interracial porn forum. :D

Winston's lengthy articles has offered me tons of insight, and although I sense a big load of anti-American-women-angst coming out from him, I must say that I can relate to a lot of what he went through. At some point in some of his articles, I even thought he was my double. :D

Anyway, I'm not from America; I'm from Singapore.
However, I find that if I replace "America" in all of Winston's articles with "Singapore" instead, it makes total sense as well.

And for those of you white guys out there who seems to have difficulty finding American girlfriends, I encourage you to come visit Singapore. A considerable amount of local chicks here rate white men (regardless of what country you're from) very highly.

If you come here to Singapore, make some effort to woo chicks here and still don't end up like Winston (with 100s of girls swarming you everywhere), then I will kneel down and call you daddy. White guys are the "in" thing now in Asian countries.

While more and more white guys seem to like Asian chicks nowadays (maybe it's cos' white women are too rough), I think I would prefer a white chick any day.

Maybe it's cos' white chicks are like very curious, special novelty to me (the only white lady I talked to in my entire life in this country is my literature teacher 10 years ago). To me:

1 beautiful slim white chick > 200 other races of beautiful girls

Well, maybe the moon is just brighter on the other side of the river! Who knows? :D
That's not to say I don't like Asian chicks though, but among the Asian ones, I prefer those Chinese-types, like Japanese, Koreans and fellow Singaporean chicks.

I never had a gf before (I'm 25 this year) and is worse off than him.

To sum it up, Winston Wu has just become my new inspiration, my new god, my new role model, my hero, my icon.
Seeing so many ****ing pics of him with harems of chicks kissing and hugging him makes me feel like a ****ing poor sap. I need to learn how to be a real man who gets to **** real girls from this guy. I think I seriously lack a good male role model in my childhood years though I had a father.

Btw, Winston, you should give us some tips on how to even become 1/4 as good as you. I would be a really happy man then!

See ye',
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Postby Winston » Wed Jan 28, 2009 10:33 am

Hi Nikar,
Welcome to the forum. Wow your compliments are too much, even for an egotistical person like me :)

So have you lived in Singapore all your life? How are the girls there like American chicks? Even though they may be materialistic and picky from what I heard, I'm sure they aren't hateful and fat.

Are mainstream Singaporean girls into white guys or only a few that have a white fetish?

Why would you bow down and call someone "daddy" if they come to Singapore and aren't able to get a lot of chicks?

Well yes your theory is right, white girls are rougher in general but more specifically, their touch is not as tender and warm and soul satisfying as Asian chicks, at least in the Philippines. I haven't made love to any Chinese, Japanese or Korean girls, so I can't say much about them, but since their basic nature is conservative, prudish and frigid, I can't imagine that their touch, even to their husbands, would be too sensuous.

There was one Asian girl I had in Poland who was incredible, her touch and body was so smooth, sensual, and satisfying. But she wouldn't tell me her nationality so I don't know where she was from.

But then again, this is coming from my needs and my standards. Yours may be different.

Yes white women are a novelty if you've never had any before. I can attest to that. Ten years ago I would have sworn that I would never marry any girl except a hot white girl. Now all that's changed of course.

Tips? The only tips I would give is to find a location, culture and population where your needs are met. Each person and place has different vibes and mix differently. And you should pick a location or environment that brings out the best qualities in you too. I'm naturally outgoing, talkative, flirtatious and love talking to new girls, so it's my passion and comes naturally for me. For shyer people, it might be harder, but even then, with the right environment, things come naturally to you.

Also, sometimes what you want doesn't want you. Like I wanted white chicks, but the ones I really wanted didn't want me. So I had to go a different route, and I'm glad I did. So that means you may not always get what you want or your wants may change. Or you may discover just what you've been missing. You just have to try everything and see what works, and in doing so, sometimes you may be led in other directions. That's how life is. You just have to be proactive at it.

I mean, you could show us your photos and describe your personalities, but we would still be able to only give you conjecture about what's best for you. Ultimately you still gotta go out there and try it. But this forum can offer some guidance though. Ultimately that's what it's about. No one is qualified to tell another what to do with their life (though some think they are), but one can always provide guidance, plant seeds, share wisdom, help you attain insight, etc.

Do you get the gist of what I mean?
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Postby Nikar » Wed Jan 28, 2009 3:06 pm

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Postby Nikar » Wed Jan 28, 2009 3:06 pm

WWu777 wrote:So have you lived in Singapore all your life? How are the girls there like American chicks? Even though they may be materialistic and picky from what I heard, I'm sure they aren't hateful and fat.

