Favorite Quotes about me from those I've inspired

[Winston]

(Image of the cover page of my story in a Lithuanian magazine)

Quotes about me from readers, fans, and advisors
(Taken from fan mail, forum postings and in person conversations)

“People can be divided into three groups
Those who make things happen
Those who watch things happen
And those who wonder what happened

You are in the first group Winston�

“Despite all the flak you get you are certainly an interesting character and probably the most famous (or infamous) self-made asian on the internet�

“Hey Winston...I see you’re famous. Maybe not quite receiving the positive feedback that you might have been hoping for but nevertheless, you can see how much your stories of your adventures and thoughts have affected others. As I always say, the show must go on.�
(From my guestbook http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm)

“Your tenacity is astounding. All the stuff you went through. Most people would have given up.�

“Winston, even though i don’t agree with all you are doing there, i do support your adventures and would to commend you doing what many guys are far too chickens*** and cowardly to do ..so my hat is off to you and i would like to hear more about your times abroad.�
(From my guestbook http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm)

"I love rebels and free spirits, I really do. And that's why I like Wu so much. There are so many people who turn into depressed potatoes in the USA. They just sit there and get more and more depressed. And if you don't fit in, they just label you a "loser". Wu didn't just sit down and take that. Wu rebelled against that."
(From my forum http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=91)

“To be honest with you Winston, I think almost all of the girls you hit on (and many of them you scored) are all very hot. This makes me wonder how you did it, especially the fact that you're an oriental. I know some guys who have a lot more than you, but they can't do anywhere near what you did (in terms of girls of course).�
(Referring to my Photojournals http://www.happierabroad.com/Photojournals.htm)

“Winston, I am amazed at your ability to attract women that are much more attractive than yourself. I wish I had more of your magic. I consider myself much more attractive than you, but you seem to do better with the ladies. What is your secret?�
(Referring to my Photojournals http://www.happierabroad.com/Photojournals.htm)

“I dont know how you do it, but whatever it might be (wit, charm, outgoing personality, etc.), i think you've got game (by that i mean confidence). Frankly, I think you just have an uncanny outgoing personality.�
(Referring to my Photojournals http://www.happierabroad.com/Photojournals.htm)

“You are a monster asset for meeting women.�
- A farming enthusiast I showed around Angeles City

“Photos prove everything they backup the talk. You walk the talk so to speak and very few of these other men on these Blogging sites can ever claim this not even the agency owners whom many are scamming many men.�
(Referring to my Photojournals http://www.happierabroad.com/Photojournals.htm)

“Wu-man, I got to give it to you. You have surrounded yourself by everymans passion. Hundreds of beautiful women. All thru history men have surrounded themselves and fought over the presence of women. Could there be any better reason to fight over. For what ever reason you have accomplished that feat. You have surrounded yourself by beautiful women……... P.S. I believe that you can prove your point anytime.�
(Referring to my photo collages http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Collage2.htm)

"Most Asians don't think for themselves. They simply follow the pack. You are one of the exceptions."

"You're probably the most atypical Asian male I've ever met."
- An old Scottish traveler I met in Estonia who's been to a hundred countries whom I had deep conversations with

“Winston, you are a White man trapped in an Asian man's body. All the characteristics I associate with Asian men seem to be the opposite of you. You do not do what society tells you to do. You do not work hard just for the sake of working hard. You find White women attractive.�

“As far as you being a banana – a white man trapped in an Asian body - I would like to qualify that you are not an American white man inside an Asian body but a European Existentialist - a Frenchman, Italian or Spaniard trapped in an Asian body. You are certainly not a modern Anglo-Saxon trapped in it.�
- My Cultural Consultant who is the Socrates of International Culture

“Winston you are now an Asian American Moses, and you are leading your people out of the “captivity� of boredom, loneliness, lovelessness and datelessness to the various promised lands of milk and honey, many honeys that is and milk is to come later. Lol.�
- My Cultural Consultant who is the Socrates of International Culture

“After reading all your ebooks and following your advice to visit Lithuania I did and met the love of my life. I really give you credit because you are 100% right. I'm never dating or going with a shallow, superficial American woman ever again. I would also like to let you know that I am getting married in MAY 2008. Keep up the good work Winston you do inspire people.“

