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Let me guess, you found this site from the Jezebel blog right? That's why you are referencing that page. Well sorry but your advice is totally naive, cliched and does not work. Let me tell you why in simple terms.oscarman wrote:Hi, i just finished reading this: http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page73.htm and i think i see quite a few problems with thinking this way. This goes for anyone who thinks the same.
First of all, stop hating yourself.
Ok, no one can completely stop being self conscious, but you've got to have some kind of respect for yourself. In that article, i noticed so many times when you were putting yourself down. This goes for anyone, think about how you are treating yourself. If you don't love you, how do you expect anyone else to love you?
Second of all, you really need to sort your priorities out. Stop looking for girls. Just stop it. Start making yourself busy. Go do stuff. You will meet people if you are doing lots of exciting things. Being under pressure is never a good thing, you've got to give yourself a break, have fun and you will find people. This will also help you meet more friends.
Find the good points about yourself. And if you don't think you have any good points, go do something about it. Go learn guitar, go get fit, go learn martial arts (if you are asian especially, cause bruce lee is a f***ing dude).
And if you can't do these things, then you gotta sort your shit out, because that probably means you are depressed.
By the way, this ACTUALLY f***ing WORKS. I am the living proof. You just gotta be happy.
oscarman wrote:Stop looking for girls. Just stop it. Start making yourself busy. Go do stuff. You will meet people if you are doing lots of exciting things.
oscarman wrote:By the way, this ACTUALLY f***ing WORKS. I am the living proof.