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manly5000 wrote:Thanks for the input guys.

Arab -- Do any of those women speak english? They all seem to be on the east and west coast too, wish there was a way to seach by state so I can see if any are in/near Michigan.

Yes, the majority in the U.S. speak English .. I don't speak Russian, so we communicate in English.

You can filter it by state/area, but it is true most tend to be congregated in California, Florida, and NY. I don't think you would have much success focusing on strictly your area of Michigan .... you should be willing to travel and meet these girls.

Granted, I live in LA and gives me access to these girls in California, but I've met them in NY, Houston , San Francisco. A girl is coming from Moscow and got my number, and coming next month.

They are all down.I am down to travel and meet them in the U.S .. I'm a horny dog and I won't lie, and I cannot have enough of this p***y. I am addicted. I am not Winston however and understand these girls ... no one is getting suckered here !!

Just chatted with a 21 year old girl in NY, 9/10, and she asked to meet me. Literally moments ago.It's summer, it's the time of love, and it's literally Happier At Home lol. You have to be at least willing to travel within the U.S. and woo these girls ... get their numbers, get them on Skype, build rapport.

Use charisma and your personality to overwhelm them - I need to stress this. It is personality that wins them, of course you need looks. But looks alone will not help if you are awkward and stiff in conversation ... make them laugh, play with them, show intelligence and poise.

It's working for me, very well.

Phoenix Sosa wrote:
See if your area has a swinger club. They have memberships that are usually $30 and these places are private unless you have a membership. These places are fun to be in because lots of horny ass women go there just to f**k. No strings attached. No buying drinks, no sucking up to her, etc. All you do is find her in the club, talk or you don't even have to talk to her, just ask her if she wants to go to a room and f**k. You are not paying her to have sex either. All you are doing is paying the entry fee for the swinger club. Many swinger clubs allow single men to enter and they even have singles night.

ha, I could never bring myself to have sex around a bunch of other people (though I would love to watch).


In regards to the swingers, from my research, they are not really fond of single men, and in some places single men are not even allowed. What they are all looking for is young single women, they call them "mythical unicorns" because swing couples say they are hard to find.

Another thing about swing clubs is that it's really a female controlled environment, and basically the women have their pick on how they want to be serviced which is why they don't want young single men because they most likely won't listen. Seriously dude, from the guys that I have seen that were swingers they were P**** wipped and the WOMEN had most of the fun.

That said, seems like you got to aim high at the upscale clubs to avoid the not so good looking people that get together for a "romp in the hay"

http://www.killingkittens.com/

The Arab wrote:
Use charisma and your personality to overwhelm them - I need to stress this. It is personality that wins them, of course you need looks. But looks alone will not help if you are awkward and stiff in conversation ... make them laugh, play with them, show intelligence and poise.

I know that works but I'm so done with doing that s***. I'm tired of behaving like a clown just so another person (a stranger) will like me and accept me. It's probably why American relationships never last long anymore because they are built on fake personalities/dispositions.


I will save the clown mode for when a person I care about really needs their spirits lifted up after a set back, I think that's a much better use for it.

Adama wrote:I like the Ladislav route a little. There is a major downside though, which Ladislav himself alluded to. That is, if you sleep with that many women (I'd imagine it must be more than 300 in that many years), then when or if you finally want a monogamous relationship with a woman (for possible children), you may have ruined your ability to get aroused by her. That'd make both of you deeply unhappy.

That route though, is something I was working towards myself until the elites crashed our global economy. Plan was to move to South Florida and fly to Colombia once a month or so to get my fill. Now unfortunately I am lucky to have any job at all, and there's no way I could ever move because of the difficulty of obtaining a new position.

Ok, I take that comment as a medical issue since you stated the "inability to not be aroused":


I'm not a doctor, nor I want to come off like I know everything, but if there is indeed a marked decline of Ladislvs sexual prowess, in my opinion it may not have anything to do with the fact that he was with 300+ women because it's really a hormonal issue.

I'm sure you know as men get older certain hormones go into decline that subsequently make men feel less sexually aroused and more mellow. Not that he has to do it because his body is following the natural course, but a full panel blood test should be in order and from there he can decide what he wants to do such as use anabolic steroids and such or supplement with herbs that boost natural testosterone production.. http://www.directlabs.com/

Phoenix Sosa wrote:

Adama wrote:

Phoenix Sosa wrote:manly5000, where do you live? If you want to have sex, you have to let go of this "sex is sacred" thing. Sex is sex. These other men are having sex left and right, but you haven't had it in 2 years because it is sacred and you need to find some princess or something.

