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Postby E_Irizarry » Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:47 am

MarkDY wrote:Last year I went to Bogota. I was 47 at the time and I was asked by a 20 year old. She was not aware of my age. When I told her my age, she said love doesn't know a number. We ended up spending the night together. I plan to see her again soon.


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Postby Google » Tue Sep 27, 2011 2:18 pm

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MarkDY wrote:Last year I went to Bogota. I was 47 at the time and I was asked by a 20 year old. She was not aware of my age. When I told her my age, she said love doesn't know a number. We ended up spending the night together. I plan to see her again soon.

That sounds awesome! Foreign women aren't as hung up on how old a guy is as long there is a romatic spark between her and the man. Just look at Art Bell and his Philippino wife she is 40 years younger than him! They got married when she was 21 and he was 61. Now they have a child and are very happy together.



Foreign women are different. About a month ago, my sister told me that on the street in the downtown, she was approached by a foreigner (he spoke very poorly in Russian) and asked if she knew where a good restaurant here. In appearance he was 43-46. After she advised him a good restaurant, he invited her to follow him there, but she refused. When I asked her why she did not go with him to the restaurant, she replied that this gentleman was too old for her and not attracted her, so she did not want to continue acquaintance with this mister. My sister wants to get acquainted with a guy no older than 30-34. That is, the difference is not more than 5-7 years.

If you meet ukrainian women that absolutely don't care about the age difference, then these women usually interested in your money. Percentage of those women for which , love is far more important than an age difference and your money is very low.
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Postby eurobrat » Tue Sep 27, 2011 2:46 pm

@Google

I don't think they are after "money" the same way as American women are. They are after "security" which money relates to.
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Postby magnum » Tue Sep 27, 2011 5:06 pm

Well, I'm looking for a woman who will stick with me rich or poor, who I'll dedicate the rest of my life to.

Not to imply I wont try to upgrade my income, I'm just not one of these guys that has to have a 3 story house and 5 cars, I'm happy with what I need, I guess you could say minimalist but that isn't to say I'm lazy or want to put minimum effort, I just don't need excess.


I think I'm going to have a hard time finding a asian girl who's ok with that!
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Postby eurobrat » Tue Sep 27, 2011 5:20 pm

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Postby jcris7 » Tue Sep 27, 2011 5:26 pm

magnum wrote:I'm just not one of these guys that has to have a 3 story house and 5 cars, I'm happy with what I need, I guess you could say minimalist but that isn't to say I'm lazy or want to put minimum effort, I just don't need excess.


I think I'm going to have a hard time finding a asian girl who's ok with that!


That description of yourself Magnum, fits me to a t. That's one of the reasons why I am considering staying unmarried. I don't know of too many women that would find my lifestyle appealing, but then again, I'm thinking of AW. They are out of the question, but that's good. They see my living arrangements (very clean, open, no excess, ZEN) and will run for the hills. One ignorant c**t even had the nerve to say to me "I don't like that you don't have a lot of things and your decor is very "oriental". Are you trying to be Japanese? Your place looks so bare and uninviting." BLAH BLAH BLAH.

Guess what. There's the door. OUT! I f***ing can't stand women who act like your place is theirs, and that they have license to change shit around to their own liking.
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Postby eurobrat » Tue Sep 27, 2011 6:00 pm

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Re: Realistic age gap in relationships?

Postby jcris7 » Tue Sep 27, 2011 6:10 pm

magnum wrote:I thought I'd throw this question.

Seeing as it's vary unlikely I'll have everything together before my late 20's or just about at 30, I was wondering at what point I'll have to start looking at older women as potential wives.

I'm not going to lie I really don't want to wed anyone in the late 20s, that's just my personal preference, I've always had it in my head to wed a younger woman but I'm worried now that I'm getting older "26" that my options are going to be vary thin when it comes to younger women, so maybe a few of the better informed could give me a little more light on the subject.

my preference are japanese and korean, maybe chinese and thai women, and I'm rather sure japanese/korean women only tolerate 2 to 3 years of a age difference, but I'm not so sure.

I'm guessing for thai and chinese women it isn't as big of a deal, though I'm sure the quality of the women I could get will go down substantially the older I get.


