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Have You Ever Had A Girlfriend That Didn't Stress You Out?

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Girlfriend That Didn't Stress You Ou

Postby NorthAmericanguy » Mon May 07, 2012 5:55 pm

Taco wrote:When I first start dating someone everything is fine for the first few months and as the relationship progresses I find myself wanting to run like hell before something bad happens, it doesn't seem to matter which country she's from. As my girlfriends want more and more commitment from me I have an overwelming desire to leave them. Has anyone else experienced this?



In my case, all my GF's stressed me out (some more then others). The reason why is because even if you're doing everything right, they look for things that you're doing wrong, or they just start fights just for the sake of it, and it just gets annoying after a while.

As a matter of fact, my last GF openly admitted to me that she would like to start fights. Here is the deal though, I believe that women try to stress out guys just to see how much they will put up with and if they will stick around and take the abuse. It's their version of testing how much you love/care about them to I guess see if you will stick around after they have a baby.

The only guys who don't seem to be stressed out over girls is the genuine badboys/playboys, because they DO THE STRESSING, or rather, they make their women jump through the hoops and chase them, either intentionally or unintentionally.
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Postby C.J. » Tue May 08, 2012 2:27 am

Have You Ever Had A Girlfriend That Didn't Stress You Out? I did, all of them weren't stressful at all. But my relationships up to now have been short and sweet affairs.

Hey Taco! The filipina I'm talking to now is kinda like your Filipina A(changes are bolded) - 38 yrs old, 4 kids, hard worker, no job, old house w/ NO air conditioning, not sure about daddy issues, nympho-maniac tendencies(it seems like she wants to violate me, regardless of my looks, what's up with that? haha)

I don't talk to multiple women though(or tell them about each other), I only focus on one chick(probably a bad idea). I find just choosing a chick is less work than deciding later. :D
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Postby Taco » Tue May 08, 2012 4:10 pm

C.J. wrote:Hey Taco! The filipina I'm talking to now is kinda like your Filipina A(changes are bolded) - 38 yrs old, 4 kids, hard worker, no job, old house w/ NO air conditioning, not sure about daddy issues, nympho-maniac tendencies[b](it seems like she wants to violate me, regardless of my looks, what's up with that? haha


You can expect to be violated 24/7 including on your birthday, national holidays, if you lose your job, if your in a body cast etc...
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Postby leavingusa » Wed Jun 20, 2012 12:54 am

Hell yeah it's all part of the plan.

Why you think we all have the same answers? haha

Stress you out and break you down while isolating you from your support network. Because men can't handle continuous nagging, we crack under stress.

That's why you have to get away.
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Re: Have You Ever Had A Girlfriend That Didn't Stress You Ou

Postby Jester » Fri Sep 07, 2012 6:12 am

NorthAmericanguy wrote:
Taco wrote:When I first start dating someone everything is fine for the first few months and as the relationship progresses I find myself wanting to run like hell before something bad happens, it doesn't seem to matter which country she's from. As my girlfriends want more and more commitment from me I have an overwelming desire to leave them. Has anyone else experienced this?



In my case, all my GF's stressed me out (some more then others). The reason why is because even if you're doing everything right, they look for things that you're doing wrong, or they just start fights just for the sake of it, and it just gets annoying after a while.

As a matter of fact, my last GF openly admitted to me that she would like to start fights. Here is the deal though, I believe that women try to stress out guys just to see how much they will put up with and if they will stick around and take the abuse. It's their version of testing how much you love/care about them to I guess see if you will stick around after they have a baby.

The only guys who don't seem to be stressed out over girls is the genuine badboys/playboys, because they DO THE STRESSING, or rather, they make their women jump through the hoops and chase them, either intentionally or unintentionally.


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Postby ringspun » Sun Sep 16, 2012 11:48 am

I never found one yet, I find my life simple when single and traveling, when I get with a girl I end up with all her emotional baggage, children, financial crap and then it gets too much and I get out before its too late!
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