This forum could be a great source of information in regards to living happily abroad. I've seen a few links that interested me from a black man's perspective. I'm interested in reading more. There's just not that much out there. Feel free to add links that you know of about the topic:
- Countries That Love Black Men (Revised) viewtopic.php?t=9943 - an international overview that includes women of all races
- Why don't black Americans go to Africa to find a woman? viewtopic.php?t=11578 - a discussion on why some black men do or don't feel that Africa would be the right region for them
Snippets of conversation that should be expanded upon:
E_Irizarry wrote:I don't like the Nigerians I met stateside: very narcissistic, semi-Americanized (although they are more UK-ized more than anything but want to be like America so damn badly).skateboardstephen wrote:
I like Nigerian women they are great.But if Brasil where not my target culture i would have targeted some other lusophone country in Africa like Angola or Cape Verde.
I met a couple of cool I.T. dudes from The Gambia and Ivory Coast respectively. Very f***ing bright and algorithmic-oriented.
I met some cool-ass Cameroonian and Senegalese cats at church (I don't believe in church religiously; I believe in it sexually for the FW's there- I burn in hell boo who!) in Texas.
Yeah I'm interested in Angola and Cape Verde, too; they come in a whooping 2nd place right behind Brasil in the Afro-Porto department. But I also want to check out Equatorial Guinea, as it's the only Spanish-speaking country in Africa.
Don't f**k with Mozambique even though it's Lusophone/Porto. I looked on Tag_ged punto com, and those chics were demasiada fea. Que asco! Yucks.
But I still think that Eritrean, Somalian, and Ethiopian women are the hottest African women hands-the-f**k-down.
Winston wrote:This black listener told me that he found UK women to be pretty approachable and down to earth, and he said to avoid black women.
Comments: man i think you are on to something with the fakeness of america. I was in the uk to visit family and man the women in the uk are so approachable its not funny. Now do not get me wrong I was not hitting on them but man they were so nice just to talk to even if they were married. You could have a general conversation with them and not feel threatend.
There were some bitches now but most people in the Uk say those types are Americanized.They dress and act like music videos or films that they have seen come from America. In my opinion most guys avoid those women.
My cousin a black male in the Uk is dating a woman from Zimbabewae and boy she has the sweetiest attitude I ever meet. I have never meet a black woman from America who was as nice and humble as her.
I think most America guys just suffer from low self-esteem due to believing they do not fit into the ideal of being successful. I use to be compared to guys who made millions or had big cars etc in my area by black woman. I am a black man and im teling you most black woman have such a nasty attitude it turns men off. They want to be as strong as a man but not as sweet as a woman. That is why most guys I know go for foreign woman.
I like what you do I do recommend one thing try and do a series or page about men who have been burned by foreign woman. Help other men avoid woman who just want there greencards or money by marriage and then divorcing their spouse. You see I married a black woman from Jamaica and man my family is Jamaican and I wish I had this advice im giving you. Jamaican woman have it rough being a poor country. They want out by any means neccesary that even means marriage.
I talked to so many people who have to deal with what i went threw which was when she came here she was so nice but when she finally got her greencard she changed. She cheated on me, stole, and gave me an std. After she finally got all her papers I had to leave due to her abusing me. I have meet men who went threw the same thing. We all agreed we were dreamers who got scammed. We did not know who we were marrying.
So please help other men avoid such drama like so what I had to go thew. Great site I love it.
skateboardstephen wrote: I think some of us are delusional when it comes to how us black men think non black women view us.Even in a lot of Latin American cultures blacks are looked down on as the lowest people.There are brasilian women(and men) who are afro-brasilian but if they can pass as brown or pardo they will completely deny being black (that is if they don't look obviously black) or if they are mestiça they self identify as white just any thing but black.And a lot them love white guys.
The most love i have gotten from Latinas have been black latina women 99% of the time and they were not loud and ghetto. There are fine ass black women with a rich culture in Uruguay,Bolivia ,Paraguay no one even talks about these countries and they love black American men.To know these women exist and say that black women are just shit women is crazy.
skateboardstephen wrote: Every time i mention a country full of decent looking black women no one addresses it because because no one wants to see em portrayed as anything other than ugly loud mouth ghetto women because no one likes to be contradicted i guess.
http://youtu.be/b6W641ThOHI
Books and other media: So far I've only read Don't Blame it on Rio. I've also watched the pbs documentary Black in Latin America as well as the documentary Frustrated.
What I'm curious to know from guys who have done this is:
- What were you (personally) looking for in a black woman?
- Where is she from?
- How did you first meet her?
- What tips/advice would you give to guys that want to meet foreign born black women?