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What is the verdict on Chinese women? Dominant or Submissive

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Postby Fenix » Tue Nov 22, 2011 5:42 am

I have known them for a couple of years and they have never tried to manipulate me or ask me for anything. Maybe I am the exception? One of the girls is married anyway (husband is Chinese). The other has never really had a boyfriend.
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Postby Winston » Tue Dec 27, 2011 8:57 pm

Taco wrote:
Phoenix Sosa wrote:The ones I talk to are submissive.


Thats because your not married to them. It's standard Chinese practice for the husband to hand over his paycheck to his wife on payday, no exceptions. Also, nagging your husband, 24/7 is considered normal in China.


I love the way Chinese women nag. It looks so cute and feminine. I actually get turned on by it. lol

I especially like when they say in a sweet feminine voice, "Jung de ma?" (Oh really?) That is so sexy and feminine. It turns me on big time. Nothing compares to it.

I also love when they mutter "Hmph" in that sexy Chinese female voice. If you've seen Chinese movies, you know what I mean.
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Re: What is the verdict on Chinese women? Dominant or Submis

Postby jamesbond » Sun Jun 05, 2016 3:16 pm

David Bowie's music video, "China Girl." :D

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Postby Adama » Sun Jun 05, 2016 3:52 pm

Winston wrote:
Taco wrote:
Phoenix Sosa wrote:The ones I talk to are submissive.


Thats because your not married to them. It's standard Chinese practice for the husband to hand over his paycheck to his wife on payday, no exceptions. Also, nagging your husband, 24/7 is considered normal in China.


I love the way Chinese women nag. It looks so cute and feminine. I actually get turned on by it. lol

I especially like when they say in a sweet feminine voice, "Jung de ma?" (Oh really?) That is so sexy and feminine. It turns me on big time. Nothing compares to it.

I also love when they mutter "Hmph" in that sexy Chinese female voice. If you've seen Chinese movies, you know what I mean.


I like your answer, Winston. This is what I am going to go with.

Nowadays I know it is an individual thing. It isn't at the national, ethic or racial level. It is different for each individual woman. I didn't know that back then.
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Re: What is the verdict on Chinese women? Dominant or Submis

Postby Taco » Thu Jun 09, 2016 10:49 pm

Wealthy and middle class women have a divorce rate that is 5 times higher than poor women. The main problem is they (unofficially) refuse to accept their husband as the leader of the family.

A. Wealthy Chinese women - dominant
B. Middle Class Chinese women - dominant
C. Poor Chinese women - submissive

The correct answer is C. If you choose poor Chinese women your going to have a pleasant experience.
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Re: What is the verdict on Chinese women? Dominant or Submis

Postby xiongmao » Fri Jun 10, 2016 12:10 pm

It also depends where the woman is from. Generally South = Submissive, North = Dominant, Shanghai = Super Dominant.

I find the dominant ladies more fun to be with, the submissive ones can get boring after a while.
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Postby Taco » Mon Jun 13, 2016 12:21 pm

xiongmao wrote:
I find the dominant ladies more fun to be with, the submissive ones can get boring after a while.


Yeah, if you consider sex boring otherwise you'll be dealing with this everyday...

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Re: What is the verdict on Chinese women? Dominant or Submis

Postby Lorenzo » Mon Jun 13, 2016 4:01 pm

I never had a long enough relationship with a Chinese lady to find out, but I definitely self-selected for the more gentle type.

My friend who is a divorce lawyer here in the USA told me "absolutely do not marry a Chinese woman, they will run the house and your affairs and become very dominant as they age." The real question is, what will you experience long term when the honeymoon period is over? On this subject a Chinese woman's view is that "your money is our money, my money is mine" and she will want to control the finances.

You break this behavior early by f*****g her brains out relentlessly and letting her know you are an alpha and not to be crossed. By establishing your strength and dominance early you are less likely the have confusion with roles and leadership later - or you will have the defining conflict and walk away before its too late. Too many guys with Asian women act like wusses and probably are ones. My Asian wife knows I'm the boss and respects me for it and likes the strength. My ex-Chinese shorter term GF called me her manly man (implying the China guys were not) and it turned her on..she got the wood non-stop! Chinese women love the experience of being f****d and dominated by an alpha. Get a young one...
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Re: What is the verdict on Chinese women? Dominant or Submis

Postby Taco » Mon Jun 13, 2016 11:34 pm

The unofficial national sport in China is wife beating. I found this out my first week I was there when I walked by a drunk guy beating his screaming wife. I just wonder if its the result of built up frustration from having a dominant wife yelling at them all the time.
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Re: What is the verdict on Chinese women? Dominant or Submis

Postby The_Adventurer » Tue Jun 14, 2016 4:11 am

Taco wrote:The unofficial national sport in China is wife beating. I found this out my first week I was there when I walked by a drunk guy beating his screaming wife. I just wonder if its the result of built up frustration from having a dominant wife yelling at them all the time.


That might be slowly changing. I used to see it like every week when I first got here in 2010, but I haven't seen one in the last couple of years.
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Postby chanta76 » Tue Jun 14, 2016 5:12 am

The_Adventurer wrote:
Taco wrote:The unofficial national sport in China is wife beating. I found this out my first week I was there when I walked by a drunk guy beating his screaming wife. I just wonder if its the result of built up frustration from having a dominant wife yelling at them all the time.


That might be slowly changing. I used to see it like every week when I first got here in 2010, but I haven't seen one in the last couple of years.[/quote^"]

Honestly i think in almost every male dominate society there was wife beating to a degree. Look at the remaining male centric society and you still have this behavior. Im not saying its always right but it does keep control.

In the west a man would go to jail if he did that. It got so that sometimed women beat on the man.
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