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Hey Doc (not gonna call you short Doc, cause that doesn't feel right to me). The real issue is this. Do you want these American women? Somewhere between the guy who says you can do whatever you want if you have confidence and the guy who says nothing will help is the truth. But so what? Who will you end up with? Someone probably not worthy of you anyway.
I have to assume you make more than enough cash to get on a plane, so that should be your strategy.
You can buy thousands of dollars in fishing equipment but if the fishing hole is dry you aren't gonna catching anything. And when the fishing hole is teaming with fish, all you have to do is stick your hand in there.
So stop worrying about what you're doing wrong here and start finding a better fishing hole - or any other kind of hole that suits your fancy. I wanna hear a trip report from you soon - and I hope it's graphic
Don't even bother with these women it's just a total waste of time especially someone with your status. I guarantee you things are much better overseas and you will be appreciated.
I think you have gotten confused and are taking one nurse's comment too seriously. It's possible, of course, that you might have some kind of negativity complex and seek out people who specifically are not interested in you, however this seems unlikely. If you are looking for a fling, there are many people on this forum who can offer better advice than I can. If on the other hand you are looking for a long-term relationship, there are several things you need to remember. 1. You need to consider someone's values and lifestyle as more important than their looks or initial reactions. 2. Many ladies appreciate a slow approach to courtship. This is true worldwide. It might mean that you can say something nice to them once a week for a few weeks, then twice a week for a few weeks, and now at week 5 ask to invite her for something simple and fun, week 6 something finally romantic like a nice dinner, and don't forget to give her a kiss afterwards when you say goodbye.
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I'm 5' 6" - height is one thing women DO seek in a man.
Of course it's all relative and you just need to date shorter women! In my case 5' 3" women are the tallest I really go for. Just date Filipinas - some on my site are 4' 5". God, they must be tiny. These petite girls are very sexy though, and if they ever start nagging you just pick them up and put them in their place lol.
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