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hey you guys. i am so happy to share my story with everyone. I am 24 yrs old. black (african american). i live her in southern california ( ahem ahem) compton city. yes i said compton. i talk proper. Actually i grew up in the city next to compton most of my life. which was hawthorne.
i found this site through one of winston's videos on youtube. very very powerful videos.
I have to get this off my chest. I like others here am tired of american women. They are ALL paranoid of my motives, they put out all this anger on me, they always say " I have a boyfriend " the minute you talk to them. when i am with them or dating them; their male hate comes out and they scream alot too. every where i go its narcissistic behaviour.
i have been into trouble twice in the military for pursuing women that found me ATTRACTIVE. Winston was correct, they like you but still don't want to meet strangers. i new they liked me so i kept talking to them. next thing i know my boss is taking me into the office and telling they will file sexual harassment charges on me. i am now out of the military. i am very very cautious now. in fact i stopped pursuing them they are just too difficult to meet, when you finely do get with them, they are difficult to be with and put their anger and hate on me.
i am percieved as the nerd type. simply because I wear glasses Huh !?
OH BOY THIS USA IS CRAZY.
with foreign women it is the EXACT OPPOSITE. I have been flirted with by a native french woman on the train ( right next to her husband ). she locked eyes with me for more than two minutes. what american woman does that. when they got up to leave as she was standing next to the door she looked at me again in the eyes and gave a BIG smile. i tell ya THAT was powerful.
It happened to me again by a native italian woman in the bookstore. again she locked eyes with me. so i smiled at her. she smiled right back. but even she was with her italian husband.
a native mexican woman was next to her family in the fry's electronics store. she was in the same isle i was in. she rubbed her arm against mine.
i thought " WHOA" . we never have contact her in the states so this was a suprise. anyways. that same lady...as soon as i turn...she rubs her butt
up against my butt and slides her b***y across mine. i turned and she was smiling at me. mexican women are very very physical flirtatious women.
again i could not do anything because even SHE was next to her husband.
one more: i meet an israeli woman in the mall ( they work at the little carts inside the mall and sell dead sea skin products ) she told me to have a seat so i sit down. I have my legs spread open. she walks right between them and presses her thigh against mine. name one american woman that would do this to a total stranger. oops i forgot i might be a stalker or predator to an american woman.
anyway, after she helped me with the skin cream i told her i new her israeli friends. she told me since i know them. she will go ahead and give me her number. i never asked for it. she just gave it to me. WOW.
being around american women i can not even say " i love you" to them because its creepy to them.
but i can say it to my foreign women facebook friends and they think its really sweet and love it.
american woman are really mentally deranged they are F'd up in the head about men.
I have a female friend that is american and i still have to be careful where my hand is
around her. She does not even want to date anybody for a whole year. GREAT.
BUT ITS GOOD BECAUSE I DO NOT WANT AN AMERICAN WOMAN ANY MORE i am done. i look forward to being in mexico they flirt and are very frinedly to men or total strangers. they have very shapely figures with BIG BUTTS TOO. yum yum.
Welcome ssjparris, we are glad you found our forum. Your right, American women are PARANOID of men for some reason. That is why a lot of dating experts say, the best way to meet women in America is through your friends.
I have also noticed like you have, that women who are NOT anglo-American are the friendliest women in the US. For example, I have noticed Asian women, hispanic and black women to be friendly towards me but white women, they just ignore me. Just try flirting with a young, white American women and see what kind of response you get from her (Winston has tried this many times in America and didn't get anywhere).
A great deal of single women in the US do have boyfriends (at least a lot of the good-looking ones do). Hell, even a lot of the average looking women in America have guys fawning all over them! I have even heard a morbidly obese women at work a few years ago say, she gets asked out ALL the time! She said as soon as she walks into a bar, guys start approaching her and asking her if they can buy her a drink! She also said the never goes more than 6 months without a boyfriend! WTF?
It seems as if the hot women in America are reserved for guys who are investment bankers, doctors, millionaires, etc. These women just won't settle for anything less! This is why foreign women are the best! They aren't as materialistic as American women are!
nice avatar jamesbond from now on i will call you boobie guy. i see this alot in your posts.
but yes i learned that women will use the boyfriend thing just to get away from me. They can not socialize like
foreign women can. foreign women will talk to you in public even if they do have a boyfriend or husband. its
just natural this way. american women just use the boyfriend excuse ( boyfriend or no boyfriend ) just to avoid me.
Welcome to H.A.! Yeah I still flirt with American women because I just wanna f**k-n'-chuck them. But obviously they dont' know that.
So in closing, when they become nonresponsive after I try to flirt with them, without hestitation I leave them for dead figuratively because if you keep messing with them, they'll leave you for dead locked up in jail figuratively (and literally) get it got it good! :O)
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Still having trouble believing it's THIS bad in America. The girls there sound in a pretty different league. I really hope we (the rest of the West) don't catch up too soon.
Not being able to flirt even when someone likes you, no touching, not even an 'I love you?'
Makes me realise why boards like this exist. I think I'd go crazy.
yes i know that women who have not been here can not see it. because there is no reference. so yes bellaruh i know where you are coming from.
i have an italian 19 year old facebook friend. she told me she really wants to come to Los Angeles. i told her she is NOT going to like it
here. she will be bombarded with alot of desperate men who want a woman for different reasons. i understand the guys because the women
in public are just not nice, are anti-social, and don't like men. oh well.
bellaruth, I would love to go to britian i feel like a part of my soul belongs there in the good ol' U.K. it feels like i have been there before.
LOVE THE ACCENT TOO. i am starting to learn it for the fun of it. thanks for the greatings ALL.
Haha. You should come for a holiday, go to London (the nice tourist areas), see some countryside.
But to live here is a different story. America is swallowing us up. A lot of us are becoming Americanised, but it's yet to get to your extreme levels, thank goodness (no one would charge someone with sexual harassment for plain ol' flirting). I hope it won't get to these levels ever, but I can see it happening particularly in city areas as people become more absorbed by the idea of making money and not caring about others.
One thing you may find interesting is that no one would be surprised at you being black and talking 'proper'. I find it strange actually that you felt the need to point this out. We have rough areas, but blacks and whites for the most part mix fairly well (except some militant new immigrants), and it's no big deal to meet an educated black guy. I thought it was the same in America (maybe I watched too much Fresh Prince of Bel Air) but apparently not.
While AUS girls are not (yet) paranoid enough to report you for flirting, they will get disgusted or contemptuous if you admit affection for them in any way and you are not the 'right' guy (you figure out what the 'right' type of guy would be). So I sort of see where you're coming from.
But never mind. I just turned 21 and already want nothing to do with those selfish, elitist, materialistic, shallow, soft bigots (as the vast majority of them are).
I'm from Israel and I can tell you that Israeli women are not such a big catch .
They are not as bad as American women and you can flirt with them, but they are still very difficult to date....
I rarely find a nice good looking woman that don't have social demands like: she wants a guy who makes $$ money, with a nice car or a house. Etc....
heck, Even avrage looking women are acting like divas in here.
So yea you can talk to them and flirt with them- but when it comes to dating them:
yes i heard about israeli women not being able to date them is hard. its just the approachability is awesome and it is okay to flirt with them.
things have dramatically changed for them too. you guys are like grouped together. giving hugs to all your friends romantically. I LOVE THAT ABOUT YOU ISRAELI PEOPLE. i can have breasts and butt on me just for being their friend. haha. but thanks for telling me.
I thought American people also do that so I never saw it as something special, haha
I guess I thought that the TV show 'friends' is how American people are acting....