“Just thought I’d say hi and tell you how much your writing inspired me…. I think people “need� to read what you’ve written�

“I enjoy your writing and you are one of the most inspiring dudes around. Main thing is you don't give a shit what other people (especially white) say about you - highly unusual, unfortunately, for any race of people, Chinese especially. So your stuff is absolutely awesome.�

“No B.S., you're a big, big inspiration and i'm glad to hear you're doing good in Angeles City. Sounds like heaven to me.�

“The stuff you recommend, winston, has always managed to utterly CHANGE MY LIFE. thank you for being an inspiration. you will never know how much it means to me!!!�
- Close female friend in Southern California

"I visited your website, happierabroad.com, and I agree with everything you write. You are my hero! You have spoken truths that many men do not understand. You have broken ground that many men have not........ You are an inspiration!"

“You are a hero for the underdog, proving that with balls and determination you can find fun, sex, love, and happiness…..�

“I'm currently 17 years old and like you I am a Chinese American. I love the ebooks you have online and I really enjoy hearing about your success with white women abroad. I have a research paper on "my hero" and I choose to do my report on you and your success.�

“Winston, YOU ARE MY HERO. Nobody can understand you and your noble quest unless they have lived in Russia. What drove you will drive any real man who goes there, but you had the courage and balls to stick out horrible shit that comes along with the beautiful women.�
(From my guestbook http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm)

“YOU ARE MY HERO TOO. Here I am with clinical depression feeling like I'm wasting my year after college and its honestly giving me hope browsing your photo collages and seeing that happiness is definitely possible, no matter who you are.�
- Asian American female Stanford graduate

“You are a champ. Most of us, even if we did find the holy grail would either be too selfish or more likely shy and embarrassed to ever come out publicly the way you have. Your generosity of spirit is truly amazing.�

“This guy is a legend!�
(Reference to me at http://www.freewebspace.net/forums/show ... ?t=2189614)

“Listen, you’re the man!�

"You are AWESOME!"

“You inspire me! Never change!!�
(From my guestbook http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm)

“You are the BEST VOICE out there for those who don’t fit in America.�

“Your ebook was refreshing. I thought I was the only one who thought this way about American social climate.�

“Your website truly is a treasure! It's making me more self-aware in areas that I may have been slipping into "typical American mode" in, and is opening my mind even more.�

“Dear Winston, I have just read your article Propaganda vs. real life in America. I only wish I could be so eloquent - its as if you have been reading my thoughts. I came here for over 20 years ago searching for the stars with my 2 kids.�
(From my guestbook http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm)

“I cannot express in words how impressed I am by your work and how accurate and true you are to yourself. I have lived in the US for the 13 years now, and I can't but agree with every single word you wrote……. Congratulations again on a job well done!!!!!�

“It took me a while to realize that there was a chasm of difference between the media picture of America and real life, but when the truth hit home, I felt very disappointed and empty. I even had a lapse of self-condemnation as I thought the problem was in me. I have gotten over it now and can see clearly. Your writing puts all the pieces of the puzzle together very well.�
- From a Russian immigrant

“I am from Athens, Greece. I came across your web site while googling trying to find web sites with articles about the differences between Europeans and Americans. I am writing an essay for one of my courses at college and I needed that kind of info. I have to admit that I was hooked up by your articles. Many of the situations that you describe were like a revelation to me.�

“A GREAT WEB SITE! Thanks for the many hours of work it took to put together. Also I curse you for the many hours I’ll spend reading it all. Thanks again.�
(From my guestbook http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm)

“Sir, first off, let me tell you in one word what I thought of your e-book...OUTSTANDING!!!!!!!!!! I'm currently reading it right now and it is great!!!�

“I have been reading the stories and adventures of Winston, and like the rest of you I'M IMPRESSED!!! ….. I am striking out on a BOLD and NEW path for my life such as Winston did. Though some of his writings were embrassing to say the least, I love how he persevered and finally got the girl of his dreams. WAY TO GO WINSTON..... “
(From my forum http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=444)

“Winston - what a fantastic site. Your trip to Russia makes me weep tears of laughter. Keep it up (as it were).�
(From my guestbook http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm)

