You are entitled to your anti-marriage stance.onezero4u wrote:hi Peter
welcome.
you sound like a helluva nice guy & very wealthy. that my friend is a horrible combination in today's marriage world.
why would you roll the dice on throwing away 70%+ of your wealth and potential earnings to a wife who is a false domestic violence charge away from divorcing you and getting most of your assets?
most woman (even high quality foreign woman) are court savvy and will work the divorce industry to separate a man from his wealth when she so chooses.
If i were in your shoes, i would focus on my career, travel, hobbies and pay for top shelf model escorts when i was in the mood.
dont let your kindness and willingness to be a good husband blind you to the true hazardous disadvantage reality that is marriage in this day and age.
bottom line, todays marriage = minimum payoff and fairness for men and maximum risk of financial ruin.
However I think you discount the desire for many men to have their own families and that belongs in a structured marriage, not just some random prostitute you banged one night a posh hotel in Paris.
Court room savvy is BS, why hire an incompetent lawyer? Then again the best protection against a nightmare scenario marriage is to MARRY THE RIGHT WOMAN which is easier than it sounds IMHO.