Here is my advice:

See if your area has a swinger club. They have memberships that are usually $30 and these places are private unless you have a membership. These places are fun to be in because lots of horny ass women go there just to f**k. No strings attached. No buying drinks, no sucking up to her, etc. All you do is find her in the club, talk or you don't even have to talk to her, just ask her if she wants to go to a room and f**k. You are not paying her to have sex either. All you are doing is paying the entry fee for the swinger club. Many swinger clubs allow single men to enter and they even have singles night.

Aren't they full of 50 year old women? And when they aren't, dont they usually have rules against men who dont bring their own women to share?

No, women are between 21-30. Singles are allowed to go to the club everyday. The one I go to is the bomb. I have never seen a fossil in this club. I haven't been in months though.

I used to live in Phoenix, AZ in the late 90's and out of desperation to get laid, for a short period of time I tried visiting many different local supposed "swinger" clubs at the time. They were all pretty lame in my opinion. Basically as a single male you had to pay $25+ at the door and only on certain days could single guys without a woman be allowed to go inside. Every time I went there it was just a bunch of weirdo dudes and maybe a handful of fat fugly women. There would be different rooms and there was a room with a large screen TV showing porno where guys could sit around and masturbate in front of everyone. All and all it was a waste of time and money. Maybe the nights where they limited single guys from going in were better but I think you can get laid faster using other methods. I still remember to this day one weird experience. I went to one once and it was dead and there was this short fat guy that had the smallest dick I had ever seen on a dude and he just walked around with his pants down beating off in front of everyone as he went from room to room. Then some guy brought his GF and she gave him a BJ in front of some guys who were around them in a circle beating off to it. Basically, it's more of a sausage fest and I think you'll be surrounded by lots of weirdos and if your alone you can easily feel sorry for yourself having to hang around these types of people who like trying to get off in public to others behaving in sexual ways. Your better off saving your money and going overseas to get laid then wasting your time at swinger clubs on your own, unless your willing to bring a girl you want other guys to bang along with you for a swap...

ladislav wrote:Meet your double. Very obssessed with sex, very horny, could not get any for years. Left the US, went to other f***ed up countries like Puerto Rico and Japan, but eventually ended up in Thailand and the Philippines. Now, 300+ women later- I mean it, and at 51, I have trouble getting it up or even thinking about sex. I am next to go go bars and thousands of girls but when you can get it any time you want, you don't need it as much. I guess that is what they call - getting it out of your system.

Anyway, google "worldsexguide" as well as "single male travel". Your best bet right now could be Costa Rica or Colombia. Get laid with a few tens of women first.
Also, you may want to check out places in Mexico in the same guide.
Getting married for sex is not a good thing, though.

http://www.naturalnews.com/032818_curry ... ibido.html

Spice up your sex life with this simple curry spice

Sunday, June 26, 2011 by: Jonathan Benson, staff writer

(NaturalNews) A new study conducted by researchers from both Applied Science and Nutrition, an Australia-based scientific and consulting company, and the University of Queensland's medical school have found that the curry spice fenugreek livens up a lot more than just food. Based in their findings, men who consume fenugreek regularly can boost their sex drives by as much as 25 percent, which can eliminate the need to take dangerous pharmaceuticals.

For its study, the team assigned 60 healthy men between the ages of 25 and 52 to take 600 milliliters (ml) of fenugreek twice daily for six weeks. Researchers monitored the participants' libido levels during this time, and noted a 28 percent average rise by the end of the trial period. A placebo group, on the other hand, saw their libido levels drop over the course of six weeks.

Researchers believe the active substances in fenugreek responsible for the positive benefits are saponins, a type of bioactive metabolite compound that helps regulate hormone levels and boost testosterone levels.

"It probably works to increase testosterone or androgen levels, which decrease with age," said Dr. Raj Persad, a consultant neurologist, in response to the findings. "If it's proven to be safe, this is good news. Men with good sexual health live longer than those who [sic] without."

Besides boosting sex drive, fenugreek is also known to help treat diabetes, lower blood sugar and bad cholesterol levels, maintain healthy metabolism, prevent constipation, purify blood and detoxify the body, and increase breast milk production in lactating women (http://www.naturalnews.com/030628_m...). And a traditional Chinese medicinal tea composed of fennel, flax, and fenugreek, is known to help treat coughs and colds, mucus buildup, irritable bowel syndrome, and Chron's disease (http://www.naturalnews.com/030842_f...).


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@Mr. S,

Thank you. Although I do not have health complications, it's always good to try to start now with having that knowledge to do so. Thanks again.