Yeah, I've lived in Singapore all my life, born here, bred here.
I don't know much about US chicks to comment, but girls here are indeed very materialistic and highly picky. They may not be hateful or fat, but they seem to emphasize a lot on whether the guy has a car, $$$ and good career. Well, maybe all girls in all countries are like that. I dunno. Also, due to the tiny small population here, the decent and even the average / slightly average ones are all taken.

Dunno why, but everytime I start liking some girl, the next thing I realize is that she already has a bf / husband. This crushes my confidence and dreams every time.
Hell, it's been like this ever since I was in high school.

And I didn't know American girls are so hateful like you say. I must admit, I always worship them as goddesses. I mean, only in the US do you get the hottest blondes, right? :)

Are mainstream Singaporean girls into white guys or only a few that have a white fetish?

Actually, it's hard to answer specifically to the question, but girls (and even guys) here do see white people as being superior. It's a kind of mentality passed down from the colonial ages (in the past, Singapore was a British colony and the white man was king here).

Like if a white man and a local guy both go to a shop to buy stuff, the sales assistant will be considerably more polite and smiles way more to the white guy.

In short, if a white guy and a local guy were to compete for the average local girl, the white guy would win big time.

Why would you bow down and call someone "daddy" if they come to Singapore and aren't able to get a lot of chicks?

That's because if they're white guys, come to Singapore, put in some girl-chasing efforts, they'll definitely get chicks for sure. Just go to any bars or clubs here. You'll see plenty of white guys with local chicks (like the way Winston is with the Filippinas). :D

And I know I won't have to bow down and call them daddy, because that will never happen.
They'll get real good chicks for sure if they come here. :D

I remember in an article in the local newspapers some time back, that more and more white guys prefer asian girls as their own women are less warm, less feminine, rougher and requires more energy.
Whereas to them, asian girls know how to serve them better, take care of them, are more feminine, lower maintenance and more girlish. These white guys feel like a real man, a king, when they're with asian chicks.

It would be good if there was a human race who have the facial features and complexion of white chicks + personality and behavior of asian girls. :D

Well yes your theory is right, white girls are rougher in general but more specifically, their touch is not as tender and warm and soul satisfying as Asian chicks, at least in the Philippines.

But I heard white chicks, especially American ones, are great at sex? Big breasts and fast great action in bed? No? In Singapore, I've noticed, for one thing, that white girls walk very different from local girls.

Local girls walk quite gently, but the white girls here walk very fast and seems to use a lot of strength in their walking. It's like they're carrying some invisible 20-pound haversack on their back on a hike. Other than that, these white chicks here (mostly expat) all have very beautiful faces, though. Like they came out from some FHM magazine. :D

I haven't made love to any Chinese, Japanese or Korean girls, so I can't say much about them, but since their basic nature is conservative, prudish and frigid, I can't imagine that their touch, even to their husbands, would be too sensuous.

True, I have heard of plenty stories where Chinese, Japanese and Korean girls are like dead fishes in bed. Now, that sucks.

Yes white women are a novelty if you've never had any before. I can attest to that. Ten years ago I would have sworn that I would never marry any girl except a hot white girl. Now all that's changed of course.

LOL, same as me! When I was in high school last time, all I ever dreamt about was to have a hot white gf. Now, that's changed, though. But I still think they're so hot, special and so different from asian girls. Like they're some kind of special race and I would be very curious to interact with them.

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Postby Mr S » Wed Jan 28, 2009 3:47 pm

Just take a trip to Philippines or Thailand, there are lots of girls that can be picked up at the bars there as long as you aren't prudish about paying for it. I've heard most available woman in bars in Singapore are just working woman and its pretty hard to get laid by local woman unless you're willing to pay for it. At least in Thailand or Philippines you get local prices for sex compared to inflated prices for the same thing in Singapore. Most of the Filipinos and Thais in bars in Singapore are just over prices whores.

Its not hard to look like a stud muffin in a city such as Angles where almost every girl you meet works in a bar and is a slut for the most part.

Be a man and pay for sex, that way you learn not to be a dweeb around woman and know what you're doing in bed, then find a girl friend later when you actually have some cash and a career.

Paying for sex outright or dating a girl are both methods of getting laid, one just is more straight forward than the other.
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Postby Winston » Wed Jan 28, 2009 4:20 pm

BTW Nikar, if you want to know what it's like to be an Asian male who worships hot girls and grows up in America, see my personal story here:

http://www.happierabroad.com/Loneliness_Story.htm

It'll give you an idea of what I've gone through for two very long decades.

Oh and get ready to be blown away. See these new pics I just posted, and let me know if you don't have an Asian fetish yet. hehehe

http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/vie ... php?t=4703
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