“Winston, as I was watching your adventures, I was thinking what a lucky person you are to have experienced so many things - regardless if they were positive or negative. You did this on your own, and you should be proud of yourself. Most of your enemies simply sit and write behind a computer, but you have lived it - which means a lot more. Think of how many men in the US will never have the chance to do what you have done. I guess what I admire most about you is that you been willing to share your experiences with the rest of the world to enjoy, and I am happy to have come across your site 3 years ago…“

“Winston keep up the good work. I really feel you are one of the more intelligent and insightful individuals out there on the internet. I’m sure there are lots of American men of all backgrounds who agree with your articles. Ignore the naysayers and bitter Americans out there who want to bring you down to their level. Be yourself and be happy with life. Life is short and sometimes that’s all we can do is just be.�

“Cheers Winston, Keep the faith! As Teddy Roosevelt said, ‘The only man who never makes mistakes is the man who never does anything.’ You live your beliefs while your critics just sit back and second guess you...Godspeed!�
(From my guestbook http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm)

[Winston]

Here are some new quotes about me that I've collected that I like:


“I like Winston's style because he lets it all hang out and that allows others to make objective observations. Winston blitzes into the unknown with his hair on fire and, for better or worse, allows others to live vicariously though his exploits. Some may not agree with Winston's modus, among other things, but nobody can deny Winston is a trailblazer.�
(From my forum http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/vie ... php?t=3392)

�Winston talks the talk, and he walks the walk. Thats more then can be said for most. Kudos Winston.�
(From my forum http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/vie ... php?t=3392)

“Winston, ignore these bashers. As we say in the military, if you’re taking a lot of flak you must be flying over the target.�
- Retired military veteran

“After months and months of observing your views and actually reading through your articles, and experiencing various American people, I made a conclusion that you are correct and I fully agree with your views on Asian/American mentality vs European/Latin/Australian mentality. I would rather be happy and live life to the fullest than rot my life in bad quality with large money that cannot buy happiness. Thanks for your enlightening articles.�
- From a former critic of mine

“Winston the reason you are successful is that you admitted there was a problem and went outside the box to get what you want. Most people settle for what life puts right in front of them.�
- From a good friend who followed a similar path"

[Winston]

More new quotes about me that I just added:


"I thank you Winston from the bottom of my heart for showing me and other lonely men THE WAY to PARADISE and you beat out ALLLLLL of the PUA propaganda so called ( guru's and experts ) out there and you actually are OUT THERE DOING instead of just talking about it.

Those seduction books I use to buy are total GARBAGE compared to what YOU'VE proved and you put PUA artist and experts to complete shame with SIMPLICITY and REAL PROVEN SOLUTIONS WINSTON..."

"Thank you Winston for all of your help. Your knowledge and experiences are inspirational and GOLDEN and you are well liked and honored by MANY. Do not let the HATERS get you down. Because these types of people will not do for themselves, than to bash you all day in B.S. topics and post. Why don't they step outside the matrix and go abroad to be happy also?

Keep up the good work my friend. You're doing EXCELLENT !!!"

"It's such a wonderful time in my life and YOU are the person I thank for this guidance and for making HappierAbroad.com and giving lonely guys everywhere a chance at solutions and cure's to datelessness and hope to having a life that is fullfilled overseas. I'm so excited and so happy now Winston."

"Hi Winston, your site and stories are excellent. I think your detractors are envious and secretly admire you as well. Ken."
(From my guestbook: http://www.ultraguest.com/view/1200586414/3)

"Having been in band, I've done well with women in America, but I am very well travelled outside the US and only the blind could not see that what you say is true."
(From my guestbook: http://www.ultraguest.com/view/1200586414/2)

"Hi, I've not just read your advice, but I've followed it too! I'm so glad to leave the West because of all the heart-ache and problems with women who really don't want or need a man, so theres no use trying. Russia is poorer, but I don't need all the consumer sh*t & women don't expect me to buy it for them (what a relief). I hope more people think for themselves and Winston's site is great for free-thinkers."
(From my guestbook: http://www.ultraguest.com/view/1200586414/2)

"Winston's blogs and photojournals are epic! I have a new internet hobby now: reading Winston's stories.

I'm moving to St Petersburg in the new year and as I was researching I came across Happier Abroad, and I couldn't agree more with the overall message. Winston is absolutely right from my experiences. I had to go somewhere and then come back to see the light, but I definitely see it."
(From my forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/vie ... php?t=4278)