When you get into your late 40s/early 50s, you can go for the Silver Fox look, which is what I'll be doing. I pull off business attire quite well, and had platinum blonde hair once, in my early 20s. It worked quite nicely, so I have a good template of an appearance that will work for me when I age. If you can pull it off, you'll get a lot of women 10-20, maybe 30 years your junior (if you stay in good physical shape). Its a powerful masculine image -- commands respect and authority.

Google images for "silver fox image" "silver fox man" etc.
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Postby rome86 » Tue Sep 27, 2011 6:11 pm

i do not care i just want my balls to be drained all the time
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Lala land

Postby polya » Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:06 pm

Your living in a dream world to think age doesn't matter to foreign women - they actually want a nice looking young man too - however, they will be more willing to accept an older man if he has other qualities like he's faithful, nind, not a drunk. Unlike US women who won't accept less than the perfect guy - like the sex and the city girls said: "Why should I settle [for him], when I can have everything I want" This "dream" sums up trashy US women better than anything I've seen.
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Re: Lala land

Postby The_Hero_of_Men » Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:12 pm

polya wrote:Your living in a dream world to think age doesn't matter to foreign women - they actually want a nice looking young man too - however, they will be more willing to accept an older man if he has other qualities like he's faithful, nind, not a drunk. Unlike US women who won't accept less than the perfect guy - like the sex and the city girls said: "Why should I settle [for him], when I can have everything I want" This "dream" sums up trashy US women better than anything I've seen.



Does this hold true for older foreign women? I am just curious
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Postby magnum » Tue Sep 27, 2011 8:51 pm

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I always thought a coat, a dress shirt, blue jeans and watever shoes you want was a good enough style choice.


I figure it's casual but sleek at the same time.

And I've always tended to brush my hair back, almost slicked back a lot of the time, but that just depends on length of my hair and the day.

But on the flip side, I think a man should dress in what he wants too, we're looked at under such a relentless microscope nowdays you forget sometimes you need to make your self happy and stop worrying about femanazies and what they think.
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Postby jamesbond » Tue Sep 27, 2011 9:12 pm

rome86 wrote:i do not care i just want my balls to be drained all the time


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Re: Lala land

Postby steve55 » Tue Sep 27, 2011 11:07 pm

polya wrote:Your living in a dream world to think age doesn't matter to foreign women - they actually want a nice looking young man too - however, they will be more willing to accept an older man if he has other qualities like he's faithful, nind, not a drunk. Unlike US women who won't accept less than the perfect guy - like the sex and the city girls said: "Why should I settle [for him], when I can have everything I want" This "dream" sums up trashy US women better than anything I've seen.


Well, filipinas are actually an exception. For them marriage is more about family and faith, so maturity is very valued. With western woman, its about youth , looks, and flash and level of employment. Im no expert on russian or Latin woman's age preferences but I suspect they run somewhere between Western and Filipina preferences. Ive had 9 years of experience in asking all kinds of questions of filipinas, to see what they are are really like and want. Fact is, most filipinas DO want a guy 10-15 years her senior, and will "tolerate" or be receptive and open to a guy 20-30 yrs her senior, this applies whether the man is a filipino or a foreigner. Go see the desired age preferences of filipinas on cherry blossoms or other filipina sites. About 30-40% dont say "any age ", but for example, a early 20's girls will say "looking for age 35 to 50. They will actually get specific. If t hey were just "desperate" they may not show any age preference and list "any age" but many do and when they do get specific, its a very large age gap they seek. They are very sensitive to wanting a man who is mature, knows how to raise a family, knows how to take care of things in life, who is less likely to party , cause a ruckus, and chase skirts etc. About Money? Well, sure , older guys are more financially stable and established, but its only a small factor in the "maturity" factor that they are so attracted to. They certainly dont think of it as "he's old so he must be loaded or well off, so Ill flex on the age thing". I havent researched the average age difference between filipinos and filipinas who m arry, but I would be shocked if most are less than 7-10 years apart. Maybe the CIA fact sheet would shed some light on that.
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Postby Dogboy86 » Wed Sep 28, 2011 12:35 am

Dang you all have this over grown American guy ready to slit his wrists because I'm 37... I got hit on and a number from a cute 19 year old a couple days ago at a market near my house. Can it be not as good abroad? Just woundering....
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